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Posted: 8 years ago
Yes she would think of Mustafa.
But the time spent on 'W' questions such as why, what, whom, which, where was on a downward spiral.
He was sitting subconsciously in her mind.
Every time it was either Kerim who brought up.Mustafa topic due to his insecurities or MQ who talked insensitively.
This brought her to RRR loop.
Hence over period of time, she was sure of Mustafa's exit from her life.
But even today she is surprised 'how could a simple fisherman make wrong choices?'.
Didn't they debate on the choices they made so far??
She never considers him circumstantial victim.
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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: DefLeppard

@Shalu
Thanks for promptly sharing the dialogues.
Agree that Gullie has pushed herself into a shell of isolation & silence.

Since her return after the kidnap episode she
1.Firstly cleanses herself with bathe, change of clothes & finally cries in buckets*its happening else where too today*
She does give a teeny bit of her mind by telling Maryem how she relived the rape night again. Now that was the most obvious observation from killa vasis & us at DT.
This was purely a REACTIVE.
2.Post that, first days Gullie seems to be disinterested in most of her routine including her cafe job & pet ladoos.
This is something rare, since most of us observed her over reaction atleast.
This is purely RETROSPECT.
Retrospection needs solitude & slow reconstruction of the events to precisely arrive at fault lines.
*techie mind is screaming...its like singleton pattern*
And finally she manages to share her inner fears that it was Mustafa who wanted to harm Kerim via her.
Here 'hurt' her the same way was meant to be rape her??Was it her imagination of Mustafa stooping so low or was it the reality if Kerim had not interrupted with a phone call is open ended.
3.Lastly when the counselor probes if this has been discussed with Kerim...she just says 'I want to move forward'
This is purely RESURRECTION.
So this makes the final pull out from the person called Mustafa she knew.

Most of the times the resurrection is introspected/questioned by others.
The resurrection needs a belief/faith as support system.
Incase of Gullie her resurrection is aptly supported by Kerim.And that hug he offered her without much explanation proves that faith is much instilled.*loved this scene*

Dummy relates to this technique of solving these conflicts ...reactive, retrospective & resurrection.

So how do you solve your problems??*winks*

PS:
Cursed my fate, curbed my cravings, cleared my brain cells!!

@Bold! your conclution is right & Kerim never fail to be support system...but main system has always problem of giving only confuse signals 😳
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Posted: 8 years ago


One hunk giving out weird gestures while the other standing with his usual deadpan expressions.
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Posted: 8 years ago
No one is going to realise the depth of his question...
Q. Not even with Me?
A. Not even with You.
But still, he has patience enough to apologizes (after nothing did wrong) and give her a tight hug, even after this heartbreaking answer...
...And, this is depth of his love ❤️
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Posted: 8 years ago
@Aashi Canim on ur request once again Kadir Bey's assistant is her to present her client Gullie case again😆

As her psychiatrist said its natural what she is feeling after going thru that trauma again.

Regarding her bursting into tears when MQ was showing her gown designs. I see it at as it reminded her how much happy she was about that whole wedding dress thing before all this happened...n now she is in this state
Its like Fg said few days back after every good thing some thing or other happens to upset them.

Regarding her not talking about that incident with Dr. She already had one session with her previous day when Kerim had gone out n later to Yasaran killa. We dont know what she shared with her at that time n in this session she did tell Dr what's bothering her n how she is feeling...she just didnt want think more about that as it hurts...n thats understandable.

Gullie has always said that rape had made her see every body's true face. But still she had wondered whether Musti was all along like this or that incident changed him. This kidnapping actually made her clear all those doubts. She realised that he is as bad as those pisliks. Those pisliks they didnt know her... but Musti has known her since childhood n to hurt Kerim n satisy his ego he would have made her go thru all that again...

That incident also reminded her about rape night... Though Musti is nobody to judge Kerim...but again n again he reminded her about Kerim being there at that night..
In her last session she said to her Dr that she sees Kerim being there was an accident. When she said that I felt like she now she sees Kerin too as a victim...
But reliving that night like experience just brought back all those things which she wanted to forget including Kerim's presence... n it upsets her remembering that.
She knows Kerim very well now... she knows how much he loves her (she has confessed this in **Kitchen billiyorum scene after meeting Ozgee**). Bcoz of all these reason she said that she doesnt want think about that...n wants to move ahead with Kerim.
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Posted: 8 years ago
@Vidya Bang on... Agree with ur analysis...
Really that hugging scene was outstanding.

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Posted: 8 years ago
Will try to write my 2 bits on FG as soon as I get the time. And hope u ll bear with my *rants* ( hope this one doesnt turn out to be one too 😛) as u ve always done 😉😆
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Posted: 8 years ago
@Aashicim @Gayu Aww...🤗 will miss you guys too! ❤️
Will miss this place, the reviews and the Dummies Guides. Love you all.
Will pick up on the episodes, and post my reviews as soon as I come back.

Aashicim, love those GIF'S. 😆😆😆
Vural. ❤️ Erdo! 🤣

Bugra and Kaan. 🤗

And you bet I'll post my #BesharamConfession ☺️
Edited by MohabbatGirl.x - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
@Aashi, Shanaya...n all SRK fans here
The choices in life which Gullie & Mustafa debate during Kidnap scenes are so so similar to Simran & Raj, when she suggests to elope , while Raj wants to take Simran sanctimoniously.
*feel free to disagree*
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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: DefLeppard

@Aashi, Shanaya...n all SRK fans here

The choices in life which Gullie & Mustafa debate during Kidnap scenes are so so similar to Simran & Raj, when she suggests to elope , while Raj wants to take Simran sanctimoniously.
*feel free to disagree*

DDLJ! Douchebag Damsel Le Jayenge Fffatmagul ke liye Dddar ka scene nahi mila kya? Bichare Kerim ko bhhi SunnyPaJi ka role mill jata...lol! 😛

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