Kuhu's Insecurities - Page 3

Originally posted by: NoraSM

Wasn't Kuhu the reason for Mishbir being together? How can she be the reason for Mishbir being together and hate Mishti for hurting Nishant?

Nishant brought Mishti to India with a plan to unite her with Abir, where did Mishti tell him that she loves him or there's a possibility of love from her end?

Nishant would have been hurt because he fell in love with a woman who didn't love him, Kuhu was there when Nishant told everyone about what he did to make sure his and Mishti's marriage happens? Selective Memory

How is Kuhu reason for Mishbir reunion by hating Mishti for not marrying Nishant?

I do see hell lot of contradictions there

Only if one can explain, why Kuhu has to hate Mishti for something which doesn't involve her? It was Nishant's life and his decision, It is Mishti's life and her decision

Can you explain how Kuhu's insecurities make sense? How is the mental abuse she puts Mishti through makes sense? Even if Kuhu was reason for Mishti's birth, she doesn't have the right to put her life problems on her or attempt to kill her

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Hi Nora ,

I agree with your post, I really tried to understand this character and to be very very honest I became more a fan of her than mishti post leap when kuhu decides find another calling in life, gives a cold shoulder to kunal, prepares herself with the upcoming divorce, really tries to balance everything around , that was a good relatable progression to the character bu after marriage it has been reduced to a lame one dimensional character who has no job other than hating mishti and she has now gone blind in that , otherwise we can clearly see how rajvansh family adores and cares for her over and above mishti and abir but no, her attempt to prove herself better than mishti and being so aggressive about it is making her go down the drain , sorry to say but no amount of insecurity is justifying her actions and those abusive words she keeps throwing at mishti here and there

what started off as an insecutiy or jealusoy is now coverted into a dangerous hate, I feel sorry for her she is digging her own grave and by the time she realises it , she would have gone too far.

I understood her insecurities in the beginning as she was not first priority in her own family, Kunal 's life. Destiny always had other options as Kuhu is never gonna be first priority in anyone's life which she always expected from childhood maybe its due to her childhood as not being biological daughter to Varsha. Her family too gave her some kind of insecurities such as fixing rishta of mishti with Kunal, asking her how is Mishti when she was admitted for allergy( I understand that they are not aware of it) etc. She does love her family a lot as she hide her feeling for Kunal when the rishta swapped, always planning weddings, functions for them. She loves Kunal a lot by hiding the divorce truth, making him to respect his mom not accepting right away, made connections with his family, give away her prize money to Ketki without any second thoughts etc. I dont know which girl after knowing divorce can go this far of length of giving him love and affection as well as to his family too. She does have lots of good qualities but when Mishti is in picture, her mind goes in some mode maybe non working mode where she forget about everything in her life and only focus on hating her. She gave unconditional love to Kunal and expect him to gave her in return the same love but Kunal priorities are different and she is never going to get first priority in his life. Its time for her move on from her expectations from others. Why fans love character, maybe the actor is doing good job of protraying the character well eventhough the writers may change the character traits without much thoughts that is what happening in Kuhu character.

When Nishant himself had accepted his mistake n has moved on in life n is living happily in London toh kuhu ko kya problem hai? Live Ur life happily na with Ur hashtag husband of the year n hashtag sasuma of the century

Originally posted by: aquaHP

Wow! What selective memory! Aage peeche ka yaad hai but what about the actual incident that gave Abir the 1% hope?!

Kuhu is the reason Mishti and Abir are together in the first place. If it wasn't for her standing up to Abir's constant shouting on Mishti and telling him to talk to Kunal, he would have been still hiding behind his glasses and saying, "everything is awesome" while Mishti and Nishant would have gotten married and left for London.

Mishbir are together becoz of BM and mishti..Mishti left the weddding venue with the help of BM..even we remember what happened on mishbir wedding day..she snatched the mandap becoz she dont want msihbir to be together even she told to mishti..she dont care if she gets married with abir or not..she wants to get married first though she was not happy becoz mishbir got married on the same day

Originally posted by: Onyourface

Hi Nora ,

I agree with your post, I really tried to understand this character and to be very very honest I became more a fan of her than mishti post leap when kuhu decides find another calling in life, gives a cold shoulder to kunal, prepares herself with the upcoming divorce, really tries to balance everything around , that was a good relatable progression to the character bu after marriage it has been reduced to a lame one dimensional character who has no job other than hating mishti and she has now gone blind in that , otherwise we can clearly see how rajvansh family adores and cares for her over and above mishti and abir but no, her attempt to prove herself better than mishti and being so aggressive about it is making her go down the drain , sorry to say but no amount of insecurity is justifying her actions and those abusive words she keeps throwing at mishti here and there

what started off as an insecutiy or jealusoy is now coverted into a dangerous hate, I feel sorry for her she is digging her own grave and by the time she realises it , she would have gone too far.

I didn't like her when she supported Kunal in breaking Mishbir (After Mishbir worked so hard putting their feelings behind, Mishti had to let go of her self respect for Kuhu's marriage to Kunal) it's not about Mishbir but the guy is putting break up of his brother as a condition to marry her, does that sound like love? When Kunal broke her heart on her wedding night and compared her to someone whose company he took over saying he has no hatred for Kuhu, she was just means to an end

I expect her to feel betrayal here, but she has only nice things to say about Kunal and hates Mishti, did Mishti force her to Marry Kunal? Wouldn't a normal individual feel bad for betraying Mishbir and supporting Kunal when all he did was use her?

I liked her after leap too but I didn't like when she agreed Kunal's marriage proposal, after putting her through pain of months, Kunal should have worked hard to win her love but Kuhu being Kuhu, didn't care about her marriage with Kunal, all she cared about was the Mandap and attention

You love the guy, you are getting married to him, why do you care about Mishti here? Wouldn't one be afraid what if she has to face what she did the last time?

After Mishti gave her mandap and first chance to get married first, She wanted everyone to wait for pictures when 5 minutes were left in Muhurt, Mishbir got 5 minutes from 30 minutes, Kuhu had attention for full 25 minutes, but she couldn't take 5 minutes of happiness for Mishbir, It was after she got married, one would think about her husband and the life which is to come

That's why I am unable to connect to this character, Mishti had her own insecurities, she still has those Insecurities, it's not like Mishti had a wonderful childhood

Mishti's world is her love for Abir and Kuhu's world is her hatred for Mishti

Originally posted by: livepraylaugh

I understood her insecurities in the beginning as she was not first priority in her own family, Kunal 's life. Destiny always had other options as Kuhu is never gonna be first priority in anyone's life which she always expected from childhood maybe its due to her childhood as not being biological daughter to Varsha. Her family too gave her some kind of insecurities such as fixing rishta of mishti with Kunal, asking her how is Mishti when she was admitted for allergy( I understand that they are not aware of it) etc. She does love her family a lot as she hide her feeling for Kunal when the rishta swapped, always planning weddings, functions for them. She loves Kunal a lot by hiding the divorce truth, making him to respect his mom not accepting right away, made connections with his family, give away her prize money to Ketki without any second thoughts etc. I dont know which girl after knowing divorce can go this far of length of giving him love and affection as well as to his family too. She does have lots of good qualities but when Mishti is in picture, her mind goes in some mode maybe non working mode where she forget about everything in her life and only focus on hating her. She gave unconditional love to Kunal and expect him to gave her in return the same love but Kunal priorities are different and she is never going to get first priority in his life. Its time for her move on from her expectations from others. Why fans love character, maybe the actor is doing good job of protraying the character well eventhough the writers may change the character traits without much thoughts that is what happening in Kuhu character.

If Mishti was priority of the family, Kuhu and Jasmeet wouldn't get a free pass for abusing her at every chance they get. BM asked Mishti to apologise to Meenakshi when Mishti wasn't at fault, for Mishti it was losing her self respect, didn't Badi Ma prioritise Kuhu over Mishti here?

Kuhu has always been a priority of her parents, they didn't hate Mishti like Jasmeet so Kuhu doesn't consider them a part of her inner circle or people she goes to when in trouble, didn't Varsha tell Badi Ma that she is not leaving the house as mark of respect for Bade Pa but she can't live happily with Mishti?

Kunal is a different matter, I personally feel Kuhu could have chosen a better husband, I don't like Kunal as a husband, I don't think Kuhu loves him

I mean who would care about Mishti when she is finally getting the love of her life? She didn't stop Kunal from drinking the spiked coffee, I personally don't see love in this relationship and think Kuhu, with a man she loves, wouldn't care about Mishti

The reason I made this post was to understand how Kuhu is a good person or her insecurities are justified when she hides wedding cards and berates Mishti with Jas and Meenu, she knows Mishti wasn't at fault because she hid those cards, wouldn't a good person feel bad for it? How's her Insecurity rational here?

A one or two minute scene of kuhu creates so much impact .All the praises to Kaveri to give life to the character which is so poorly written & used by cvs as per their convenience.In addition she brings glamour quotient in the show.😍😍

Thanks Nora for the much needed post. I feel to cover up all The character kuhus deeds by many it is said that it's because of her childhood insecurities for the very convenient reason as Mishti entered and got all attention. Well if that is so what about the real daughter of Varsha n Shaurya s own daughter Ananya basically and rightfully she should have faced insecurity when kuhu entered in their lives. Not seen the PS as in the actual age of Ananya at that time. At whatever that age it's therefore Ananyas maturity that kuhu is accepted by her the relationship is many times shown in the show. Basically I would say that it's the insensitivity rather than insecurity of Kuhu towards Mishti and many times towards Abir. What about her take on Parul when she wasn't hesitant a bit while Parul was Blaimed for pills fiasco? When Parul was accepted by kunal or most recently when she said in all her conscious very clear that she doesn't want to become like Parul. Which insecurities are here then? It's that she wants materialistic pleasures for that emotions of other people has no place in her highly materialistic world. A person doing duties at their own homes then all housewives do that also the working women all over the world and that doesn't only include the making of food chart as if I'm not mistaken Parul does the actual cooking. Meenu and koslu do the office work Nidhi helps in the work and remainig Jugnu does so what's this I was looking after the house for three months that too of a LD period. So what one wants is beyond my understanding that too kuhu teacher n khuhu ness is being praised by everyone n everywhere what else she wants. Not at all understood this character in the show.

Originally posted by: NoraSM

Wasn't Kuhu the reason for Mishbir being together? How can she be the reason for Mishbir being together and hate Mishti for hurting Nishant?

Nishant brought Mishti to India with a plan to unite her with Abir, where did Mishti tell him that she loves him or there's a possibility of love from her end?

Nishant would have been hurt because he fell in love with a woman who didn't love him, Kuhu was there when Nishant told everyone about what he did to make sure his and Mishti's marriage happens? Selective Memory

How is Kuhu reason for Mishbir reunion by hating Mishti for not marrying Nishant?

I do see hell lot of contradictions there

Only if one can explain, why Kuhu has to hate Mishti for something which doesn't involve her? It was Nishant's life and his decision, It is Mishti's life and her decision

Can you explain how Kuhu's insecurities make sense? How is the mental abuse she puts Mishti through makes sense? Even if Kuhu was reason for Mishti's birth, she doesn't have the right to put her life problems on her or attempt to kill her

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