Yeh Rishtey Hai Pyaar Ke Live Updates/EDT 24 Aug 2020 - Page 4

Originally posted by: angelfire78

@bold - Exactly! They need to hear them out and the girls need to be able to express themselves. You can't expect anything to get resolved otherwise. And stop with the piling of the guilt and actually try to help? How did they even imagine these issues will get resolved overnight?

Exactly they need to hear it out... But but I hope bm n varsha are not involved they don't advice or do anything right to girls in this matter...

Meenu ne bola she can handle so maybe she can hear them out n find a solution to this... Hope she understands what problem they girls have... She even said to abinal today she can handle this...

I don’t understand why nobody is putting some sense in kuhu.. why is the onus of making things right on mishti alone.. the person who starts the fight is always wrong.. not the person who defends self.. and the entire family say that abir was also in that cover page but kuhu chose to see only mishti ..

what is abir expecting.. that mishti should keep quiet when kuhu blabbers??

Leaving home is kind of a pressurizing tactic only .. how can he not know that Big Ben won’t give ultimatum.. doesn’t he know his mom?? If he is clueless about his moms ultimatum then he is really dumb

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Originally posted by: LetThereBeLight

That's the reason why he leaves house most times as he doesn't want family to get affected by his n Meenu difference... And also they get over it in single time.. they fight bcoz of opinion clash not such silly reason of magazine or anything... Meenu n Abir clash is bcoz of their different mindset n anyway abir leaves it n gives in everytime... most important they don't go on shouting at each other or try to pounch on each other... Now there are many instances where they both argue in private like maasi kunal company issue, kuhu birthday time when he asked her to not do anything.. and I'm still waiting for cvs to explore their angle...

Most importantly family doesn't fear when they will start fighting unlike mishku where everyone fear if they work together when they will start fighting...

True that he used to leave the house to avoid family getting affected, and also they are mother and son so their equation is different and they is always that underlying love. But...Kuhu and Mishti also come together when needed, why is that being ignored? There are more than enough examples. They don't need to best friends to come together against a common enemy. So sometimes they fight about ridiculous things?

Everyone deals with clashes differently. He may not think it's a big deal to give in when he fights with Meenu, but it's really not the same to expect Mishti to give in to Kuhu. I think he does understand that, and he thinks Mishti is pretending to resolve things because she fears Abir will leave her or BP/BM ehsaan but this time it is the pressure from Meenu too na? That probably hurt, but Mishti clearly told him this can't be resolved overnight and obviously she's not the only one involved, I don't even know why they're talking about the baby thing now.

Like Viji was saying, no one is wrong, but this rush to resolve issues is not helping anyone.

Unpopular opinion cuz mein majority mai aati hi nahi hun kabhi 😆

The episode was extremely interesting ,.clash of all perspectives !! Watch it again if you are just here to support only one character because everyone seems to be right and wrong at their places

1. The video call convo and the last mishbir convo was done to the T ...loved the way abir and mishti came out and told what they genuinely felt without putting any cover ups or hiding stuff or pretending...they said what they felt....now that's some real couple convo ...I would any day prefer mishbir saying what they genuinely feel rather than buttering up each other...haa mein haa nahi mila rahe , vo bol rahe hai jo dono genuinely feel karte hai

Mishri was right that issues can't be sorted overnight and abir made it messier by coming to mahs

Abir counter attacked her saying you can't do sisters bonding drama for life, life is not a play

Mishti says we can't be best friends like abinal...abir says no one expects you to be so , we expect cordial relationships cuz he doesn't want today's fight to be passed on to next generation

Mishti says you left me , abir says if you still think I can leave you and BP BM love seems to be a favour to you , then you really have to be a kid for thinking this and I guess we have to postpone our plan to be parents

Abir wants mishku to talk it out while mishti has no idea how to resolve the issue ....she knows just talking it out will not solve the purpose

2. Will give some brownie points to abir for targeting on kuhu's insecurities so easily in order to make her speak and end the lovey dovey drama ...he clearly knows kuhu is the weak link here....but I will take all those brownie points back for under estimating benba and not handling her properly 😆😆 some brownie points to kunal for not giving ittu sa bhi bhaav to kuhu and acknowledging his bhabhi as the intelligent one along with kuhu to shut up jas 😆

3. BP playing victim , saying it's all his fault , he couldn't pay attention to this toxic relationship and the girls are so shameless that even when it comes to respect of the eldest member of the family , these girls will still keep fighting ...good BP , you mentioned both mishku and not just mishti 😃

4. Big ben all excited to welcome her sons back but will be given a good shock 😎🤣 In turn she will give shock to the girls 🤪

So girls are asked to leave mahs , girls are asked to leave RVs ...sansaar mein in dono behno ka ab koi bhi nahi bacha ...arey re re re 🤪🤪 Ab kya karengi yeh sisters ....

I am really looking forward to see how will the issue get resolved 😆

Originally posted by: angelfire78

Yeah, Abir just wants them to talk and it's not time-bound for him but he doesn't realize the pressure Meenu and BP have put on them to resolve their difficulties.

That was Shaheer's character and his FIL 😊. That was fun, but ended with his FIL getting a heart attack!

Exactly many things are happening behind his back... But I feel what abinal n Meenu separately if they do it together they can find solution... Better don't involve mah fam all they do is pressurize n guilt trip one n give liverage to another... Abir can't solve it all alone he can talk to mish as she is his wife but why can't kunal do that with kuhu we cant expect abir to do kunals work too...

Ohh what heart attack omg.. aisa kya kiya room mai...

Originally posted by: angelfire78

True that he used to leave the house to avoid family getting affected, and also they are mother and son so their equation is different and they is always that underlying love. But...Kuhu and Mishti also come together when needed, why is that being ignored? There are more than enough examples. They don't need to best friends to come together against a common enemy. So sometimes they fight about ridiculous things?

Everyone deals with clashes differently. He may not think it's a big deal to give in when he fights with Meenu, but it's really not the same to expect Mishti to give in to Kuhu. I think he does understand that, and he thinks Mishti is pretending to resolve things because she fears Abir will leave her or BP/BM ehsaan but this time it is the pressure from Meenu too na? That probably hurt, but Mishti clearly told him this can't be resolved overnight and obviously she's not the only one involved, I don't even know why they're talking about the baby thing now.

Like Viji was saying, no one is wrong, but this rush to resolve issues is not helping anyone.

This expectation from mishku to resolve things in a jiffy is wrong on so many levels

- a lifetime of resentments can’t be solved overnight and that too with a set of desired results that everyone is expecting

- mixing this topic and the last dialogue of abir that I’m expecting a child from someone who is herself a child ( it’s true abir mishti is a child who has seen lots of hardships and is just catching her breath.. so dude let her breath and relax and give her some good times before butting a child and responsibilities in her lap) but but.. mixing this child issue with mishku issue is hitting her below the belt

- it looks like he is in a rush for a child so he is rushing mishku to sort their issues in a jiffy

- it takes years to get over the resentments that mishku has for each other.. and the result is never guaranteed

- and slow caps for the pressure that everyone is building for them to resolve issues👏👏👏so conducive environment to resolve issues...

- mishti was absolutely right today.. but she is being labeled as immature when the most immature person today was abir.. does he not realize he is pushing mishti in a corner

Originally posted by: LetThereBeLight

Exactly many things are happening behind his back... But I feel what abinal n Meenu separately if they do it together they can find solution... Better don't involve mah fam all they do is pressurize n guilt trip one n give liverage to another... Abir can't solve it all alone he can talk to mish as she is his wife but why can't kunal do that with kuhu we cant expect abir to do kunals work too...

Ohh what heart attack omg.. aisa kya kiya room mai...

I agree, the RVs would be much better at resolving this without involving the Mahs. Kunal bhi baat kar raha hai na. I think they will show tomorrow, but Varsha's focus seems to be different. She seems more stuck on appearances. Even holi time when Kuhu wouldn't come down, she didn't care about Kuhu's issues and seemed to focus on how it would look to Meenu if she didn't come down. So I don't think we'll see anything else on that front.

They were drinking. They resolved their differences, and things got better though.

Originally posted by: LetThereBeLight

That's the reason why he leaves house most times as he doesn't want family to get affected by his n Meenu difference... And also they get over it in single time.. they fight bcoz of opinion clash not such silly reason of magazine or anything... Meenu n Abir clash is bcoz of their different mindset n anyway abir leaves it n gives in everytime... most important they don't go on shouting at each other or try to pounch on each other... Now there are many instances where they both argue in private like maasi kunal company issue, kuhu birthday time when he asked her to not do anything.. and I'm still waiting for cvs to explore their angle...

Most importantly family doesn't fear when they will start fighting unlike mishku where everyone fear if they work together when they will start fighting...

Word diya word ! 👏

There is a zameen aasmaan ka difference between meenu abir clash and sister clash

First of all neither meenu abir fight over party issues nor they go out of point , second of all meenu and abir don't indulge in drama of patching up and keeping the family in delusion for years 😆 They are actually a perfect example of how cordial relationship should be ...

Meenu never attacks abir without a reason and abir never counter attacks without solid evidence in his favour ...in the end there is a common link , a common person whom they trust ... kunal that keeps linked and connected

But with sisters, they don't even have a single person who acts as a mediator, a common link .. all are biased , some towards kuhu and some towards mishti ...

So its not possible for anyone to intervene in sisters issue , it's their troubles and they will have to sort it out, not with their age old drama theory but something on real terms

I'm loving all the mature, sensible and interesting discussions happening here in the LU today.

👍🏼👏

This particular topic of the sister's relationship is one that has been talked on and off for a long time over the show's first year. Finally they are trying to get to the depths of the issue.

Like many are saying,

every character is both right and wrong in their own stance.

This is honestly so fascinating to watch and also read as people from various experiences in life, are giving their opinions and viewpoints on what each character should and should not do. This situation and the sister's deep-rooted issues are so complicated over the years, it's simply not applicable to keep one or two people responsible, neither is it valid to say one must fix it. It just doesn't work that way. When you're in a family, joint family like so, and the dynamics are so complex, it is not easy to pick sides, who is right and who is wrong definitively.

I'm enjoying the clash of opinions between Mishti and Abir👍🏼. But at the same time, these topics need to be discussed between the two sisters and the mah family. It cannot be solved just by Mishti and Kuhu and their husbands.

I'm trying to ignore the pregnancy...and what not as much as I can, but the makers are leaving no chance at deliberately injecting 'baby talk' in every episode🤔 hailaa! focus on ONE problem at a time. These writers are just tooo busy in making poor kichidi every single time