creatives plz let abhi simi enjoy this period

I like not to see the wedding of abhi simi as of yet. I don't think they are ready for man and wife relationship. First of all abhi is too young though he has matured a lot being with simi taking care of her. Simi has gone in other direction totally depending upon abhi. Some times I wonder what did she do upto now whern abhi was not in her life.

Any ways I like abhi to prepare simi for life befoe he marries and teach her to live for herself first. then live for others to save them both lots of heartaches. Abhi simi both are strong personalities . So sooner ir later ego will become a big issue in their relationship. marraige takes lots of adjustment. So first and fornost they need to truly undestand each other spending more time together. They need a dating period where they can romance and understand each other. Now that their relationship is out in open they can meet each other without fear. also spend this time winnig all who oppose to their relationship.

This time used wisely give abhi some financial stability. Abhi needs to focus on his career to support both of them. SO i hope we see lots of romance from Simbhi without tying knot so soon. and may be have wedding when they all approve.

ramas,

you have put some serious thoughts out here.

Yes, their relationship needs to grow given their confession itself was a hurried one. Abhi needs to concentrate on his career (or finish his education first?).

Ego IMO, need not be an issue, if they let it not to be. Thats something that depends on the 2 ppl who are involved in their relationship, how they deal with small small issues (which sometimes are the biggest reasons for ego to develop. When you really think back, biggest issues are caused by ver small/silly issues and not big issues). Both being good individuals, mature, thinking, selfless, caring people along with atleast 1 parent acceptance, ego can be controlled to a great extent without having to let it ruin the relationship.

I agree to everything you say, they need to concentrate on their individual responsibilities as well as understand each other before they dive into the harsh realities of everyday married life, but, but, will Manju be ok with it? Will even RS be ok with it? Simi is 30 and from a middle-class society, younger sisters marriages are pending .. (set aside Neetu's pregnancy). Given all these circumstances, how long can Abhi & Simi get for themselves to develop their relationship?

Originally posted by: bushraurooj

totally agree to both of you but considering anita's wickedness i strongly feel they should get married... though she can apply her tactics even after they get married, but chances of the tactics effecting the duo are less coz they'll be staying together hence abhi can figure it out easily...............

oh btw they've already shown the promo of simbhi ki mandir mein shaadi.......abhi is filling simi's maang............

Originally posted by: bee5

ramas,

you have put some serious thoughts out here.

Yes, their relationship needs to grow given their confession itself was a hurried one. Abhi needs to concentrate on his career (or finish his education first?).

Ego IMO, need not be an issue, if they let it not to be. Thats something that depends on the 2 ppl who are involved in their relationship, how they deal with small small issues (which sometimes are the biggest reasons for ego to develop. When you really think back, biggest issues are caused by ver small/silly issues and not big issues). Both being good individuals, mature, thinking, selfless, caring people along with atleast 1 parent acceptance, ego can be controlled to a great extent without having to let it ruin the relationship.

I agree to everything you say, they need to concentrate on their individual responsibilities as well as understand each other before they dive into the harsh realities of everyday married life, but, but, will Manju be ok with it? Will even RS be ok with it? Simi is 30 and from a middle-class society, younger sisters marriages are pending .. (set aside Neetu's pregnancy). Given all these circumstances, how long can Abhi & Simi get for themselves to develop their relationship?

Originally posted by: mesimi

They need to have some quality time. But has Simi really become a bold girl? Bold enough to voice her opinion and say she wants to marry Abhi only. She is happy when her dad agrees to their relationship, she is quickly sad when her mom says no. So will she really fight for her love.

The creatives would not have brought in Nakul, Daadi without a reason.

Is it still possible that Simi may be asked to marry Nakul.

If Vicky ditches Neetu or if he is forced to when Nakul comes to know about Neetu/Vicky, Neetu will still be considered for Omi in spite of her pregnancy. Then In that condition, Simi has to agree to get married to Nakul. Then again the lamb is ready for sacrifice. And Simi will whole heartedly do so for Neetu's sake and then again, Abhi stands alone. She might still expect him to understand ghar ki situation???

What say? What possibility?

Originally posted by: mesimi

The creatives would not have brought in Nakul, Daadi without a reason.

Is it still possible that Simi may be asked to marry Nakul.

If Vicky ditches Neetu or if he is forced to when Nakul comes to know about Neetu/Vicky, Neetu will still be considered for Omi in spite of her pregnancy. Then In that condition, Simi has to agree to get married to Nakul. Then again the lamb is ready for sacrifice. And Simi will whole heartedly do so for Neetu's sake and then again, Abhi stands alone. She might still expect him to understand ghar ki situation???

What say? What possibility?

Originally posted by: mesimi

They need to have some quality time. But has Simi really become a bold girl? Bold enough to voice her opinion and say she wants to marry Abhi only. She is happy when her dad agrees to their relationship, she is quickly sad when her mom says no. So will she really fight for her love.

The creatives would not have brought in Nakul, Daadi without a reason.

Is it still possible that Simi may be asked to marry Nakul.

If Vicky ditches Neetu or if he is forced to when Nakul comes to know about Neetu/Vicky, Neetu will still be considered for Omi in spite of her pregnancy. Then In that condition, Simi has to agree to get married to Nakul. Then again the lamb is ready for sacrifice. And Simi will whole heartedly do so for Neetu's sake and then again, Abhi stands alone. She might still expect him to understand ghar ki situation???

What say? What possibility?

OMG, thats satyanaash of the whole simple story and making into a K-ekta serial. I will def stop watching if it goes into any such direction....😡

no offense mesimi, thats just my opinion.