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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: shweta_r


Sara wanted her POV to be accepted always which can never be the case unless you get a henpecked guy who is totally besotted with his wife and wife alone and noone else matters to him


exactly.. and thats wrong shweta. i can only expect someone else to accept my POV when i understand his POV too. sara's biggest drawback was she was confident about her independence and feminism, zaroon did mention her at times that in future she will pay the price.

and thankfully eventhough zaroon was a loving and doting husband, he was never a henpecked one, he does tell kashaf about her faults if he notices any irrespective of the fear of losing her
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: pinkeye

Sundas thats exactky what I tokd that her martiage falling apart was combination of many factors, but it was shown in a way that as she was that much uncompromisingly liberal wanting to lice her life the way she wants, thats why she fid not fit the perfect ideal woman norm of society which is a very biased view imo. She did not gave enough effort yo mk the marriage wrk and gave up easily, thus it did not sustain. Later she said she would adjust in every thing , conservative household by giving the message that she was wrong in having a liberal attitude, isnt that inappropriate to show? She wanted to move on and wanted not yo repeat old mustakes, wanted to be more accomodatibg, fair enough, that should be the spirit, but compketely changing as per societal norms to find happiness was little off for my taste.


payal tera keyboard ... phone pe hai kya tu ?

yeah i think by showing that she married into a conservative household was contradictory to what zaroon kept preaching her.. i donno why did they show it .. but may be sara decided for herself again and thats what they wanted to show.

no payal it was not about changing yourself but changing the idea, because we do lead life with a bunch of people and not alone, and when you are with your partner his choices and wishes shouldn't be idolized but atleast respected. just to prove that your parents never stopped u when u could be does not take the rights away from the husband.

i really disliked sara and gazala the day they were trashing zaroon and farhan only because farhan spoke to zaroon about sara... it was her brother and not a 3rd person, plus farhan did try a lot and yeah he is also from a liberal environment
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Posted: 10 years ago
Yes phone me hun , and my fingers run so swiftly in hurry, that it aleays has so many typos. 🤣
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Posted: 10 years ago

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Posted: 10 years ago
IMO the show doesnt say that Sara, Asmara or Ghazala lose out because they were liberated women. Rather in speaks about balancing your priorities between family, work and yourself. In one of the later episodes Sara says marriage works because of understanding and compromises. She was ready to make it work and hence its assumed she was able to make her second marriage a success despite her second husband's family being very conservative compared to her first husband's family. For Ghazala too everyone from Asmara to Kashaf to Rafia everyone praises the upbringing of her children. But her children feel she could have paid more attention to them than she did. The key was lack of balance and for Ghazala...Kashaf set an example.
I think to some extent the reason for Sara's marriage to break up is Junaid too. He had set such an example that Ghazala and Sara thought every man would be like him.
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Posted: 10 years ago
Waise main dekh rahi hun, you people are not clicking likes for my post. How competitive yaar. Mujhe top spot rakhna hai, toh like karo mera post. 🤣
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Posted: 10 years ago
One thing though...Asmara would have certainly found a henpecked and wealthy husband for herself who was cool with her meeting her ex-fiancee.
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: pinkeye

Waise main dekh rahi hun, you people are not clicking likes for my post. How competitive yaar. Mujhe top spot rakhna hai, toh like karo mera post. 🤣


Don't worry Payel. Tumhe pakadna mushkil hi nahi namumkin hai 😆😆😆
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: RockChicGirl

One thing though...Asmara would have certainly found a henpecked and wealthy husband for herself who was cool with her meeting her ex-fiancee.


whenever i think of that I can imagine only someone who always discusses business and share market as Asmara's husband. More like her own dad 😆😆

NOM.. jo dimag mein aaya woh bol diya 😛
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Posted: 10 years ago
Waise after all the jhagda Kashaf and Zaroon had in the end over Asmara...would Zaroon have ever met Asmara again even with Kashaf's knowledge?

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