Improper conduct or not??????? - Page 4

well there was a change a while back from creatives in 90's early 2000, with more racier topics such as (dare I say) sex, extra marital affairs, and the ultimate : kissing on the lips on tv... all with a purpose of supporting the story of course...

Originally posted by: iamindian

In the west (eg Hollywood) there are soo many cases of women getting married to younger men.. AND THAT's WHY THERE ARE SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO MANY DIVORCE CASES THERE COMPARED TO THE CONVENTIONAL,TRADITIONAL SOCIETY as In India!!!!! '

I Know,It's a 'FASHION' Nowadays either to LIVE TOGETHER or to marry a boy Muuuuuch younger than you but as far as examples show,more experimentation brings more problems..... may be I sound backdated etc etc but if you consider Widow Remarriage,it's something VERY ESSENTIAL and I support it.... a woman Divorcing her torturing husband can also be supported BUT A MIDDLE AGED WOMAN having an affair KNOWINGLY with a boy much younger than her is neither VERY ESSENTIAL nor acceptable to me... Jaise ki DUNIA MEIN LADKO KI KAMI HAI..?????????????

Couldn't Simmi have waited for a a good groom of her age? After all Mrs Taneja had set up Nakul Singh's alliance for her ? He is Suuuuuuuch a grrrrrrrrrrreat match for Simmi.... but yeah..... if she marries Nakul,it will be a dull ,borrrrring thing..... the SPICE ,the THRILL of romancing a younger man n fighting your family to marry him will be missing.... I Doubt if in real lives Matured-practical girls from Middle class Society do really want to add SPICE in their lives or lead a pretty 'normal' life as other 99%..?😲

and quite frankly it is becoming a lot less rare,, oots of cougar out there, society is just a bit less hypocrite, woman are requesting same priviledge and equal rights, so what goes for man might as well go with women... that does not mean there is anything lud nor lesls genuine when love is truly felt, no matter what age : i.e. bandini, kasam se, ... so when will it be acceptable for the reverse ? it's just starting in west, same for other taboo subject aka gays... but now we're venturing in the forbidden terrotories....sex, politic and religion

It's Very true that WOMAN AND MEN have SAME RIGHTS nowadays but when it comes to marriage,the TRADITION OF MEN Marrying Women younger to them always PREVAILS n WILL PREVAIl..... Our ancestors haven't made this 'Tradition' without any reason/thinking.... If U think deeply Females/Women have much more maturity then boys/Men of their age so if Women get married to men younger than them,they face lots of troubles from adjusting Psycologically and even there's a PHYSICAL reason behind it.....Men tend to be more capable of having physical relationship till a very later age than compared to Women So if a woman,who already had has her menopause has a husband younger to her by 10 years.... think of the relationship the couple is going to have in the next 20 years!! IN THESE CASES THE WOMAN FINDS IT UTTERLY DIFFICULT TO ADJUST WITH THE EMOTIONAL & PHYSICAL NEEDS OF HER MAN WHO'S STILL VERY MUCH ACTIVE..... it becomes a lot easier if the wife is much younger.....both of them 'AGE' more or less at the same time and they are likely to face lesser problems OTHERWISE THAT HAPPENS whatever they've shown in ASTITVA,EK PREM KAHANI😳.... Abhi got impatient bcos Simran was not able to maintain a regular physical relationship upto the extent that a YOUNG GUY like him wanted/needed!!!!!😲

Originally posted by: iamindian

<FONT color=#0000cc>It's Very true that WOMAN AND MEN have SAME RIGHTS nowadays but when it comes to marriage,the TRADITION OFMEN Marrying Women younger to them always PREVAILS n WILL PREVAIl.....Our ancestors haven't made this 'Tradition' without any reason/thinking.... If U think deeply Females/Women have much more maturity then boys/Men of their age so if Women get married to men younger than them,they face lots of troubles from adjusting Psycologically and even there's a PHYSICAL reason behind it.....Men tend to be more capable of having physical relationship till a very later age than compared to Women So if a woman,who already had has her menopause has a husband younger to her by 10 years.... think of the relationship the couple is going to have in the next 20 years!! IN THESE CASES THE WOMAN FINDS IT UTTERLY DIFFICULT TO ADJUST WITH THE EMOTIONAL & PHYSICAL NEEDS OF HER MAN WHO'S STILL VERY MUCH ACTIVE..... it becomes a lot easier if the wife is much younger.....both of them 'AGE' more or less at the same time and they are likely to face lesser problems OTHERWISE THAT HAPPENS whatever they've shown in ASTITVA,EK PREM KAHANI😳.... Abhi got impatient bcos Simran was not able to maintain a regular physical relationship upto the extent that a YOUNG GUY like him wanted/needed!!!!!😲</FONT>

<FONT color=#0000cc>SO,many Traditional rules really have a logic/scientific basis/reason behind them!!!!!</FONT>

I DO....SOOO HATE REPEATING MYSELF!!...
So,, Please, please be a myth and be relegated to the realm of non-reality and those weirdo X-box 360 games, that would make it so much easier to accept the absolute cartoonish..ness of your views..
the fact that our ancestors had said views..does not mean that we should have/accept them too..ITS CALLED EVOLUTION!!!..or is that ..oh why didn't i think of this...an ALIEN concept!!
if not for that..evolution..in case its hard to ..pardon the pun..follow..the planet would still be populated by dinosaurs..is that your era..do look around and greet the brachiosaur next to you in whatever gobbledygook u mutter..
btw..just as a scientific curiosity...with them massive digits..how in the heck do you...TYPE????

and if the reason for said archaic thoughts..is solely..the male libido...then the fact that his spouse is younger is no obstacle to a man who wishes to stray..fidelity is a mental concept..not that mental that we allude to when addressing your outpourings, of course...in case that was..again.. difficult to follow....

aristotle once(long ago..though..much later than your time..) defined hysteria as the condition caused by a wandering uterus..which then gets lodged in the female brain leading to assorted problems..applying that logic...what exactly gets dislodged in the male system...and most importantly...where the heck does it get lodged???..
i'm sure you have a detailed scientific /philosophic/archeopteryic..explanation for said phenomenon...

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Originally posted by: iamindian

In the west (eg Hollywood) there are soo many cases of women getting married to younger men.. AND THAT's WHY THERE ARE SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO MANY DIVORCE CASES THERE COMPARED TO THE CONVENTIONAL,TRADITIONAL SOCIETY as In India!!!!! '

<FONT color=#990000 size=4>I Know,It's a 'FASHION' Nowadays either to LIVE TOGETHER or to marry a boy Muuuuuch younger than you but as far as examples show,more experimentation brings more problems..... may be I sound backdated etc etc but if you consider Widow Remarriage,it's something VERY ESSENTIAL and I support it.... a woman Divorcing her torturing husband can also be supported BUT A MIDDLE AGED WOMAN having an affair KNOWINGLY with a boy much younger than her is neither VERY ESSENTIAL nor acceptable to me... Jaise ki DUNIA MEIN LADKO KI KAMI HAI..?????????????</FONT>

<FONT size=3>Couldn't Simmi have waited for a a good groom of her age? After all Mrs Taneja hadset up Nakul Singh's alliance for her ? He is Suuuuuuuch a grrrrrrrrrrreat match for Simmi.... but yeah..... if she marries Nakul,it will be a dull ,borrrrring thing..... the SPICE ,the THRILL of romancing a younger man n fighting your family to marry him will be missing.... I Doubt if in real lives Matured-practical girls from Middle class Society do really want to add SPICE in their lives or lead a pretty 'normal' life as other 99%..?😲</FONT>

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OMG! SIMI IS MIDDLE AGED! U consider SIMI MIDDLE-AGED AT 30?!!!!! 😲 😲 😲
Then I must be already dead! Or one foot in the grave! 😆 😆 😆
Yes, Im a middle aged full-time working woman/mother/housewife and I see nothing wrong in a 30 year old woman romancing a 23 year old guy!
If we can accept Mills and Boon kind of romance between a 32 yr old guy and 20 yr old girl, then why not the other way around? Mental and emotional maturity isnt dependant on gender.

FYI in the West, at least here in the US, some girls get married very early at 18/19/20, they marry their high school or college sweethearts, who are the same age or maybe 1-2 years older. Other women have careers, dont marry till much later and usually marry their colleagues or co-workers. In fact most divorces here are between couples the same age or when the woman is much younger, sometimes 10 years younger than the guy!
In recent times, there are more divorces in India as well and mostly in traditional marriages where the bride is several yrs younger than the guy, the main reason for divorce is infidelity, and the culprit is mostly the husband.

Originally posted by: iamindian

<FONT color=#0000cc>It's Very true that WOMAN AND MEN have SAME RIGHTS nowadays but when it comes to marriage,the TRADITION OFMEN Marrying Women younger to them always PREVAILS n WILL PREVAIl.....Our ancestors haven't made this 'Tradition' without any reason/thinking.... If U think deeply Females/Women have much more maturity then boys/Men of their age so if Women get married to men younger than them,they face lots of troubles from adjusting Psycologically and even there's a PHYSICAL reason behind it.....Men tend to be more capable of having physical relationship till a very later age than compared to Women So if a woman,who already had has her menopause has a husband younger to her by 10 years.... think of the relationship the couple is going to have in the next 20 years!! IN THESE CASES THE WOMAN FINDS IT UTTERLY DIFFICULT TO ADJUST WITH THE EMOTIONAL & PHYSICAL NEEDS OF HER MAN WHO'S STILL VERY MUCH ACTIVE..... it becomes a lot easier if the wife is much younger.....both of them 'AGE' more or less at the same time and they are likely to face lesser problems OTHERWISE THAT HAPPENS whatever they've shown in ASTITVA,EK PREM KAHANI😳.... Abhi got impatient bcos Simran was not able to maintain a regular physical relationship upto the extent that a YOUNG GUY like him wanted/needed!!!!!😲</FONT>

<FONT color=#0000cc>SO,many Traditional rules really have a logic/scientific basis/reason behind them!!!!!</FONT>

Well, Ms IamIndian, I see Aishwarya is on ur avi, Im guessing u may be a fan of hers.
How do u like the fact that Ash is 3 years older than her hubby Abhishek? 😉 😆 😆

Originally posted by: pallavi25

Well, Ms IamIndian, I see Aishwarya is on ur avi, Im guessing u may be a fan of hers.
How do u like the fact that Ash is 3 years older than her hubby Abhishek? 😉 😆 😆

Actually she is 5 years older.😉