The Ultimate Game——my take on the recent episodes...

Hello all, 😊

I wanted to write something since few days now , but didn't had time to do so.

Sorry, it is quite long...please bear with me...😆

This post is completely my opinion of recent episodes...You could always disagree to agree. 😊

I would say the whole game of shuffling cups was staged because he smelled something bad. and he made sure the cup which went to Mishti was given to his Maa at the end. But when she smartly exchanged it with kuhu, he took the cup from her. (as diyu predicted)

Kuhu should have come up with some random reason to stop everyone from consuming that drink but she failed to do so. However, she made sure that she doesn't consume her drink. This shows that she is a self centered soul.

Mishti is a confused soul and whenever she is confused she takes abir's words or shayari's as insipration and follows it adrently. example: keep trying even if you got 1%of chance to achieve something.

1. She stopped herself from revealing the truth because of abir kunal convo in their room made clear to her that Abir wont blame someone blindly without any hard evidence except for herself.

2. Abir supporting kuhu infront of the family during holi dhahan that "KUHU will not hurt anyone" made Mish to deduce that she shouldn't disclose this khaand of kuhu because abir has immense trust in kuhu. It could be either she doesn't want to give abir a heartbreak or she might have thought Abir won't standby her. (I personally prefer the former reason).

Meenu didn't let this pill incident slip off because she knew Mishti will blast kuhu infront of both families, so that she could prove that Mishti is not the right person to be a RV bahu. But Mishti doesn't want to carry her infamous tagline in RVs, so she has been giving moral lessons to kuhu in private so that she confess on her own. Meenu being DS she will never leave any stone unturned to prove that she is right. Yes, till that scene downstairs,even i gave Abir the benefit of doubt..even mishti felt abir is right after she spoke to kunal so went to meet abir and abir also after talking to parul maasi came inside to talk to Mishti but alas no one could come inbetween him and his bro. So he decided to go behind his bro first.

He definitely had a gist of the so called sisters relationship but he didn't indulge into it...and because he is a person who want solid evidence he brushed it off easily. But after witnessing the bond they share...I was expecting him to talk it out to Mishti about it in their room. But alas, he spilled out something inappropriate.

A person who is well aware why we have two ears but just one mouth...failed miserably as a husband when he didn't give allow his wife to continue after he realized that his wife will not stop arguing about his bro khaand.

He know why she walked out and she ended the discussion with 'Fine, we will walk in your path'. But my worry is he didn't stop her or go behind her instead he decided to downstairs through the other entrance.

I loved Abir parul conversation in the courtyard. this woman is mother goals. She made Abir understand who should he standby (ie Mishti). And I liked when the elders identified the friction between the newly weds and took the resposibility to guide them in their marital life. Naanu didn't say manano Mishti he said talk to nicely. And BM made Mishti understand that Abir let go of this easily even it was alife and death situation for him. and i think that is when Mishti decided to let go of this issue because she know what kuhu is capable of. So when Mishti gets hurt Abir will go bonkers...(This what is what we wanted)...

A BF who was impressed about her GF being a fighter, showed his disinterest of his wife being a fighter. Trust me this is not the first time, meenu just asked him to break the rishtey with mishti but the reason he gave of her coming from a broken family is his own words. So when he said that' jagadaa karna tumari aadath hain' is clearly supporting his previous statement during breakup ‘ she is from a broken family' . So Mish misinterpreting it as such is not wrong.

But the last nail in the coffin was when MISH saw her hubby giving a hug and assured his bro that his wife will not let her secrets out.

This might have made mishti deduce that Abir too thinks that she is incapable of keeping the family together.( ie. her misinterpretation (to us) is made to be right interpretation for her). This justified her dialogue to him today about learning the lessons on how to bind the family together... So far, it was just Meenu and Jas scenes were playing in Mishti's head but I felt really sad when she played abir words in it...(so Abir has been added to her tag list)...Unless he words it out, those scenes will be playing on her head whenever similar situations arise.

Based on the dialogues of Mishti , she will never share her thoughts to Abir anymore instead she will use Abir’s band aid therapy. ( applying band aid to wound is not the same as resolving family issues).

Actually, I dont believe in 'kaan padakke apologizing' or 'going on your knees to apologize' or 'gift something to apologize' or 'get touchy to apologize'( this is for couples only). To me they should talk it out 'why, how,when,what, who, because ' all these positive encourages should be addressed in the apologizing session. Even for proposing, I believe these PE should be addressed rather than going on your knees. This defines equality.

I loved the role reversal of apologizing and making food to manaavo your spouse is the best way ever. Who said they didn't communicate.They did through the messages. And Mishti made him feel guilty by reminding him the promise he made during their wedding. Even today, by giving in easily he made him more guilty. You will what I am talking about if you have noticed his expressions throughout their conversation in the care date. Even yesterday, his expression screamed guilty when Mishti reciting the shayari. Even today, he made him guilty by giving in easily and accepting that 'she is indeed from a broken family'. When he explained his Band aid strategy of dealing family issues. Look at her expression, she even questioned back what if it is goes beyond limit.. and getting partner's help. So he will back to Mishti's when he gets that' jhoor ka jatka'.

She almost teared up when she was reciting the shayari.. Poor girl. All she wanted was to be heard by her hubby...Abir eyes was only for Mishti in last two episodes. He smiled only when he saw his Mishti Doi smiled in the kitchen. (Dil Se). His heart would have broken into million pieces when he saw her washing the dishes. (They have more than 1 servant right). But what the use, when you don’t want to listen to her.

I think Mishti has made a decision to go in Abir's way for now so that at the right time she could bring him back on track. in other words, She will walk beside him hand in hand but when he comes to know that he is wrong and breaks. She will give a hand to rise him up and stand high.

This is another way of dealing with fights /arguments between couples. (especially the newly weds)

The other one is showing cold shoulder (People like me, Pali and geeth prefer...Isn't it ladies... and if you wish you could join your name to this list). Mostly, the second one could be implemented only after few years of marriage.

I loved when she throw the plate right after she sensed abir is behind her #sadisticpleasure. and i am sure all married woman here would have obliged with Mishti's royal ignornace to her pati. It means that he dare not to come close to her.🤣

when Abir taught moral lesson chapter 1 to his bro and in return as guru dakshana bro taught him how to lie. But if you have noticed he didn't give a hoots about kuhuness when kunal talked about it...he was just looking at Mishti. Poor Abir. I felt bad for him

About him not saying anything to kuhu, is nothing but he didn't care much about her all he cared was for parul maasi and make kuhu apologize to her. That's it. When he comes to know that kuhu thinks parul maasi as a servant...is blood will boil...even then don't expect him to give tashan to kuhu. did you see how to dealt with that servant who called Parul maasi a servant. This is how he will deal with the people other than his loved ones. He is connected to kuhu only because of kunal...It will be kunal who shows tashan to her.

When Abir asked mishti to join hands with the family she didn't straightaway but when family insisted she did. But took her hand right after giving assurance to naanu that she will do anything for the family but kunal didn't let her do so. That indicates Kunal will also try to meddle bhaiya and bhabhi when needed like he did in day before yesterday's episode by placing mishti's hand on top of Abir's. Kunal will standby Mishti infront of the family where abir will standby his bro until he gets to taste his own medicine.(trust me his bro is very much highly capable of it).

Drama tho jaroor hoga because Meenu changed her strategy now, she will Gel with Kuhu to prove her point yet again...And she said to kuhu that she punishes people for their mistakes...As per Meenu, kuhu has done two mistakes so far first one is she didn't made sure that spiked coffee was consumed by Mishti and then calling her dragon saas.

I am happy that Mishti gave the ownership back to kunal. I want her gel with and follow Parul's footsteps on maintaining a household/family because that is where Mishti lags.

As far as Mishbir are concerned, this track is not about how married couples manage into the joint family, instead it is to show how a couple should work together as a team in a joint family to keep the family intact. Kuhu is the centre of this track because she is the most insecure person out of the four. While exploring kuhu's insecurities, they will deal with the leads insecurities as well.

Someone here compared Abir to Lord Shiva... Lord shiva is a calm and composed person but when he gets angry he will first react (like he will burn the person infront of him first) and then regret for his actions. This is what Abir did when MishBir were arguing about kuhu in thier room. I know he didn't mean what he said, it just came out of his mouth in a fit of rage to stop her. But his words, surfaced her insecurities. In yesterday episode, when she said even if anyone (she saw Abir) ask her leave RVs, she will not go out of this house. Also, when abir was explaining her about his Band aid strategy to deal with family issues just look at her reaction to it. She even questioned What if it goes beyond limit. he replied then get the help of you partner. So she know abir will come back to her after he realizing that he is wrong and he need Mishti's support to keep the family together. But I think it will be too late and then they might decide to live separately. See if atall Mishti didn't give him the idea to work on the facts before taking any decisions during NishMish sangeeth, he would have got married to the gal of his mom choice to save parul maasi and this is his way of dealing with family conflicts which will not rectify the issues but will bring just a temporary solution. The sach saamne laana is Mishti's way of dealing things and he actually followed her. So he implicitly guided Kunal and made him bring parul ma sach out in open.

Abir, actually took a worse decision of his life in his emotional state ( ie breaking up with Mishti)...where he failed to work on the facts (like always mishti says) and used his band aid strategy.

Abir basically got blinded by his emotions and forgot to think that bringing kunal truth out will affect BB more than parul and kunal because BB is a society oriented person and she is an adrent followers of the society's old school methods...That is the main reason she fears to bring an illegitimate and foster child (kuhu and mishti respectively) as her bahus...So how will she bring out kunal's truth to light which will defame her.

Though Abir is the one who gave the long due recognition to parul maasi, their target will be Mishti.

So now that the truth has been brought to light, BB might use the reporter to frame parul with mehul fraudulent case of cheating her for money...

So at some point, kuhu might tell her bro that she can't live with Mishti in the same house because of her weird reasons and when she gets too stubborn about it...kunal might decide to leave the RVs because he doesn't belong to RV family anyways. BB know Abir won't let his nanko and parul leave the house. So bb notion is Abir might ask Mishti to leave the house. But alas, BB plan will flop as usual and it will be her son and bahu leaving the house.

Added after today’s episode:

Precap: Meenu will say I will take parul place as a housewife and parul can play my role as a husband.

Yes, you heard me right. In RVS., Meenu played role of a father figure (where power and dominance involved) and parul played a role of mother figure (love, care and family togetherness) to the boys.

Yeah, BB had inner motives. She married Mehul even being a married man. Don't ask me how he convinced her...i haven't got a clue🤣....When she came to know that her father is struggling to run the business with the actual heir ( kosulu) of the RV’s, maybe Mehul and bb planned to conquer fame, status and money of RVs.

BB wouldn’t have expected her husband’s first wife to come with child. It is not very hard for her to implant the thought of parul being the second wife and kunal as naajaz, because Abir is elder to kunal. So to keep her secrets wrapped, she took parul and kunal under her shelter. At the same time, she took revenge from both of them, she sent Mehul to jail and made parul a servant but she looked after kunal as her own son for her selfish reasons and also to keep parul under her control.

According to Abir, it is his baba who cheated on both his mothers. He thinks because of his mom controlling nature she made maasi a servant.

Unknowingly, Abir woke up the animal in her today, by throwing an open challenge.

The ultimate game is on...she is going to play very cruelly this time...and her target is mishti, parul .

Didn't BB warn parul that she'll be burnt if she goes near the fire... One side, kuhu will be at the forefront and BB will be at the backend. On the other side, Abir will be at the back end and Mishti / kunal in the forefront...

So far, BB was implicitly making kuhu do her khaands but after today she will join the team ‘saasuma of the century’... it will be interesting to see how Abir is going to deal with his bro bachpana which isn’t bachpana anymore..

I liked Parul abir scene today. Everytime, she will be one to advice Abir about his behavior with Mishti like she did at the courtyard after coffee spike truth came out and today.Emotional separation will be on and off... we are already had glimpses of it. We have face it and this is how mishbir deal with it.

This will go on until Abir is made to taste his bro medicine. Poor him. He is comparing kunal with kuhu. Little did he know what all his bro is capable of ... Though it looks like that he hasn’t completely agree with Mishti about kuhu. He has started to think about it because of the painting he created today.

So while painting his eye, it was mishti's words (about kuhu) playing in his head.

He is believing in what he is seeing (represents the black shades) but there is still hope because use of other colors like blue and pink.

*Black represents power,mystery,formality,evil.

*Blue represents patience and understanding.

*Pink represents romance, compassion, love,sensitivity.

A EYE-The eye itself is a powerful organ associated with knowledge, foresight, power and/or protection.

Though at the moment he is surrounded by the dark clouds(thoughts) he will soon see the real colors of his bro and / or get to know about her (represents knowledge) where he will foresee their future through the acquired knowledge which will lead him to get into power to protect Mishti, his love.

Abir thinks he made everything right just by changing the picture frames (band aid therapy) but Misthi is actually right when she said they’re loosing. Mishti made him realize that he is hiding the truth for the person who is not worth it and this will lead them to loose the battle he is fighting. (i.e. to keep the family intact)

Let's sit back and enjoy the game...

All problems can stop if only ITV characters start treating people like Kuhu as an adult, if she is old enough to marry then she should not get a free pass for everything she does. She is a cold hearted vengeful person, who has no feelings for anyone, not even her husband

Originally posted by: NoraSM

All problems can stop if only ITV characters start treating people like Kuhu as an adult, if she is old enough to marry then she should not get a free pass for everything she does. She is a cold hearted vengeful person, who has no feelings for anyone, not even her husband

Hi nora,

Every one of us have both positive and negative sides. It the upbringing that shapes you up either as a better person or a dark one. It is the society that paints you as a negative person and pushes you to the dark side even if you're grey.

Kuhu is still stuck in that in secured child's phase. People like Jas would have never let her to come out of that phase to see to the bright side of life. Even Mishti has a hand in it...She must have spoke to her BM or Bp about kuhu instead of giving moral science lessons to her in private...Kuhu is slowly being pulled into the dark side. I hope she reverts back quickly to the bright side before it's too late like BM said to her on the holi day.

Originally posted by: Npdeepa

Hi nora,

Every one of us have both positive and negative sides. It the upbringing that shapes you up either as a better person or a dark one. It is the society that paints you as a negative person and pushes you to the dark side even if you're grey.

Kuhu is still stuck in that in secured child's phase. People like Jas would have never let her to come out of that phase to see to the bright side of life. Even Mishti has a hand in it...She must have spoke to her BM or Bp about kuhu instead of giving moral science lessons to her in private...Kuhu is slowly being pulled into the dark side. I hope she reverts back quickly to the bright side before it's too late like BM said to her on the holi day.

Agreed that everyone has a positive and negative side and they are solely responsible for that side of them. Jas can influence Kuhu because she is the only one who speaks against Mishti with such vengeance. There are many people in Kuhu's house but only Jas has some effect on her, why's that?

Childhood insecurity is understandable but complete lack of sensitivity is not, she blames Mishti for everything in her life, whatever she does can not be overlooked because she had to share things with Mishti

Why everyone is held accountable for Kuhu's wrongdoings? Why Jas? Why Mishti? Why not Kuhu herself? How many chances should she get?

Wrong post

Sorry

Originally posted by: NoraSM

Agreed that everyone has a positive and negative side and they are solely responsible for that side of them. Jas can influence Kuhu because she is the only one who speaks against Mishti with such vengeance. There are many people in Kuhu's house but only Jas has some effect on her, why's that?

Childhood insecurity is understandable but complete lack of sensitivity is not, she blames Mishti for everything in her life, whatever she does can not be overlooked because she had to share things with Mishti

Why everyone is held accountable for Kuhu's wrongdoings? Why Jas? Why Mishti? Why not Kuhu herself? How many chances should she get?

@bold That is because Varsha would have been stayed aloof on her initial days in Mah's because she is her husband's child born out of extra marital affairs. Jas would have taken varsha place and you know how Jas is...Nish is Jas son and you know how quickly he flipped between dark and bright side...That is Jas's upbringing...so you should expect same kind of behavior from kuhu as well.

Jas is not blamed for kuhu doings it is just Mishti... unless Kuhu's khaand comes out and insecurities addressed. nothing will change.

as per my understanding the maheshwaris are the real culprits😆

on a serious note, its the upbringing & the way they have tackled the insecurities & issues of each person which is wrong

in kuhu's case it looks like a typical case of misplaced anger & blame game

because she had to share her family's love with mish so she is insecure of her, and in this case I will blame bp-bm, somehow they couldnt balance between being parents to mish & grand-parents to kuhu

infact I would say they have made mistakes in case of jas & mish also, that is why jas spews venom whenever she gets a chance, because her issues with mishti & to some extent even kuhu are not being addressed, it is clear she is less bitter towards kuhu because she is a family(biologically)

and in mish's case even after living with maheshwaris for so many years she still calls jas & varsha as aunty, I mean as a family member she can call them chachi, maami anything, its clear that both ladies have not accepted mish as a family, and bp-bm have not even addressed this issue & it looks like to compensate all this they became more affectionate & supportive towards mish which made kuhu(& even jas & varsha to some extent) insecure

but kuhu is totally a family woman, though she acts all cool & happening but for her family comes first(this is the basic trait which is common between kuku, both can go to any extent for their families, doing the morally right thing doesnt matter for them unlike mishbir), she loves her family & since she cant blame bp-bm because they have been justifying with their reasons ever since so she blames mish, that mish is the root cause & if mish didnt come in her home her life would have been better

to add to it mish is driven by doing the right thing & many a times doing right thing goes against keeping family's happiness & peace, so all the drama that follows makes kuhu justify her notions about mish

Deepu I just loved your post Yaar 🤗

The analysis was perfect 🤗

I was smiling all the time and even got emotional too😆

Guru dakshina part was really funny 🤣

Mishbir's all scenes you analysed perfectly

It actually gave me positive vibes for upcoming epis 🤗

But I didn't understand the last para, who ask whom to leave house ,plz explain 😅😅🙈🙈

Originally posted by: peacenfun

as per my understanding the maheshwaris are the real culprits😆

on a serious note, its the upbringing & the way they have tackled the insecurities & issues of each person which is wrong

in kuhu's case it looks like a typical case of misplaced anger & blame game

because she had to share her family's love with mish so she is insecure of her, and in this case I will blame bp-bm, somehow they couldnt balance between being parents to mish & grand-parents to kuhu

infact I would say they have made mistakes in case of jas & mish also, that is why jas spews venom whenever she gets a chance, because her issues with mishti & to some extent even kuhu are not being addressed, it is clear she is less bitter towards kuhu because she is a family(biologically)

and in mish's case even after living with maheshwaris for so many years she still calls jas & varsha as aunty, I mean as a family member she can call them chachi, maami anything, its clear that both ladies have not accepted mish as a family, and bp-bm have not even addressed this issue & it looks like to compensate all this they became more affectionate & supportive towards mish which made kuhu(& even jas & varsha to some extent) insecure

but kuhu is totally a family woman, though she acts all cool & happening but for her family comes first(this is the basic trait which is common between kuku, both can go to any extent for their families, doing the morally right thing doesnt matter for them unlike mishbir), she loves her family & since she cant blame bp-bm because they have been justifying with their reasons ever since so she blames mish, that mish is the root cause & if mish didnt come in her home her life would have been better

to add to it mish is driven by doing the right thing & many a times doing right thing goes against keeping family's happiness & peace, so all the drama that follows makes kuhu justify her notions about mish

I totally agree...

I always pity for the girls than the boys in the show... BB good or bad but they got a lovely mother in the form of maasi. Maybe BB just played a father’s role in the boys life.

It is absolutely Mah’s fault.

Originally posted by: MishBirStruck

Deepu I just loved your post Yaar 🤗

The analysis was perfect 🤗

I was smiling all the time and even got emotional too😆

Guru dakshina part was really funny 🤣

Mishbir's all scenes you analysed perfectly

It actually gave me positive vibes for upcoming epis 🤗

But I didn't understand the last para, who ask whom to leave house ,plz explain 😅😅🙈🙈

Thanks vaishu...🤗

Here is the last para for you.

So now that the truth has been brought to light, BB might use the reporter to frame parul with mehul fraudulent case of cheating her for money... which will irritate kuhu more and Jas will instigate kuhu as well...so at some point, kuhu might tell her bro that she can't live with Mishti in the same house because of her weird reasons and when she gets stubborn about it...

kunal might decide to leave the RVs because he doesn't belong to RV family anyways. BB know Abir won't let his nanko and parul leave the house. So bb notion is Abir might ask Mishti to leave the house.
But alas, BB plan will flop as usual and it will be her son and bahu leaving the house. Because to me, no one know the depth of love mishbir share.