RS - good man, failed father ?

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Posted: 15 years ago
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My little girl likes to pluck pretty flowers on her way back form school, for me. I always suggest she pick fallen ones instead of plucking from plants, but only after lavishly praising the floral gift. It is working - she looks for fallen but not bruised ones now, and is always late getting home 😊.
I have always maintained that while RS is a good man he is not a good father, and I stand vindicated today. A mature man should be able to appreciate the intention behind the act, even if he disagrees with the execution of it. And any father knows comparisons between siblings are a parenting no-no, they can hurt feelings and undermine confidence even create mutual resentment. RS is doing to Anuj exactly what Manju did to Simi - unfavourably compare with her son, which explains Simi's craving to please Mummy and feeling of inadequacy when she can't.
RS could have emotionally thanked Anuj for his gesture. Later he could have told Anuj that this will hurt Anita so they should redeem the kangans and together find another way to raise funds. RS could have lagaoed some senti line like 'bahu toh ghar ki lakshmi hai aur uske gehne ghar ki izzat' (can't take credit, saw this on another show 😆). Thus 2 birds with 1 stone - bond again with Anuj and show that Anita matters as the bahu.

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Posted: 15 years ago
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bana i totally agree to this point that he could have told Anuj that we can find another way to get money and giving away bahu's kangan is not the right thing
but i don't understand what the hell did he do with the FD !!
I wished RS would have asked him what did u do with the FD money?? if the moeny is encashed then why not make use of it
RS has to communicate well with his son so that he can bond with him ...

Simi is close RS but I also want Anuj to start building the same bond with him .. Its not difficult Anuj if he also puts effort..

Now RS is going to go in deeper shock when he comes to know that RB is trying to dupe him big time !!

I see a similar case in Abhi with his dad also !


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Posted: 15 years ago
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i agree with u Bana ..... i was like Anju ne aisa kya guna kardiya.... RS never gave anuj a chance to speak and i dont blame anuj being so irritated and ziddi later on arre RS should have appreciated that his son tried to help him with out him asking help, ok granted not to take money was his decision .... but always comparing him and Simi Simi and Simi bus karo yaar.... for once i agree wotj anitha ...... RS would never let anuj take simis place ..... i felt bad and sad for tha guy ... jaisa bhi ho atleast he tried to think ....
May be rs would have accepted itf it was from simi ... though he said simi wont do anything like tha \t .......... simi emotional or wat ever crap bolke manalethi .......
well disappointed again

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