Rhea-Shaheer|MishBir|AT: 82| DT Reminder note Pg 104 - Page 12

Originally posted by: ruhi19

love u dear..❤️

Love u too yaar❤️❤️

Originally posted by: yrhpk_aus

Very nicely explained aishu👍🏼👏

No you've balanced the tone of your post very well, not ranting or insulting at all. Just simply trying to put forth your thoughts, with a clear explanations😊

I completely agree with you.👍🏼 I've also mentioned the same thing about Kuhu's immaturity much earlier (few weeks ago maybe during the shaadi n divorce track).

The maheshwari family have done a pretty awful job at managing these two sisters. I mean partly, at the start it was because Mishti and Kuhu never allowed their real bond be shown to the family. But at the same time, the parenting has been quite superficial and biased according to the family situation, so one or the other sister had to always end up bearing some level of pain which only added further to their deep childhood insecurities. BP BM nor varsha and Shaurya never tried to dig deep into their daughters' real psychological issues, even after coming to know about mish-ku's hostile relationship, they acted and tried to patch-them up with superficial baatein and advice that honestly doesn't make any of it better. Now that both girls are married, and to make this even more problematic, living in the same in-laws; the maheshwari family have seem to just let their responsibility loose. 1, they have put pressure on the girls who already never get along, to ensure they keep the rv house/bhai relationship intact. So basically, they are pushing the girls into the deep end of the pool, asking them to learn how to swim by themselves, which obviously hasn't worked for the last 10-15 years. How will they solve their issues amongst themselves, when all it has done over the years, is just aggravate their volatile bond. and 2. The unfinished and inadequate parenting by mah family, is now left to the rv brothers? more precisely, Abir. arre if BM, BP and varsha don't understand (or refuse to see) the depth, complexity and severity of the sister's hostile relationship...bechara Abir (who only knows the girls for 1 year), how will he know or understand how badly damaged these sisters are? That's why Abir's approach to deal with Kuhu and her issue with Mishti, is both right and wrong. It makes sense from his p.o.v., but at the same time, his flaw of looking over his bro's mistakes as just bachpana (just like he did with nanko before), is hitting his relationship with Mishti. Abir is being watchful of many things; kuhu's behaviour, Kunal's reactions, Parul-Kunal bond and ofcourse Meenu's fake act. The poor guy doesn't have anymore eyes, so he seems to be unable to see the collateral damage, hid "band-aid" theory is having on Mishti and their relationship. It's simply because he is trying to figure this complication sister situation out, with the constant underlying threat of his mother, he is unable to explain himself and his thoughts properly to Mishti. It is definitely complex. Not easy to handle, one open direct talk between mishbir is just not gonna be enough. mishbir have dug into this rabbit hole (kuhu and meenu drama) so deep, that now they are starting lose themselves in the tunnels. But their love is much stronger than these bumps in the ground, they will sooner or later find each other and realise the strength and power as a team. Mishbir's love will conquer❤️

omg oops I'm so sorry, my reply became soo long. Hopefully I didn't bore you out😆😕 haha I didn't realise I went off track from mish-ku to abir n mishti. Ahh well, I'll have to save the rest of my analysis for another post.

Thanks dude! I loved your post! It is a very complex situation, both characters with the knowledge they know are correct. Both Abir and Mishti do not have the full picture yet, we as the audience know what is going on but the individual characters do not know that yet, they are in a naive situation as they just got married. Thinking about this logically, Abir sees the major battle ahead of them he realizes that internal conflict is exactly what Meenakshi wants (saw glimpses in the Holika celebration and Meenu's "breakdown" {her blaming everyone except herself on the roof}), but as Abir is seeing the battle approaching in the horizon he is not able to see the small battles before this major battle. He is too busy prepping for the battle approaching that he is failing to see the current battle is weakening his defense. I think this track may also address Mishti hiding things hopefully, and Abir addressing them properly. Because although Mishti is saying that Kuhu is in the wrong here, and she is correct, she is not providing the big picture yet. All Abir sees is a girl who is jealous but "loves" her sister. All he knows that Kuhu accidentally dropped the sleeping pills, and was too scared to address or tell anyone about fearing everyone's reaction. Mishti realizes that this is not a true rhetoric as Kuhu herself wanted Mishti to drink it. She needs to tell Abir so that even if he wants to patch them up he realizes that their relationship is not just one a jealous sibling rivalry, but something even darker and deeper. Abir needs to pause and listen to what Mishti is saying as well, whether she is fighting or being jealous of Kuhu, as Mishti said: She is the one who knows Kuhu best, and he needs to realize that.

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Originally posted by: ruhi19

dont know what happens but i dont want mishti to blamed by meenu...

That is the plot yaar...why will meenu miss this chance....

But I want Abir to realize what he has done. Leaving a girl in a new place at that time, is not right...

Originally posted by: Lee_14

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so lockdown till 14 april, OKay

Total lock down till 14 April 😌😌

Hope we come of this soon

Originally posted by: The_incredible

Moni yaar I'm sorry..I know that somewhere around I am sometimes too negative..I won't say it anymore..it hurts me a lot to see Sha like this..I'm his fan since mahabharat..and for me nothing is more important than Sha..not even the show..I'm sorry if it hurt u..

I thought u will understand me..more than anyone else..I'm deeply hurt yaar..nothing can come up with it..I thought of celebrating shad birthday happioy in the forum..but not anymore..my happiness and my excitement all washed away..

Ammu🤗 i m sorry i m interfering here but just wanna say few things.nd i m someone who is not good with words..and wont express myself to anyone..But couldnt stop myself today.. 🤗

Moni didnt want to hurt u.. i can understand moni's and Your's Povs here bcoz i was just like u..Yesss sometimes i feel u r my younger version behaving just like me.. Every single word which u used for shaheer i used to say for my favv couple... I became fan of my favv shows leads some 10 yrs ago, I wanted soo much for them, i remember i used to cry for them. When they were happy i was happy,when they were sad i was sad for the whole day/week.. It was like i wa sooo much dedicated to them. BUT, BUT ... Things changed, and with age, i realised that At the end of my life, none of this matters. It all means nothing. What i will remember and care is my parents, my frnds, my studies, my job, nd "Most imp what i overcame in my life".. My favv actors not my life, they r just part of my life.. nd If something happens to me to unhe to pata bhi nahi chalega ki unki ek fan bhi thi but my parents my loved ones will the one who will get affected..

And @moni suggested u to stop using negative words, i can very well understand this. Coz what u think is what u attract. If u keep saying this line -- "Yes i become negative sometimes, then this "Sometimes" will become "always" and it will become ur reality.. According to the Law of Attraction, what you think and feel shapes your reality. You r what u think. When we constantly dwell on negative stuffs, we tend to send these signals to the universe which interprets it as if u want more of the negative things. Negative sochoge, bologe to universe will give u only and only neg things back in ur life. It is called the Law of Attraction. Universal energy is positive and it cant take in the NO, NOT, negation words or emotions. So it sends back more of what we think. Positive will attract positive and negative to negative.. These r ur reality in making.. So go easy on yourself and let yourself be happy with wherever u r in your process, right now.🤗 🤗

I m sorry if i m offending u.. But really ammu i couldn't control today..i had to intevene. I think u wont be able to understand this "law of attraction" thing now. For more ref.u can goggle it.. and bahut ho gaya aaj ka lecture. Aaj ke liye itna hi bas😛😃

Originally posted by: piyasingh

Ammu🤗 i m sorry i m interfering here but just wanna say few things.nd i m someone who is not good with words..and wont express myself to anyone..But couldnt stop myself today.. 🤗

Moni didnt want to hurt u.. i can understand moni's and Your's Povs here bcoz i was just like u..Yesss sometimes i feel u r my younger version behaving just like me.. Every single word which u used for shaheer i used to say for my favv couple... I became fan of my favv shows leads some 10 yrs ago, I wanted soo much for them, i remember i used to cry for them. When they were happy i was happy,when they were sad i was sad for the whole day/week.. It was like i wa sooo much dedicated to them. BUT, BUT ... Things changed, and with age, i realised that At the end of my life, none of this matters. It all means nothing. What i will remember and care is my parents, my frnds, my studies, my job, nd "Most imp what i overcame in my life".. My favv actors not my life, they r just part of my life.. nd If something happens to me to unhe to pata bhi nahi chalega ki unki ek fan bhi thi but my parents my loved ones will the one who will get affected..

And @moni suggested u to stop using negative words, i can very well understand this. Coz what u think is what u attract. If u keep saying this line -- "Yes i become negative sometimes, then this "Sometimes" will become "always" and it will become ur reality.. According to the Law of Attraction, what you think and feel shapes your reality. You r what u think. When we constantly dwell on negative stuffs, we tend to send these signals to the universe which interprets it as if u want more of the negative things. Negative sochoge, bologe to universe will give u only and only neg things back in ur life. It is called the Law of Attraction. Universal energy is positive and it cant take in the NO, NOT, negation words or emotions. So it sends back more of what we think. Positive will attract positive and negative to negative.. These r ur reality in making.. So go easy on yourself and let yourself be happy with wherever u r in your process, right now.🤗 🤗

I m sorry if i m offending u.. But really ammu i couldn't control today..i had to intevene. I think u wont be able to understand this "law of attraction" thing now. For more ref.u can goggle it.. and bahut ho gaya aaj ka lecture. Aaj ke liye itna hi bas😛😃

I have read it in the secret 😆

Originally posted by: Npdeepa

#No Formalities..❤️

Families mein difference of opinion hota reha tha hein and at those times we can't KISS and makeup...🤣 but we could talk and makeup🤗

Ammu, we all have an guardian angle and she lives above our head. Her job is to bless you with whatever you word it out....That is why i said don't use negative words...

Moni can i ask u 1 thing.. what if our guardian angels r giving us signs since long but not helping us?? I think i m confused abt wat i have to ask..

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