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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: vardhinirosid

I was like kuhu when i was kid so after mishbir i liked kuhu charcter as she is insecured jealous kiddo so i thought how i changed n seeing life in different perspective they will show kuhu like that

But nah they made her dark charcter

I faced similar situation like kuhu

I was younger in my family till my sis born( maasi daughter) there is difference of 5 yrs between us

Till then i was pampered a lot by my grand ma n pa..i was their princess but later my sis born she took my place

I felt so upset , jealous , when every one were excited to play with baby i never showed interest

Later for my family i used to be good with her

I think when i was 15 means 9 yrs back all of my relatives met at one function

All asked children to dance

Im not so good dance but yeah i can manage it

And my sis also not so good dancer at that time but she has that grace

Even i danced well but no one complimented me but all praised her lot

I really felt bad

I went away from that place and went to some room n started crying

Then its my life changing moment came

My bro came to me

Convo btwn me n my bro is like

Bro: why are you crying

Me: dont you see what happened outside, no body complimented me all praised your younger sis

Bro: she is your sis too

Me: no i dont like her

Bro: why?

Me: becz after she born no body cared me

He laughed

Me: why r u laughing

Bro: so in that case i should dislike u

Me: y

Bro: after you born mom n dad attention shifted towards you,

Me: that is different u should not hate me U have to love me

Bro: yeah i will always, becz you r my little sister, n i didnt feel jealous for u any time becz when u were born then itself mom n dad told me that i should take care of you as ur younger. n younger ones needs attention

In same way after our sis born we should love her care her, we should not hate her

By the way tell me one thing did our mom dad ever treat you ill,r shifted their attention to sis after she born

Me: no they only love me

Bro: yeah when our family i e mom dad n me loves you so much why you are thinking about others , so many r not getting parents love n you r lucky as u got parents who treats u like angel

n stop being jealous with our sis, she is kid she needs our care n love

Give love n get love

My bro is 3 yrs elder to me but that day he changed my thought process he might have told those just to make me comfort for that minute but he dont know those words have long lasting impact on me

This is not story its my life changing situation

I started giving Love to my sis guess what now my sis became my best friend♥️ now we r so close to each other

Yeah still some times i feel jealous if i get to know any of my frnds r cousins in better position than me

its human tendency, but that is just for few secs later i remember my brother words n i just brush it off those unnecessary thoughts n get into my work


What i want to say is jealous insecurity fear these all r common human traits but if we cant work on it, if we cant have control on our feelings then there will be no progress in our life, every one will move forward in their life but still we stay there itself with jealous n anger as our companions n those companions r worst as they will let you do worst things ( like kuhu pushing human pyramid to harm misthi ) which we cant defend ourselves ( if i pushed my sister with anger at that second , if my mumma ask abt that can i defend my self saying i did out of jealous ? A big No )

In my case i cant do anything which i cant defend myself


I hope i didnt bored u guys with my life story😄

I can understand this to some extent as similar thing happened to me. I was the oldest kid in my maternal side and was pampered very much. But slowly slowly with my cousins' birth it started dividing.
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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: pallavi25

Gyan Papi is the exact word for Abir. He knows exactly what K did with Mishti and why she did it, he knows K misled them about her real motives to be their surrogate, yet Abir is only blaming Meenu as sole conspirator. Yes, Meenu is the mastermind but K is no “Dhoa Tulshi pata” She’s also equally paap ka bhagidar

Bhaba jayna ki bhabey era Abir er character ta noshto korchhey just to defend their favorite.

Bold-But they are hell bent on showing her as a "shishu".

Italics-😭

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: pallavi25

Gyan Papi is the exact word for Abir. He knows exactly what K did with Mishti and why she did it, he knows K misled them about her real motives to be their surrogate, yet Abir is only blaming Meenu as sole conspirator. Yes, Meenu is the mastermind but K is no “Dhoa Tulshi pata” She’s also equally paap ka bhagidar

Bhaba jayna ki bhabey era Abir er character ta noshto korchhey just to defend their favorite.

According to abir kuhu is "ganga jol e dhoa tulsi pata'. Bro can never do anything wrong intentionally.

Bold@This what makes me angry. When the show started how unique mishti and abirs character was r joto din jaache odr sob theke joghono character er poriborton korche.

They started this show addressing social issues and giving important lesson. We should open a tread about what we learnt from show.(how they glorify wrong doers bhable ga jole jai)

And the story writers screenplay writers even nowadays the directors pata nehi kaun sa nasha karte hai. The world where i live if my performance was like them trust me i would never get another job in the same field ever again.

There was a time when i used to watch each episode 2-3 times and now ekbar dekhleo matha gorom hoye jai.

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: Dotslover22

Bold-But they are hell bent on showing her as a "shishu".

Italics-😭

Dhonno emon shishu and shishu's advocates.

How yo destroy one's own creation- this show is the perfect example.

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: brigthsunshine

According to abir kuhu is "ganga jol e dhoa tulsi pata'. Bro can never do anything wrong intentionally.

Bold@This what makes me angry. When the show started how unique mishti and abirs character was r joto din jaache odr sob theke joghono character er poriborton korche.

They started this show addressing social issues and giving important lesson. We should open a tread about what we learnt from show.(how they glorify wrong doers bhable ga jole jai)

And the story writers screenplay writers even nowadays the directors pata nehi kaun sa nasha karte hai. The world where i live if my performance was like them trust me i would never get another job in the same field ever again.

There was a time when i used to watch each episode 2-3 times and now ekbar dekhleo matha gorom hoye jai.

Bold-Kuhu eto chelemanush je bhaja mach tao ulte khete jane na.

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