Originally posted by: ramas
even if they love each other I am sure the ego issue will enter as simi bullies abhi all the time and try to be in control. Let us not forget they are individuals and I repeat both have strong personalities. May be abhi is ignoring everything right now because he loves simi right now and they are not living together. But once they do they will have different ideas as abhi feels simi pays to much attention to her family and very little to him. we all know simi will not change that much. So that will be first and formost reason. true all the fights start and become big issue. Anita will do this if simbhi are married soon and may be create problens in their and invlove simi.
I really feel simbhi should wait and they both should understand each other. before taking a big step, Mostly simi needs work on being more understaning towards abhi and their relationship otherwise she will be torned completely and will not be able to give justice to abhi or his love.
ramas,
What I mean to say is, its in ones own hands how much to let ego come in between you and since they are mature individuals and good individuals, thats my expectation from them. They are more than mature for their age and think about others happiness. Then in that case, I would expect them to show their maturity and understanding when the issue involves either one of them or both.
Yes Abhi knows that Simi will always give her family's requirements the highest priority and that can create issues between them, but as an understanding individual compromises are required. It is not a must that Abhi has to do that compromise all the time. There is a way of doing it and I expect Abhi being maturer than Simi, to take it upon himself and get Simi understand where she is going wrong. Only he can help her. Its not an easy task but it is also not an impossible task. I know I cannot compare with other tv serials, but I would def like to mention that thats exactly what is currently happening in Choti Bahu and thats an example of how it can be done....
It would be good if they can develop their relation and understand each other before they plung in the "ocean", but Simi def doesn't have time on her hand.
Edited by bee5 - 15 years ago