1. abhi said he came for milli,so knew previously itself that they r invited for this occassion. 2. abhi said "mere pass tumhari phaltu ki baat ke liye waqt nahi hai " so that means abhi was not ready to hear a single word from her(doesnt that make sense for her),then y did she go to his office,i think in every office ther is a place for vistors,y did office didnot have one.and the way she came to ask abhi was also not correct and simi talking about family respect where is it i think nakul had smashed that on mata ki chowki itself,
3.abhi blaming her parents is nowhere good.
4. as we all know that abhi knew simi very well,her concern towards her family,y is he having problems now,(BM)i think she has dumbed him twice for her family's sake didn't he understand at that time.(AM)the frist day at dhaba she is crying for her mom,she left him alone in morning,she walked out the at night when abhi made arrangements for romantic dinner,simi blaming abhi y did he took money from omi,he did not feel this as an insult ,bcoz at that time he was jobless,now after getting job and SR being over he feels the insult,
5.where is that abhi who told" mein bhi nahi chahta hun ki tum jindaghi bhar aansoo bhati raho ek aise adami se shaddi kar ke jo tumhe janta tak nahi hai jo tumhe jannneh ke kabil bhi nahi hai" and he says "mein apni patni ko achee tarhe se pechchanta hun"the promise which he said during the marriage" kasam hai koi bhi mari simi ko aaj ke baad koi taqleef deka toh dikyhe" then what abhi is doing after knowing her so well.those dialogues were of no use .now he has stared hurting in words and physically too.
6. abhi accussing simi for bhalla's nautanki,he is feeling the humilation, so on the frist morning of simi abhi at dhabba the humiliation that simi would have felt to be called a call girl ,was that less humilating.and now when abhi boss said she is his elder sister the pain that simi would have felt is unbearable.
7.the tone and language abhi used was very wrong,(RS)the person who himself respected so much how can he say "tumhare baap ke ghar mein----------------" .i dont think vishaal has said bakwass, abhi had issues with simi ,so he had insulted simi infront of every body on thursday
itself "yeh hai hi intni achee ki koi bhi inke pechee pada jata hai.it was a insult for a wife not for the family(it means he doesn't trust her anymore)
8.and s very important point what abhi said she does not cares about her husbands respect(izzat) very true 1000% ,
9. what does that mean " ab baas mujhe apne tarike se jine dho"so does that means he not willing to continue his marriage.
10. i could only get this that before marriage everthing is fair in love and war,but after marriage nothing is fair.
so in what way does omi's and abhi's situations r different,omi is facing so much of humilation in front of others,and at the begining from neetu too,abhi's situation is far better than omi.i think its all about understanding and love towards each other forgives past.
last but not least the love,care ,understanding that they had before marriage is lost after marriage
Edited by nimi2b4u - 15 years ago