Thoughts ....updated 1st Mar 10 (Page 25) - Page 11

Originally posted by: Bana

Look forward to reading your thoughts on the day's episode every day, as much as the video and written updates.

I like your tone of affectionate criticism (resonates with all of us coz much as we criticise scenes and the CVs, it's obvious we still love the serial else we wouldn't watchit and analyse it), and of course your sense of humour is awesome.

Thanks for your efforts!

Thank you bana for identifying my feelings so well.

Yes, I love the show and the characters and I do not dislike anyone. Simi is closest to my heart of all with all her flaws. Oh no, I no way identify with Simi or see myself in her, I am so unlike her but I simply love her.

Originally posted by: bee5

25th Jan 10

Episode begins with Manju thinking about RS's words in the hospital. Looks they all have returned from the hospital. As soon as RS enters the room, Manju takes away her bindi and puts it on the mirror thats infront.
I was thinking, arre wah, this is a new technique of displaying strike, a protest, against RS and his acceptance of Simbhi, and bingo, no sooner that I thought that, RS confirms that action of Manju to me by saying the same thing that was going on in my head. So, good I was right.

Bee as usual you give solid comments !! Actually RS is thinking well I appriciater his attitue and his acceptance of Abhi !! He also knows what kinda son he has so he can see the difference in his children clearly which Manju dose'nt seem to visialize more than her son and see her daughters happiness

RS smiles. Not just RS, even I was smiling at Manju and her actions. Manju reminds me of a small stubborn kid, the kid that expects everyone to do what it says, a kid that cries when its toy is taken away, a kid that thinks that only it has to win in a game otherwise starts crying. RS tries to explian to her, Hopefully she understood?! If not all, atleast some? There I did see a Manju who is vulnerable and who cannot even hear her husband not living with her in this world. She cannot bear to think of a life without him (though she was ready to go and live with Anuj leaving this very same husband)

If she thinks beyond her son and her daughters happiness I am sure she will understand If she can think beyond from the society boundaries I am sure she will give a thought to what ever RS

Next day morning, it is Simi's turn to get some explainations from RS via some science and philosophical class. Again for me, this time to hope Simi remembers the teachings.

And RS said let me handle situations when it comes to telling even Nakul or anyone abt yours and Abhi's relationship So Simi beta apney pap ki suno aur araam say Abhi say ishq ladaoo

Wow whats this in the next scene? Never expected such a scene. Kabhi pehle dekha na, na suna na. Abhi in a romatic mood to wish Simi a 'very good morning' to Simi in her almirah! When they show Mili searching for something in their room, I was thinking what are they going to show now and when I saw Abhi in that almirah, I was like WHAT, is this hapenning for real, and it was. OMG that was a surprise.

I really thought it was her dream since dodo ki manzoori ho gaye and papaji also said yes so maybe she was day dreaming thqat he is everywhere even in her almari .. If left to Abhi he can come up all possible ways to see Simi and make some romantic mooves 😉.. I was smiling cheek to cheek 😃 seeing this surprise he gave to Simi.. She was also Maha Kush !!!😳

When Simi is trying to send Mili out, Abhi is grinning so widely and so am I. That whole scene was so cute, looks like Abhi again like a bandar has jump terrace and came in. Waise dekha jaaye to inke ghar mein gusna bada hi asaan hai.

And Abhi knows the technique very well He is a pro in it !!!😉

Abhi is all so romantic and when Simi calls him bandar, he gets slightly dejected, very slightly, but in the next tiniest second he makes himself ok as if to tell Simi, you can call me whatever you want, but I am not going to leave you. That sutble gesture gave me a hope that in future whatever may come in between them Abhi will always compromise and never let anything break their bond. Abhi, I don't know why, though you are such a good human being, I still do not love you. I know you are a very good, caring, mature, sensible, understanding, responsible and compassionate human being and Simi has so many flaws, but I still love Simi. All i have is respect for you. You are the only hope that my Simi will be safe and secure with you and your love can nurture her and can rid her of her flaws. You know her, she will always give priority to her family before you, but I expect you to understand that and give her time. Give her time, so that one day she will be able to let go off her family, her sisters, her brother and their problems and will look forward to you and you alone.As they say, love can conquer all. So, be there for her always. You are a person every girl might want to have, hats off to you for being the person you are.

I know Bee even his temper is just for sometime he just is soo calm ..Any girl will be soo happy to have a life partner like him ..Wonder why his parents don't see this pois nature of his and just think he is awara and good for nothing ... RS has actually seen in this short time of acquaintance that Abhi is a gem and he takes care of things in a very poised and proper manner 😊

OK, gals, I know I do get mad at Simi sometimes but this is my feeling as of today. Tomorrow it can change but I don't think it can drastically though.

The heartiest hug was good and Neil was so endearing today with the way he explains how he came inside with the slighest dance of his eyebrows.

Me Red Red Red 😳😊

Next scene was the new suicide drama by Manju and Simi so soon forgets what she learnt just a while back from RS and sensing Simi's next sacrifice Abhi salvages the drama. But salvage by impersonating as his father on the phone with Manju! It wasn't that difficult to figure that out for me when I see Abhi overhearing what Simi was talking while banging onto that door. But, OMG, this kid, does he never think what will happen in future when the truth comes out and is Manju so naive? So when she comes to know the truth will she go back and drink the liquid from the same bottle? Guys you need do some cleanup, get rid of all those unwanted drugs in the house ASAP.

I wish he would have used it when Anita was at her peak of doing all sorts of nonsense It would have been a treat for us !! did'nt know he had such hidden talent badmash baccha 😉.. And Manju goes to extremees yaar essa bhi kya tamasha kaney ka .. Future kay Apni Anita hai ka phole kolnay kay liya

Episode ends at a happy note, Anita once again became a loser but whats this in the precap? Neetu is now instigating Anita? They say there are always two choices for everyone at every juncture and you choose one. Looks like Neetu is hell bent on choosing the wrong one. But they also say, as you sow, so shall you reap. So, Neetu its better you conduct yourself in the right way before its too late. Otherwise ...

Wow I loved that when she was stopped by Manju I whisleted at my laotop screen !!!😆😆😆

Originally posted by: shanti05

Great update Bee you entertain us equally with your post !! U actually speak many of our minds when you critisize !!!👏

Originally posted by: shanti05

As long as RS is with Simi and is telling tpo be with Abhi she will be stable once he leaves her alone her mind does wander and she is scared and a bit hesitant !!
IF Abhi did'nt handle the situation yesterday my using his dad's voice she would have old Mami ji Jo Aap Kahengay Vohi Karoongi and I will not think of Abhi I will sacrifice my love for your Kushi and I will marry the guyof your choice.. And she will say papaji Maa ki kushi mai hi meri kushi hai and
Anita would be grinning cheek to cheek seeing all this and RS would be dissapointed..

I just hope Now onwards RS supports Abhi's decision more than Simi's coz he knows Abhi wants the best for Simi which indirectly means RS wants the best h=for this daghter which will keep her happy safe and glowing and only Abhi can give that best to her !!

So hoping this formula of Abhi+RS+Milli works for the happiness of Simi the Cv's should stick to this eqation and make Anita know that she cannot play with emotions of others for her pride

Originally posted by: shanti05

Actually i was seeing today's US episode neetus Love comparison to Simi's just dose'nt make sense.. I was wondering Why Simi was sitting and even hearing thro all that !! She shuld have first slapped neetu and then enlightened her that Ok if my love is a mistake then u sleeping with a guy on the first aquatance and then getting pregnant lets bring that issue up at home and then lets see how parents react !!!

Simi's weakness was clearly shown in front of the Lori fire infact that fire which is the holy fre should have given her more strength and when Abhi came to her and told her not to worry she should have walked in the house with Abhi and questioned her relationship with Abhi infront of everyone. and Told her dad also papaji Aap meri kushi chahathey hai na and Aab meri kushi Abhi kay saat hai..

Anyways when you watch the show again many points go thro ur mind and then feel these changes wud have been better option !!