Regarding Kuhu and Kunal.. - Page 3

Kunal having an affair in the show will be so out of character for the Kunal that we have been shown until now

hope they dont ruin the essence of the basic characters that they had chalked out over so many of the initial episodes

also Kunal se 1 biwi nahi sambhal rahi, gf kahan se sambhalega🤣

Originally posted by: angelfire78

@bold italics - perhaps it was supposed to be annoyance at her getting pregnant before marriage? Kunal is a little straight-laced that way, but I agree it wasn't very clear.

@bold - I was thinking the same! And I'm still confused about the way he's behaving with Kuhu, especially if he doesn't even know about the letters or coffee pills. If he does, then why hasn't he said anything? Or has he? I hope they show us exactly what this behavior is about!

And that's precisely why that look he shot her bothered me so much. Kunal has always supported Ketki, no matter what, and has stood by her in sticky situations, especially around the time when she was going to be married to Ved. So his look of seething judgment seemed extremely out of character.

Originally posted by: journalgirl321

And that's precisely why that look he shot her bothered me so much. Kunal has always supported Ketki, no matter what, and has stood by her in sticky situations, especially around the time when she was going to be married to Ved. So his look of seething judgment seemed extremely out of character.

I agree he has supported her and their relationship is good. Ved was clearly in the wrong. But Kunal also doesn't like anything that would cause other people to gossip about the family. He said he was ready to marry Mishti just because he heard people gossiping about the two of them going to the club (or somewhere, don't remember exactly now). And that was just for a pre-marital courtship. So it is not a stretch that he'd be unhappy about something like pre-wedding pregnancy.

Of course, it could be we are overthinking this whole thing and the look didn't mean anything. Clearly it will be a while before we can relate to this new Kunal.

I'm gonna use this thread to issue a PSA to everyone who thinks the "nok-jhok" between Kunal and Kuhu is "harmless" and "funny":

Kuhu: "Teen mahine se main roz tumhe call karti rahi, message karti rahi, tumne reply kyun nahi diya?!"

Kunal: "Main busy tha!"

Dude, I'm sorry, but what? You're telling me that out of the three months that you were away from home, you couldn't take two minutes out of your day to call your wife and ask her how she was doing because you were that busy? If the writers don't develop on this and give a solid explanation behind why Kunal did not stay in touch with Kuhu in the past three months, this is unforgivable.

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Abir: "Aaj kal ki dulhane sawaalon ka list taiyyar karti hai, 'kyun nahi aaye? Kahan reh gaye the? Phone kyun nahin uthaya?'"

Kunal: "So true."

It is not asking too much to pick up the phone here and there and let your wife know how you're doing, especially when you're abroad and away from home, ESPECIALLY in the midst of a freaking global pandemic. And last I checked, Kuhu is not one of those needy, chipku spouses that constantly needs attention from her husband. Don't act like you're doing her a big service by giving her the basic courtesy that she deserves as your life partner.

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Kunal: "Bhai, ab function ki in-charge Kuhu hogi toh sab gadbad hi hoga na?"

Kuhu: "What do you mean? Mere organizing skills mein kami nahi hai, tumhare dimaag mein kami hai."

Kunal: "Look who's talking about brains!"

Bruh, what? Are you kidding me? I have no words. The Kunal pre-leap would take great pride in Kuhu for her event planning skills, and would beam when someone praised her, even if it was subtle. And "look who's talking about brains"? ExCUSE me?

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I have seen many people say that these interactions are cute, and fun, and stress-relieving, to which I will say, please stop normalizing this kind of unwarranted behavior just because you think Kuhu deserves it. It's sad to think that just because a person makes misjudgments in one area of their life, they deserve to be treated like a silly, insignificant, inconvenient person in every other aspect of their life, especially by the people closest to them. This nok-jhok might make sense if it had been preceded by a thoughtful, meaningful conversation about making up for lost time, especially since Kunal left for three months very soon after they got married "for real".

I feel dumb for ranting about this topic over and over, because I really should just move on and treat it for what it is, which is fiction, but more than being upset over Kunal's behavior, I am upset that Kuhu is on the receiving end, especially because I identify so closely with her character. The concept that an individual who clearly has nowhere to productively vent about their frustrations and as a result, lashes out in unhealthy ways deserves to be treated like crap in the relationships they hold near and dear to their heart is absolutely despicable. It makes me wonder if that's how people feel about real life scenarios as well; and if so, when is it okay to decide whether an individual is truly deserving of being treated as less than an equal, and instead as a petty, silly, inconsequential person within the relationships where they should be, at the very least, respected?

Originally posted by: journalgirl321

I'm gonna use this thread to issue a PSA to everyone who thinks the "nok-jhok" between Kunal and Kuhu is "harmless" and "funny":

Kuhu: "Teen mahine se main roz tumhe call karti rahi, message karti rahi, tumne reply kyun nahi diya?!"

Kunal: "Main busy tha!"

Dude, I'm sorry, but what? You're telling me that out of the three months that you were away from home, you couldn't take two minutes out of your day to call your wife and ask her how she was doing because you were that busy? If the writers don't develop on this and give a solid explanation behind why Kunal did not stay in touch with Kuhu in the past three months, this is unforgivable.

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Abir: "Aaj kal ki dulhane sawaalon ka list taiyyar karti hai, 'kyun nahi aaye? Kahan reh gaye the? Phone kyun nahin uthaya?'"

Kunal: "So true."

It is not asking too much to pick up the phone here and there and let your wife know how you're doing, especially when you're abroad and away from home, ESPECIALLY in the midst of a freaking global pandemic. And last I checked, Kuhu is not one of those needy, chipku spouses that constantly needs attention from her husband. Don't act like you're doing her a big service by giving her the basic courtesy that she deserves as your life partner.

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Kunal: "Bhai, ab function ki in-charge Kuhu hogi toh sab gadbad hi hoga na?"

Kuhu: "What do you mean? Mere organizing skills mein kami nahi hai, tumhare dimaag mein kami hai."

Kunal: "Look who's talking about brains!"

Bruh, what? Are you kidding me? I have no words. The Kunal pre-leap would take great pride in Kuhu for her event planning skills, and would beam when someone praised her, even if it was subtle. And "look who's talking about brains"? ExCUSE me?

_________________________

I have seen many people say that these interactions are cute, and fun, and stress-relieving, to which I will say, please stop normalizing this kind of unwarranted behavior just because you think Kuhu deserves it. It's sad to think that just because a person makes misjudgments in one area of their life, they deserve to be treated like a silly, insignificant, inconvenient person in every other aspect of their life, especially by the people closest to them. This nok-jhok might make sense if it had been preceded by a thoughtful, meaningful conversation about making up for lost time, especially since Kunal left for three months very soon after they got married "for real".

I feel dumb for ranting about this topic over and over, because I really should just move on and treat it for what it is, which is fiction, but more than being upset over Kunal's behavior, I am upset that Kuhu is on the receiving end, especially because I identify so closely with her character. The concept that an individual who clearly has nowhere to productively vent about their frustrations and as a result, lashes out in unhealthy ways deserves to be treated like crap in the relationships they hold near and dear to their heart is absolutely despicable. It makes me wonder if that's how people feel about real life scenarios as well; and if so, when is it okay to decide whether an individual is truly deserving of being treated as less than an equal, and instead as a petty, silly, inconsequential person within the relationships where they should be, at the very least, respected?

Trust me when I say this but those "banters" and "not jhoks" were not funny for me either. His manner of speaking was definitely dismissive and insensitive. To give a benefit of doubt to writers, as these are initial days for Avinash probably they were just trying to help him settle into the character before giving more deep, emotional scenes. Albeit it could be done a lot more sensitively considering that Kunal was so loving and affectionate towards his wife too and used to hear out her concerns and complaints as well.

I do not think that Kunal is having an affair. I went back to watching the scenes and even though he was being a prat with Kuhu, his behaviour did not indicate that he is secretly hiding an affair. Also Kunal was never so shameless that he would be cheating on someone and would be roaming about in the house in a boastful way. Maybe it is something else that he is hiding.

Originally posted by: beguiling

I do not think that Kunal is having an affair. I went back to watching the scenes and even though he was being a prat with Kuhu, his behaviour did not indicate that he is secretly hiding an affair. Also Kunal was never so shameless that he would be cheating on someone and would be roaming about in the house in a boastful way. Maybe it is something else that he is hiding.

May be rv going bankrupt after all ek hi year mein 3 shaadi organize kiya n 4th is in d running bankrupt hone ka chance zyada hain 🤣🤣

I think its something to do with RVs business, thats the only thing that can make Kunal lose his mind & explain him being on phone & even redeem his behaviour to an extent

maybe since Red Pears was an airline company so he must be over burdened with the losses (given the lockdown & covid situation) & trying to figure out the solution and save the family from the stress

kuhu kunal dint really have an understanding after 2nd marriage n before lockdown too. kunal not telling kuhu before announcing parul as his mother. kuhu had issues with that too as she dint want to be called servants dil. Kuhu continuing with her mishti jhaap. infact on phone too she was always complaining about mishti. kunal might have got irked by all this. Kuhu herself has not concentrated on her relation with kunal. which she needs to instead of getting involved with mishti meenu n others

Originally posted by: peacenfun

I think its something to do with RVs business, thats the only thing that can make Kunal lose his mind & explain him being on phone & even redeem his behaviour to an extent

maybe since Red Pears was an airline company so he must be over burdened with the losses (given the lockdown & covid situation) & trying to figure out the solution and save the family from the stress

If they show this angle on the show, I would really be impressed and it would be nice to see how the family figures all of this together. I would like to see Kunal come out on top of this business crisis. That would be a great track to see.