Humsafar is back on zindagi!! - Page 4

Originally posted by: .Enchantress.

^^Cant Agree More! ⭐️ You stole my words! 👏 Agree Fareeda was evil but I too felt irritated and angry at Baseerat for asking her to get out of the house if she didnt approve of this Rishta? I mean Sayy Whatt! 😲

That woman had been a devoted wife and mother thru all these years and this is how you repay back? Just becuz she didnt agree? 😳 Then again Baseerat too cudnt be blamed as he was indeed raging in self guilty for not seeking or helping his Sister, Maimoona when she needed him the most. So when Maimoona asked Baseerat to find a match for Khirad, He thought the best way to repent for everything was Asher's hand for Khirad. Then Sara, I agree she deserved Asher's love and if not that then a much better life wid her mother. I too dont consider Suicide right. But then, when did ppl in love started reasoning? 😊 Sara when saw she had no chance to get Asher's love might have finished her life thinking that maybe in next lifetime, She wud get his love. Love Is Mad and Blind as in all love stories.

Firstly, Im not trying to create a war here as who v/s whom, cuz as Nandini said its a matter of prespectives. I dont feel connected to Khirad cuz She and I are wayy apart as personalities though I am the same age as she was and I think, I wud have reacted diffrently if I was placed in such situations as being from a Conservative Family and young (which I too am!) doesnt makes me that Naive. 2ndly, I sympathize wid Sara and I know many may not but still I do cuz I have seen my cousin's frnd meet her end for the same reason as Sara did, It was heart wrenching to see her end. Regarding all things Sara did to get Asher back are very less as compared to what I've seen ppl do! I agree Sara was wrong and what all she did in Obsession wasnt right too, But sumtimes the urge to get sumone u love gets so strongg that it overlooks all the book rules abt Love. Sara was wrong but her prespective never was. And lastly as Nandini said, Everyone makes mistakes and thats what makes us Human. Sara too had her share! 😊

I Agree! As Asher and Zaroon FK looks soo fresh and young! 😳 I Mean he looks his very best even today, But that time 2012-2013 he lukd his Best! ❤️ So Youthful! ☺️ Im telling you he looks like a Hoor in that white Shalwar-Kurta! and His Eyes Mahn! He gives you that chills running down the spine whenever he looks at you wid those eyes!

We all have different perspectives to look at the things and situations . Sometimes our own experiences clouds out perspective . Here i am unbiased . Obsession turns into destruction. for yourself and for others . What sara got with her obsession? Was she happy to see Asher , the hell he was going through . Is this called love ? Its no war Zone and will never like to be part of that zone . Yes if we have healthy discussions then others will join. So many left the forum because of this war zone . I'm nobody's fan ,it's the work that makes you admire .

Originally posted by: mm250314

i agree it is not a war zone we can give our views freely sara was at fault to some extent as during 4 n a half year period she had closed her eyes and mind to sense asher 's torment and pain ,was she a true friend ? asher had gone into a shell without khirad his love and still sara wanted him, she was totally selfish she should have let him go , i am not applauding asher ,he had betrayed his true love for khirad by placing her in a hell like state and his mom had pushed her into it

but asher's pain ,inner anguish,hurt was shown so well that i could not hate him entirely and the scenes were shot perfectly to show that asher was just a workalcoholic who had plastic smiles on his face, sara was no fool yet she was not moved to give up her obsessive hold over asher

I am neither fan of khirad nor sara 😆
If we look at them with their behaviour point of view their mentality it justifies their characters
Khirad had self respect - which made her feel that she was forced in sumone life, I liked it, but asher with his care made her accept him, had not Asher taken her seriously as his wife she wouldn't have accepted him n always. In case of hareem treatment also, she held her head high with dignity N only her friend persistence that Asher has duties towards hareem made her seek help from him
In short she was woman with dignity, she was upset with Asher N it's justified coz till the very end of her hope she tried every possible thing to make him understand but he played deaf in anger n hurt

Now coming to Sara, she was made to believe that she is going to be Mrs Asher since childhood, she was living that dream without worrying about what future holds, she was possessive but every lover gets possessive, she started creating differences between them but it didn't worked out, the thing was she can not digest the fact that her love was not hers any more, she was blinded in love and just kept thinking about her happiness, she didn't thought off Asher's happiness, she JUST was concerned wid HERSELF,
I must say her hopes were too high, when khirad left Asher n went away for years, Sara was still hopeful that she will get back her Asher, she saw him torturing himself aid work but still choose to be silent because she was hopeful one day or other asher will marry her

Had her mother or aunt stopped her she wouldn't hv met that horrific end, they could hv counsel her instead of supporting her or playing silent spectator

By the way, I loved the acting skills of girl who played Sara

Sara was wrong no doubt! !