YRHPK Live Updates/Episode Discussions 28 Jul 2020 - Page 24

Originally posted by: yrhpk_aus

4th point I completely agree with Uru. The tables have turned completely and it definitely is Abir's turn to hide a crucial truth.

Just for fun: If Abir indeed did tell the truth to Mish today. i.e: no dream sequence

then, fans - to - RS:🤣

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Originally posted by: Snorlax

unpopular opinion there might be too much negativity shown in the episodes but i'm actually liking this track how its showing the harsh reality of society we live in

a) The parameters for Daughter & DIL is different when a DIL gets support from her husband she gets to hear all kinds of taunts and blame but similarly when a daughters husband support her we praise the SIL and hail him to no extent.

b) husband supporting his wife still doesn't set well with MIL , she feels she is loosing her control over her son

c) even today there are many families like RV family who on daily basis blame everything on their DIL and even outsiders or family relatives can easily taunt them and no one supports their DIL its really good they are showing abir supporting mishti but in most of the cases husbands never or rarely take a stand for their wife's.

d)Even in tomorrows episode when they show about the pregnancy the whole blame will be on girl not even once it will be considered its a mistake of boys also or both are responsible not only one and we saw a glimpse of it in precap when nirmala aunty was defaming ketki and even in spoilers we saw the whole RV family was blaming ketki not even once anyone said anything to varun.

Very very nicely said yaar👍🏼

Ofcourse during these difficult real global times, we obviously don't feel like watching soo much negativity and toxicity spewing from the show. But we also have to accept the harsh reality of our society, and try to focus on the main point of the track, the message they are trying to say (even through this crazy chaotic messed up drama track🤪😆)

Originally posted by: MishBirStruck

Exactly, itne bole jaa rahi aur koi kuch bol bhi nahi raha, ummeed vaise bhi nahi ki thi but fir bhi come on she's an outsider Yaar.

Yeah kal Mazaa aayega ,in one segment I had seen that mishti will tell that she'll go and apologize to mother and will agree to all her condition, I just hope ye Abir ke ghar jaane se pehle ho, iska matlab he'll stop mishti from going there and will go himself. Abir ke mast shots milenge kal can't wait

That's true, ab dekhna hi padega, he can't let ketu go to a family like this. And when varun said ki Mujje ye shaadi karni hai, why I am thinking black mail shaadi ke baad shuru hoga , that family moment of Varun gave me so much doubt 🤔

true we dont want them to go n shout at nimi but cant they request her to leave the matter.... like abir said outsiders easily question mishti bcoz family gives them rights by keeping quiet...

ohh i hope its before yaar... abir would give some intense shot n go on with the nimi one on one match 😆

true whether nimi is good or not doesnt matter first that is important is how varun is... even maamu asked his opinion that day...

@bold - same vaishu i'm doubting all this mainly bcoz of that scene.... if there is even a slight clue abir can hold it and do something.... hopefully he does something... n hope ketu gets married by end of this track with someone good poor girl everything started with her shaadi only 😆

Originally posted by: angelfire78

Ketu ki toh luck dekho na - pehle saas ke roop mein mrs parekh aur ab nirmala aunty 😆

haillaaa so true...😆. poor girl sab apni fui ki tara hai... hayee i miss mrs parekh she is a swagger 😆

Originally posted by: LetThereBeLight

true we dont want them to go n shout at nimi but cant they request her to leave the matter.... like abir said outsiders easily question mishti bcoz family gives them rights by keeping quiet...

ohh i hope its before yaar... abir would give some intense shot n go on with the nimi one on one match 😆

true whether nimi is good or not doesnt matter first that is important is how varun is... even maamu asked his opinion that day...

@bold - same vaishu i'm doubting all this mainly bcoz of that scene.... if there is even a slight clue abir can hold it and do something.... hopefully he does something... n hope ketu gets married by end of this track with someone good poor girl everything started with her shaadi only 😆

Exactly itna to koi bhi kar sakta

Exactly Even I want it before, Mazaa aayega 😆

Yup 😌😌

Exactly atleast is baar ek acche insaan se shaadi ho Uski, Itna to ketki ki kismat kharaab nahi honi chahiye

Originally posted by: yrhpk_aus

🤗hifi!!

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Now that I think of it, I really want to know answers from RS and ITV; #KyunChupChapPapa

Bade Papa is the only father we see on the show that has proper dialogues and given fatherly duties.

1. Shaurya is sidelines

2. Kaushal maamu is just there as Meenu's toy or Nidhi maami's joker

3. Forget about Nishan't dad who was utterly ignored

and now 4. Varun's father is just a showpiece?

I understand the idea of giving women-orientated and powerful woman roles, but that doesn't mean Male figures have to be diminished to such trophy 1D characters. Feminism is about equality, not putting men down.

A father's significance/role and say in their children's rishta is as important as the mother and the child themselves. Especially when it's about a daughter's rishta ofcourse Kaushal maamu has the right to make some decisions, just like Bade papa did.

@bold: 😆 100 sau takki baat che

🤣 true we need answer for all this.... yaar seriously just bcoz mass audiance are woman doesnt mean you should focus only on them that too gives out bad message... we should bring about a change to show the role of dads in daughters life, wife's life, and how they feel n be the pillar of support....

@bold - Word nandu... i got emotional when maamu said about his feeling it was small but significant we need more of that... remember baba track how naanu n maamu supported meenu... they have talent yaar but they are not given the deserving importance...

i expected alot from shaurya during kuku divorce truth, anshuman tho bul jao we didnt even get to see him even mr parekh was like that....

Originally posted by: yrhpk_aus

🤗thankyou diya

Yes yes yes! you said it all perfectly!👏👍🏼

@Bold: TRUTH! WORD!👏 And it truly is so so so important to show that message. So good on them, for at least taking some steps in the right direction.

aey nandu panda thanks wapas le lo meri jaan 🤗🤗

i love this new initiative but still hoping for more elaborate pov of everyone they are missing the balance thats it but this is a new welcome change... 👏

Originally posted by: Sarcastic_me

Her unapologetically herself dat I am missing. She even back answered meenu also.

I know dey r dragging this track but at least give some importance to her PTSD condition rather than her just silently listening to d taunt and just crying and Dan saying I am sorry 

Every dialogue of her huv n number of sorry at least give her something different to say. Their writing of mishti's character huv gone to d drain long time back. Still if I feel for her is due to rhea's performance. But at least give her some variations of scenes. I know rhea will do her best in every thing even if they give her crap of a scenes

Yes I know, I'm missing that too. Knowing how strong she was (still is inside), that's why it's that much harder to see her like this all weak and poor self-esteem

@bold: yes I know. But like I was saying before; Mishti only answers back especially meenu, when it involves her pyaar or her BM/BP.

If you're talking about that one time: Mishti-Meenu at temple. It's a scene after meenu successfuly breaks off mishbir, through blackmailing but still making it look like it is all Abir's decision. But Mishti clearly doesn't want to believe it, she's in denial and senses kuch kaala hai daal mein - hence suspects meenu.

Remember she says those iconic words "aapke ek nahi dono bete kho denge". But flash forward to the day mishbir's rishta finally get's fixed, Meenu snarkly reminds her of those exact words, and Mishti immediately regrets it being apologetic.

That's what I'm trying to say. Although Mishti has the courage to speak up forherself, she many times gives in to society when the blame is on her. But if anyone tries to aim or hurt her pyaar, her abir or her BP/BM she immediately stands up. Whereas, when people constantly point, aim and insult her like they have always been doing since her childhood, she returns back into her shell. It's Abir who has been bringing her our of that guilt mode - trying to bring her her mind out of the pyaar vs ehsaan muddle.

Mishti's mental status is not something that can resolved with just a few months, even with such a strong supportive rishta and man like Abir, changing a person's mindset (like we all know and can see with BB) is extremely hard - even a perception about yourself, is difficult to change especially when the longest time in your life from childhood, everyone has been calling you the same horrible names.

Just my take on the situation. sorry I've rambled on.

I too agree that the writing has often gone down the drain, but we've seen that happen in each track, character traits have been compromised for the sake of storyline and trp, we just have to accept and move on.

Originally posted by: Snorlax

unpopular opinion there might be too much negativity shown in the episodes but i'm actually liking this track how its showing the harsh reality of society we live in

a) The parameters for Daughter & DIL is different when a DIL gets support from her husband she gets to hear all kinds of taunts and blame but similarly when a daughters husband support her we praise the SIL and hail him to no extent.

b) husband supporting his wife still doesn't set well with MIL , she feels she is loosing her control over her son

c) even today there are many families like RV family who on daily basis blame everything on their DIL and even outsiders or family relatives can easily taunt them and no one supports their DIL its really good they are showing abir supporting mishti but in most of the cases husbands never or rarely take a stand for their wife's.

d)Even in tomorrows episode when they show about the pregnancy the whole blame will be on girl not even once it will be considered its a mistake of boys also or both are responsible not only one and we saw a glimpse of it in precap when nirmala aunty was defaming ketki and even in spoilers we saw the whole RV family was blaming ketki not even once anyone said anything to varun.

arey dear its not unpopular its the popular opinion we all want to talk about... every word of yours is true... sometimes show goes overboard with dialogues n the screeching but it feels real too... sometimes reality is so harsh to believe too...

Originally posted by: Rope_of_Hope

Done yaar👍🏼

Diyu this is the reality of our society kuch bhi ho finally they blame will be on the Girl

Even everyone blaming mishti for leaving RV sadan the decision was taken by abir but the blame comes on mishti..becoz she is abir wife so she is intigated abir to leave the house..even in today's world if men take stand aginst their wife then the society blames the women not men..they say he is innocent becoz of his wife he has changed..this is the sad reality of our society

kya kare hume serial mein accha nahi lagtha dekh ne ko but its reality😭

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true that too mostly the woman are the ones to blame the girl...

haan even though what nimi said was absurd but it is reality decision kisi ko bhi ho but blame is on bahu of the house....

actually its hypocritical yaar they expect this same support for their daughter from their SIL but can easily blame bahu if their son follows that.... we see it everyday in our life...