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Posted: 15 years ago
Even after seeing the Fire should have got the courage and go home and face her father and tell him ki dad please look at me I am your Simo and I wanted to tell all this to you and I wanted to inform you about Abhi !!

Making that whole phyco path and showing Simi thinking abt Anita in those goons were a little too extreme maybe they wanted to drag the whole situation.

Taking RS into confidene would be really a piece of cake for Simi even after the mess Anita created but they wanted the whole Hospital scene and then the talk RS gave ( which is still going above my head at times 😆)
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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: shanti05

Even after seeing the Fire should have got the courage and go home and face her father and tell him ki dad please look at me I am your Simo and I wanted to tell all this to you and I wanted to inform you about Abhi !!

Making that whole phyco path and showing Simi thinking abt Anita in those goons were a little too extreme maybe they wanted to drag the whole situation.

Taking RS into confidene would be really a piece of cake for Simi even after the mess Anita created but they wanted the whole Hospital scene and then the talk RS gave ( which is still going above my head at times 😆)


yes, I agree 😆
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Posted: 15 years ago
Magnificent Bee updates frankly thou hast well detailed,👏

Manjuji I get really not understand in the stage yesterday it had nothing with that will suggest the company but rather if Abhi Yes or not is a good boy for his daughter. RS and Mili be them rate me effrayait not at all unlike RS is their strength, Simi must not tries of persuaded his father or anyone change history short to his mother. Anita is not intelligent same me I had understood from the beginning that this was not the father of Abhi which had telephoned lol.

Neetu for me it is transparent and will remain so until Vicky will return and leave with it, and will include has made a big mistake and will ask forgiveness Simi for all that it has little to do or say.

Arnuj him then it is not only weak but deaf and mute, for the series was how long are married? I think that they have still not reached the Cape of husband and wife? How accepts thee it something same I am not saying that this is the bass of a marriage but I think that since the time Anita should play the role of wife and if offer her husband this say to me it is still not yet made.

Let's see what the episode today will give according to Anita precap will do something that will fail on but this say Manjuji change such advice for sentencing once again or will this just shunned
in his corner?
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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: Pattinson6

Magnificent Bee updates frankly thou hast well detailed,👏

Manjuji I get really not understand in the stage yesterday it had nothing with that will suggest the company but rather if Abhi Yes or not is a good boy for his daughter. RS and Mili be them rate me effrayait not at all unlike RS is their strength, Simi must not tries of persuaded his father or anyone change history short to his mother. Anita is not intelligent same me I had understood from the beginning that this was not the father of Abhi which had telephoned lol.

Neetu for me it is transparent and will remain so until Vicky will return and leave with it, and will include has made a big mistake and will ask forgiveness Simi for all that it has little to do or say.

Arnuj him then it is not only weak but deaf and mute, for the series was how long are married? I think that they have still not reached the Cape of husband and wife? How accepts thee it something same I am not saying that this is the bass of a marriage but I think that since the time Anita should play the role of wife and if offer her husband this say to me it is still not yet made.

Let's see what the episode today will give according to Anita precap will do something that will fail on but this say Manjuji change such advice for sentencing once again or will this just shunned
in his corner?



Cynthia,
Thanks.
You have some good points about Neetu and Anuj. As you said, lets see what is there in store for us in todays episode.

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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: bee5

26th Jan 10

Manju is always in extremes. If she is good, she is too good. Abhi is almost getting killed with so much love from his future mother-in-law.
I didn't think Anita is that stupid that she couldn't figure out how come her father said good things about Abhi and that too called Manju! I didn't expect Anita is so dumb.
Finally Abhi is done with his MIL-love-filled-breakfast and gets permission from RS for Simi to walk him over to catch a richshaw ....

😆😆😆 I know he was like plzzz stop keejiya I am stuffed It reminded me of Hum Dil De Chukay Sanam where Salman was stuffed with food and he went to the terrace and Sameer hava Ka jhunka !! Remember 😆😆😆


Yeah Even I was like finally they got time for their own !! Aww I miss Abhi's Jeep Koi ussay Vapas de day !! I wonder if Simi is now wearing the ring ! Now with the Roka happening anyways Mommy T will give her a nice diamond studded one If she is truly happy
But Yaar Abhi's jeep was his Jaan Abhi Rickshaw Mai Sawari feel sad for him !!😭😭
😆

Ah Ah .. I know I am going to get some nice scenes in few moments ....I am waiting ...I am waiting ...

Meanwhile Anita has clarified from Mr. T that it was not him who had called Manju.
Mili's bit help in breaking the mobile phone does not look like will do much to salvage this situation.


O yes I liked that part !! But I would want Milli to be watching Anitsa's every move cautiously till Simi and Abhi enter the wedlock .. She can make up stories on the fly and cause more disasters !!!😡

There comes my scene ... Simi and Abhi are slowly walking on the road and Simi gets this doubt how come Mr. T had called and talked to her mom to clarify about Abhi. Abhi in a way of shushing her off comes close to Simi and keeps his plam against her mouth. Again, the soothing 'Kudhaya ve' playing in the background.

Me REd Red and smiling cheek t cheek 😃

Abhi enjoying their time without anything to fear about and Simi totally in love which is so evident in her eyes, the love that is spilling out of her eyes for Abhi. They are once again so close and Abhi asks Simi to close her eyes. Simi is shy and terrified but has this mounting expectation. But, hey, they cannot kiss, they are not in some park, they are practically on the road. And this badmash bachcha gets her all expected and goes out with 'I love you' in her ears instead.

Good I liked that Every girl wants her desire levels to keep going high and every guy takes it to the heightest point so good it was I love you and he has lots in store for her so Simi ji thoda dheeraj Raho !!!😉

Simi is embarrassed by her own expectation and smiles off. What I liked was her honesty in saying her innermost feelings to him without any hesitation. This Simi is not any delicate-shy-darling, she knows what she wants and doesn't feel bad about wanting it and even saying so. She is not ashamed at all. There is nothing wrong is saying that want. I love that honesty and for that honesty she gets Abhi's 'lipolicious' kiss on the cheeks (as a consolation prize I wonder?) ....

He will give it to her when the time comes but it will be censored on National Television !!!😉😆

Oh BTW, I was thinking what if Nakul is inside that white car she is leaning against and thankfully, he wasn't and I laugh at own my anxiety.
😆 We r actually missing him and dadi naggar !!

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While they were having a nice time, Anita divulges the anonymous call to Manju and by the time Simi returns home there is big Mahabharat setup and waiting for her and she gets court-marshalled by Anita.

RS comes as the saviour this time and shuts Anita up with such strong word which are like slap across her face, but Manju is back to where she was about Abhi in her thinking.
From now on I have new hopes set on Mr. RS and Mili is also there standing as a shield between Anita and Simi.
Good.

My equation RS+Abhi+Milli will start working !!!😆😳

Around the same time Mr. T is giving lecture to Abhi on age difference and Abhi in one sentence stops his dad and also gets his mom to accept his love. I didn't think it would be so easy to bring Anusha back into his side.


I still feel one can easily convice Mr. T He isin't a very hard nut to crack If Abhi puts an effort or Simi can also do later if she comes ito the house and Mr. T will be happy to know he got a DIL like her Mr. T will talk great things and gets influenced by Anita and others but Abhi and Simi can get him to understand alot of things and open up his eyes for getting proper knowledge .. So lets see Kya hoga aagay


And Abhi and his mom are already at Sethi Nivas' entrance with the roka as Abhi promised. At one end is Abhi so happy and the other end is Simi who is terrified unable to understand what fate has in store for her ... at one end is a mother who is supporting her son and the other end is a mother who doesn't want anything to befall the status they have in society even if that happens to be her own daughter's happiness that she has to trample upon.

I know Ek hi Din mai yeah saab ho Raha Tha Boy Abhi is quick and guess he is calculative with his moves and he knows if Nakul's clan end up Manju will swing 180 to 360 degrees soon as already she had put Abhi from good book to bad book



It was such a pity the groom's side is standing at the entry way with shagun in their hands and there is on one to even invite them ... until the youngest in the family gathers up her courage to let me in and inform the eldest in their family - her dad.

I just hope Anusha is genuine in sharing her sons happiness and he better be like a shield around her before she changes her mind being influenced by the brainwasher Anita


Precap looks interesting where RS is giving lecture to Anuj and hopefully and hopefully Anuj understands the cunningness of Anita and comes over to the side of 'good people' and does his part.

But I still wonder what is the hurry, why is this serial zooming at lightening speed ...? Guess I need to wait and watch ....



Yes we need to wait and watch Bee.. I like the speed but then what next if Simi leaves 12/24 and goes to T mansion is the focus then shifted only on 12/24 or there is going to be balance between bother houses or we will see only the mountain of problmes on 12/24 KB and RS will have to solve it himself

Lets wait and watch !!!

As usual a great update U bring a nice charm to the show with your views😊

Edited by shanti05 - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: shanti05



Yes we need to wait and watch Bee.. I like the speed but then what next if Simi leaves 12/24 and goes to T mansion is the focus then shifted only on 12/24 or there is going to be balance between bother houses or we will see only the mountain of problmes on 12/24 KB and RS will have to solve it himself

Lets wait and watch !!!

As usual a great update U bring a nice charm to the show with your views😊


Shanti,
For the sake of clarity, I have changed the font color of your comments to Red.
Yes, I remember HDDCS's 'sameer - hava ka jhonka' 😆, just yday I wrote that to someone in a diff forum and such a coincidence it comes back to me in this forum 😆
Hey, I am fine with no jeep too, atleast now they can walk standing so close to each other and mayne even holding hands ... jeep mein tho they have to sit in their own seats naa .. kitni doori hoti hai 😆
Yes, you are right, it isn't very difficult to convince Mr. T also .. remember Simi herself goes and convinces him to accept Anuj & Anita's marriage ! So, Simi is capable and Abhi is more capable than Simi.
Daadi & Nakul dagar are waiting for a week (?), and woh tho Q mein khade hi reh gaye aur ladki haath se nakal gayi 😆
I don't know where the story would move once Simi gets married, would they have to change the title of the serial to "Tarneja Nivas"😉 probably not !
Actually I have already written the review for todays episode (thought I will answer this before posting it) and incidently had written about Anusha.
Last, but not the least, thanks for the warm compliments.😛

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Posted: 15 years ago
27th Jan 10

Actually nothing much happened in todays episode. It was very short.
Abhi and Anusha come with Shagun for Simi, RS accepts, Manju doesn't and throws it away and very sacredly it flys and lands in front of Matarani letting us viewers to let out a sigh of relief and that, Simbhi relation is blessed even by Matarani.
I wasn't satisfied with RS & Anuj talk, left me much to be desired. It was bcos I was looking forward to this scene yday and one of the important dialogue which was part of the precap yday wasn't in the episode today. That scene was too short and RS wasn't actually willing to 'talk' to Anuj, instead he challenges Anuj and looks like Anuj gets deterred by RS' words.

2 important things to note in this episode was -
1. Neetu.
Neetu confirming that she is not against Simbhi. The reason for her arrogance/anomosity is/was because according to her when Neetu was in need, Simi didnot help. Its quite an irony that Simi thought she was helping her by getting her to get rid of her unborn child. But, yes, misunderstanding happen and its part and parcel of life. Neetu thinks Simi should have shown little more resilience and Simi thought a person who is petrified to even open the mouth and accept his responsibility is not good enough for her sister and her future life and its a totally different thing that her sister "loves" this guy. Can't help it. Man O Man .. jeevan ke khel!

2. Society's involvement in Simbhi relationship
Yes, it is a love between 2 mature, adult and sane individuals and their love is their private business unless they are doing anything illegal. But there are these 'moral policing' people who come and stand against.
It was dramatized no doubt, but Creatives IMO were trying to hold a torch against such dark issues prevalent even in todays age where society has to approve of a relation between 2 ppl in love to the extent that there are honour killings that happen under these very circumstances even at this age, even in metros, yes! Such so called people can get any reason as they fancy to go against and in this show age factor is mere a reason.
These are the people who are available dime a dozen, who fail to look at themselves and their problems and are totally instigatable by others to stand up and fight when it is should be no concern of theirs. However disgusted I feel whenever I watch/read such news, it was once again a bitter truth I had to face when I watched todays episode.

Good Things
1. Anusha shutting Anita up. Though I am not satisfied by this actors acting, I am sure Anusha is genuinely standing in support of Abhi and there is no deceit.
2. Simi at last willingly, with all thoughtfulness accepts Abhi in front of her family and "supposed" friends, including her supportive father and totally non-supportive mother.

Additional things
RS trying to explain to Manju that though so highly educated, how all through her life Simi was trying to make Manju happy only to get some recognition from her. That was such an emotional scene, so sad.

Precap - Simi standing in front of the "society" and not hesitating to accept Abhi.

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Posted: 15 years ago
Bee Summarized it well may be u can shorten ur efforts in future i liked this format!!!

Pulled some portions from ur update

Neetu thinks Simi should have shown little more resilience and Simi thought a person who is petrified to even open the mouth and accept his responsibility is not good enough for her sister and her future life and its a totally different thing that her sister "loves" this guy.


When Simi wanted to talk to Vicky Neetu cut her talk and said not to interfere into her life .. Simi wanted him to realise that he needs to take the responsibility even during abortion he turned up when she was abt to be forced to get it done.. Why did he delay .. Simi did all that she could to make Neetu understand.. Neetu should have persuaded vicky to come and talk to Simi or even when they met secretly on the terrace when he came to drop her He could have stopped and spoken to her
I hope Neetu realises that if Simi's ristha is done she should talk to her father and speak to him and tell him abt herself..

These are the people who are available dime a dozen, who fail to look at themselves and their problems and are totally instigatable by others to stand up and fight when it is should be no concern of theirs. However disgusted I feel whenever I watch/read such news, it was once again a bitter truth I had to face when I watched todays episode.

But here its more so created by Anita she beat the dindora around otherwise if the Roka of Abhi wud have taken place and then it wud have happened then atleast RS could have shut their mouth.. But I wonder why they make this such an issue in society !! People just want to make a mountain out of things and throwing stones at ones place for this kinda act was ridiculous..

I too loved the good points

Precap as u said seems promising but will the kutki bar sindoor take place tomorrow or next week we got to see..
I just had hoped that Daggar clan was also there with the crowd 😆 so that Simi's announcement for tomorrow wud have been great !! and no more Daagrs with roka !!

Again great update keep writing and make me happy 😆😊

Edited by shanti05 - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
Great update by Bee5
You have highlighted the problems existing in the society. Its true that neighbours and general public are into moral policing. Such incidents I have winessed in my neighborhood too. Though there was much melodrama in the show, it showed the minds of a society in transition phase.
An individual is part of society.When as a mother, Manju is not willing to accept this proposal fearing society's disapproval, why would the society care. Change has to occur within the family first. When a family supports their children's decision, it would be like shutting up the society. The change would not be overnight. But change it must.
Regarding Neetu......Simi had waited for Vicky at the park, he did not turn up. She spoke to him over phone and suggested if he takes up responsibility she can talk to her parents and that they marry same week. When neetu is packing her bags, Simi tells Neetu that its fine Vicky saved you at the clinic but why did not he come and meet our parents. But Neetu doesn't understand.
Wonderful update.
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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: shanti05

Bee Summarized it well may be u can shorten ur efforts in future i liked this format!!!

Pulled some portions from ur update

Neetu thinks Simi should have shown little more resilience and Simi thought a person who is petrified to even open the mouth and accept his responsibility is not good enough for her sister and her future life and its a totally different thing that her sister "loves" this guy.


When Simi wanted to talk to Vicky Neetu cut her talk and said not to interfere into her life .. Simi wanted him to realise that he needs to take the responsibility even during abortion he turned up when she was abt to be forced to get it done.. Why did he delay .. Simi did all that she could to make Neetu understand.. Neetu should have persuaded vicky to come and talk to Simi or even when they met secretly on the terrace when he came to drop her He could have stopped and spoken to her
I hope Neetu realises that if Simi's ristha is done she should talk to her father and speak to him and tell him abt herself..

These are the people who are available dime a dozen, who fail to look at themselves and their problems and are totally instigatable by others to stand up and fight when it is should be no concern of theirs. However disgusted I feel whenever I watch/read such news, it was once again a bitter truth I had to face when I watched todays episode.

But here its more so created by Anita she beat the dindora around otherwise if the Roka of Abhi wud have taken place and then it wud have happened then atleast RS could have shut their mouth.. But I wonder why they make this such an issue in society !! People just want to make a mountain out of things and throwing stones at ones place for this kinda act was ridiculous..

I too loved the good points

Precap as u said seems promising but will the kutki bar sindoor take place tomorrow or next week we got to see..
I just had hoped that Daggar clan was also there with the crowd 😆 so that Simi's announcement for tomorrow wud have been great !! and no more Daagrs with roka !!

Again great update keep writing and make me happy 😆😊



Thanks Shanti. Actually it depends on the episode but I'll try to work on the K-I-S-S mantra.

Much before Simi takes Neetu to get the abortion done, Simi talks to Vicky on phone who had just heard from Neetu that she is pregnant few minutes back.
Vicky and Neetu hadn't planned this and for him its a shock and he gets petrified. Now, Vicky is not a guy like Abhi (using other credit card, driving away with other car etc), he is irresponsible guy and he is not a bad guy either, but when Simi asks him to give an answer right then and there if he is ready to get married in a week, he doesn't, he get scared, first of all it is totally unexpected and she demands an answer right then and there, maybe he needed time (well, he def didn't think about that before doing the act), and for Simi time was precious in such case.
Because of that Simi decides to take Neetu for abortion. Vicky comes and rescues Neetu from the abortion and they go to park and when they are talking, Vicky tells Neetu lets talk to Simi, but by that time, too much damage has been done in Neetu's mind against Simi that she says no need to talk to Simi. It is after this Neetu starts to despise Simi and asks her not to interfere in her life.

Yes, you are right, in this case, Anita could have kept quiet. But Anita here is the representation of that so called 'moral policing' society.
Just think about communal violence that happens all the time in India. Some useless people with authority for their own advantage create issues and let people fight and there are foolish people who believe such things and fight and even get killed.
I think around 1996, there used to be a TV show called 'Reporter' on DD where they used to show real life crimes stories and one story was about 2 people - a young boy and girl, how the girls family beheads boy using the machine that is used for cutting grass and they lock the girl up in a small room away from family and starve her for few days before killing her. The reason - both were in love and family was against. I was literally shivering seeing that on TV. That was just an example. There are instances where people are paraded naked and beaten up and pelted with stones. Such things happen even now because of one or the other reason.
The thing is with the advent of satellite channels, all these channels are far reachable in the remotest parts of India and a lot of Indian population lives in villages who watch these shows. Though such issues happen in cities, such things are much more prevalent in small towns and villages. Age is still a taboo issue in those society and creatives are trying to thread a safe path by def holding a mirror against the society. It is one way showing what happens in those societies and also to teach people that the 2 people whom you love on TV are not doing anything wrong if they are willing to see that.
I know such things are very disturbing, but sadly we can not push the issue under the covers.

You are funny, you wanted the Dagar also to stand and listen to Simi's 'acceptance of Abhi speech'? Looks like you are helping the creatives how to zoom some more faster ..😆


Glad to have made you happy.😛

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