The Ultimate Game——my take on the recent episodes... - Page 2

@npdeepa: and naanu too was a better guide for boys, specially abir

Originally posted by: Npdeepa

Thanks vaishu...🤗

Here is the last para for you.

So now that the truth has been brought to light, BB might use the reporter to frame parul with mehul fraudulent case of cheating her for money... which will irritate kuhu more and Jas will instigate kuhu as well...so at some point, kuhu might tell her bro that she can't live with Mishti in the same house because of her weird reasons and when she gets stubborn about it...

kunal might decide to leave the RVs because he doesn't belong to RV family anyways. BB know Abir won't let his nanko and parul leave the house. So bb notion is Abir might ask Mishti to leave the house.
But alas, BB plan will flop as usual and it will be her son and bahu leaving the house. Because to me, no one know the depth of love mishbir share.

ye plan toh banne se pehle hi flop hai yaar😆

even a blind person can see that abir will never leave mishti's side, now now that she is his wife, it is impossible, he will simply walk away with her(if she is made to leave this house, he will also go with her)💔

infact even if mish has to jump in fire he will tag along

ye sabko pata hai, bb ko ab tak nahi samjha toh ek number ki idiot hai wo, isliye flop hote hain uske saare plans, basic concept hi nahi samjha usko ab tak🤣

vaise bb ke mishku se family ka break-up karane ke plan se hoga kya, chalo maan liya ek baar(though it is highly impossible ki ye plan successful ho) ki family toot gayi & mishku par balme bhi aa gaya, toh ab kya abhinal chood denge apni wives ko, and family patch-up kaise karegi bb, ye details sochi hai ya bas vague idea ke saath chal padi hai bb

thank god kunal business sambhalta hai, bb ke planning-plotting skills ke bharose toh rjvs beggars ban jaate🤣

Originally posted by: peacenfun

ye plan toh banne se pehle hi flop hai yaar😆

even a blind person can see that abir will never leave mishti's side, now now that she is his wife, it is impossible, he will simply walk away with her(if she is made to leave this house, he will also go with her)💔

infact even if mish has to jump in fire he will tag along

ye sabko pata hai, bb ko ab tak nahi samjha toh ek number ki idiot hai wo, isliye flop hote hain uske saare plans, basic concept hi nahi samjha usko ab tak🤣

vaise bb ke mishku se family ka break-up karane ke plan se hoga kya, chalo maan liya ek baar(though it is highly impossible ki ye plan successful ho) ki family toot gayi & mishku par balme bhi aa gaya, toh ab kya abhinal chood denge apni wives ko, and family patch-up kaise karegi bb, ye details sochi hai ya bas vague idea ke saath chal padi hai bb

thank god kunal business sambhalta hai, bb ke planning-plotting skills ke bharose toh rjvs beggars ban jaate🤣

Exactly...

I always wonder what’s her thought process could be🤣because she never tried to stop or invade in their intimate moments... it is Nanko who invades mishbir moments and kuhu herself invades her intimate moments 🤣 to do romantic pooja.

So BB wants her son to have all the fun with their wives but after she proves her point expects her sons to throw their wives and do what? play sitar🤣

silly woman..😆

Originally posted by: Npdeepa

Hello all, 😊

I wanted to write something since few days now , but didn't had time to do so.

Sorry, it is quite long...please bear with me...😆

This post is completely my opinion of recent episodes...You could always disagree to agree. 😊

I would say the whole game of shuffling cups was staged because he smelled something bad. and he made sure the cup which went to Mishti was given to his Maa at the end. But when she smartly exchanged it with kuhu, he took the cup from her. (as diyu predicted)

Kuhu should have come up with some random reason to stop everyone from consuming that drink but she failed to do so. However, she made sure that she doesn't consume her drink. This shows that she is a self centered soul.

Mishti is a confused soul and whenever she is confused she takes abir's words or shayari's as insipration and follows it adrently. example: keep trying even if you got 1%of chance to achieve something.

1. She stopped herself from revealing the truth because of abir kunal convo in their room made clear to her that Abir wont blame someone blindly without any hard evidence except for herself.

2. Abir supporting kuhu infront of the family during holi dhahan that "KUHU will not hurt anyone" made Mish to deduce that she shouldn't disclose this khaand of kuhu because abir has immense trust in kuhu. It could be either she doesn't want to give abir a heartbreak or she might have thought Abir won't standby her. (I personally prefer the former reason).

Meenu didn't let this pill incident slip off because she knew Mishti will blast kuhu infront of both families, so that she could prove that Mishti is not the right person to be a RV bahu. But Mishti doesn't want to carry her infamous tagline in RVs, so she has been giving moral lessons to kuhu in private so that she confess on her own. Meenu being DS she will never leave any stone unturned to prove that she is right. Yes, till that scene downstairs,even i gave Abir the benefit of doubt..even mishti felt abir is right after she spoke to kunal so went to meet abir and abir also after talking to parul maasi came inside to talk to Mishti but alas no one could come inbetween him and his bro. So he decided to go behind his bro first.

He definitely had a gist of the so called sisters relationship but he didn't indulge into it...and because he is a person who want solid evidence he brushed it off easily. But after witnessing the bond they share...I was expecting him to talk it out to Mishti about it in their room. But alas, he spilled out something inappropriate.

A person who is well aware why we have two ears but just one mouth...failed miserably as a husband when he didn't give allow his wife to continue after he realized that his wife will not stop arguing about his bro khaand.

He know why she walked out and she ended the discussion with 'Fine, we will walk in your path'. But my worry is he didn't stop her or go behind her instead he decided to downstairs through the other entrance.

I loved Abir parul conversation in the courtyard. this woman is mother goals. She made Abir understand who should he standby (ie Mishti). And I liked when the elders identified the friction between the newly weds and took the resposibility to guide them in their marital life. Naanu didn't say manano Mishti he said talk to nicely. And BM made Mishti understand that Abir let go of this easily even it was alife and death situation for him. and i think that is when Mishti decided to let go of this issue because she know what kuhu is capable of. So when Mishti gets hurt Abir will go bonkers...(This what is what we wanted)...

A BF who was impressed about her GF being a fighter, showed his disinterest of his wife being a fighter. Trust me this is not the first time, meenu just asked him to break the rishtey with mishti but the reason he gave of her coming from a broken family is his own words. So when he said that' jagadaa karna tumari aadath hain' is clearly supporting his previous statement during breakup ‘ she is from a broken family' . So Mish misinterpreting it as such is not wrong.

But the last nail in the coffin was when MISH saw her hubby giving a hug and assured his bro that his wife will not let her secrets out.

This might have made mishti deduce that Abir too thinks that she is incapable of keeping the family together.( ie. her misinterpretation (to us) is made to be right interpretation for her). This justified her dialogue to him today about learning the lessons on how to bind the family together... So far, it was just Meenu and Jas scenes were playing in Mishti's head but I felt really sad when she played abir words in it...(so Abir has been added to her tag list)...Unless he words it out, those scenes will be playing on her head whenever similar situations arise.

Based on the dialogues of Mishti , she will never share her thoughts to Abir anymore instead she will use Abir’s band aid therapy. ( applying band aid to wound is not the same as resolving family issues).

Actually, I dont believe in 'kaan padakke apologizing' or 'going on your knees to apologize' or 'gift something to apologize' or 'get touchy to apologize'( this is for couples only). To me they should talk it out 'why, how,when,what, who, because ' all these positive encourages should be addressed in the apologizing session. Even for proposing, I believe these PE should be addressed rather than going on your knees. This defines equality.

I loved the role reversal of apologizing and making food to manaavo your spouse is the best way ever. Who said they didn't communicate.They did through the messages. And Mishti made him feel guilty by reminding him the promise he made during their wedding. Even today, by giving in easily he made him more guilty. You will what I am talking about if you have noticed his expressions throughout their conversation in the care date. Even yesterday, his expression screamed guilty when Mishti reciting the shayari. Even today, he made him guilty by giving in easily and accepting that 'she is indeed from a broken family'. When he explained his Band aid strategy of dealing family issues. Look at her expression, she even questioned back what if it is goes beyond limit.. and getting partner's help. So he will back to Mishti's when he gets that' jhoor ka jatka'.

She almost teared up when she was reciting the shayari.. Poor girl. All she wanted was to be heard by her hubby...Abir eyes was only for Mishti in last two episodes. He smiled only when he saw his Mishti Doi smiled in the kitchen. (Dil Se). His heart would have broken into million pieces when he saw her washing the dishes. (They have more than 1 servant right). But what the use, when you don’t want to listen to her.

I think Mishti has made a decision to go in Abir's way for now so that at the right time she could bring him back on track. in other words, She will walk beside him hand in hand but when he comes to know that he is wrong and breaks. She will give a hand to rise him up and stand high.

This is another way of dealing with fights /arguments between couples. (especially the newly weds)

The other one is showing cold shoulder (People like me, Pali and geeth prefer...Isn't it ladies... and if you wish you could join your name to this list). Mostly, the second one could be implemented only after few years of marriage.

I loved when she throw the plate right after she sensed abir is behind her #sadisticpleasure. and i am sure all married woman here would have obliged with Mishti's royal ignornace to her pati. It means that he dare not to come close to her.🤣

when Abir taught moral lesson chapter 1 to his bro and in return as guru dakshana bro taught him how to lie. But if you have noticed he didn't give a hoots about kuhuness when kunal talked about it...he was just looking at Mishti. Poor Abir. I felt bad for him

About him not saying anything to kuhu, is nothing but he didn't care much about her all he cared was for parul maasi and make kuhu apologize to her. That's it. When he comes to know that kuhu thinks parul maasi as a servant...is blood will boil...even then don't expect him to give tashan to kuhu. did you see how to dealt with that servant who called Parul maasi a servant. This is how he will deal with the people other than his loved ones. He is connected to kuhu only because of kunal...It will be kunal who shows tashan to her.

When Abir asked mishti to join hands with the family she didn't straightaway but when family insisted she did. But took her hand right after giving assurance to naanu that she will do anything for the family but kunal didn't let her do so. That indicates Kunal will also try to meddle bhaiya and bhabhi when needed like he did in day before yesterday's episode by placing mishti's hand on top of Abir's. Kunal will standby Mishti infront of the family where abir will standby his bro until he gets to taste his own medicine.(trust me his bro is very much highly capable of it).

Drama tho jaroor hoga because Meenu changed her strategy now, she will Gel with Kuhu to prove her point yet again...And she said to kuhu that she punishes people for their mistakes...As per Meenu, kuhu has done two mistakes so far first one is she didn't made sure that spiked coffee was consumed by Mishti and then calling her dragon saas.

I am happy that Mishti gave the ownership back to kunal. I want her gel with and follow Parul's footsteps on maintaining a household/family because that is where Mishti lags.

As far as Mishbir are concerned, this track is not about how married couples manage into the joint family, instead it is to show how a couple should work together as a team in a joint family to keep the family intact. Kuhu is the centre of this track because she is the most insecure person out of the four. While exploring kuhu's insecurities, they will deal with the leads insecurities as well.

Someone here compared Abir to Lord Shiva... Lord shiva is a calm and composed person but when he gets angry he will first react (like he will burn the person infront of him first) and then regret for his actions. This is what Abir did when MishBir were arguing about kuhu in thier room. I know he didn't mean what he said, it just came out of his mouth in a fit of rage to stop her. But his words, surfaced her insecurities. In yesterday episode, when she said even if anyone (she saw Abir) ask her leave RVs, she will not go out of this house. Also, when abir was explaining her about his Band aid strategy to deal with family issues just look at her reaction to it. She even questioned What if it goes beyond limit. he replied then get the help of you partner. So she know abir will come back to her after he realizing that he is wrong and he need Mishti's support to keep the family together. But I think it will be too late and then they might decide to live separately. See if atall Mishti didn't give him the idea to work on the facts before taking any decisions during NishMish sangeeth, he would have got married to the gal of his mom choice to save parul maasi and this is his way of dealing with family conflicts which will not rectify the issues but will bring just a temporary solution. The sach saamne laana is Mishti's way of dealing things and he actually followed her. So he implicitly guided Kunal and made him bring parul ma sach out in open.

Abir, actually took a worse decision of his life in his emotional state ( ie breaking up with Mishti)...where he failed to work on the facts (like always mishti says) and used his band aid strategy.

Abir basically got blinded by his emotions and forgot to think that bringing kunal truth out will affect BB more than parul and kunal because BB is a society oriented person and she is an adrent followers of the society's old school methods...That is the main reason she fears to bring an illegitimate and foster child (kuhu and mishti respectively) as her bahus...So how will she bring out kunal's truth to light which will defame her.

Though Abir is the one who gave the long due recognition to parul maasi, their target will be Mishti.

So now that the truth has been brought to light, BB might use the reporter to frame parul with mehul fraudulent case of cheating her for money... which will irritate kuhu more and Jas will instigate kuhu as well...so at some point, kuhu might tell her bro that she can't live with Mishti in the same house because of her weird reasons and when she gets stubborn about it...kunal might decide to leave the RVs because he doesn't belong to RV family anyways. BB know Abir won't let his nanko and parul leave the house. So bb notion is Abir might ask Mishti to leave the house. But alas, BB plan will flop as usual and it will be her son and bahu leaving the house.

Moni ......yaar....interesting perspective about all the happenings abt the show. Its different and I will just reply on the things in bold.

@Bold 1 - Mishti might have decided to follow Abir because she absorbs Abir's advises like a sponge and applies it in her life. Sometimes it wrks and sometimes it doesn't. Like his 1% theory, protecting ur loved ones by lying etc. Like u said she might apply the band aid theory also in her life, maybe it can work out or maybe it can not. Like you said the MO of Abir and Mishti is different when it comes to resolving problems or managing situtions. Maybe it myt work positively for Mishti if she thinks with her heart along with wrking on the facts. Likewise it myt do good for Abir if he wrks on the facts along with his emotions.

@Bold 2 - Diya's post made me think that he was always like that. He doesn't give any explainations or justifications for his actions or for others'. Likewise, he didn't think it was important to justify Mishti infront of Kuhu. Okay, I have explained it in diya's post😃

@Bold 3- I agree. Kuhu's insecurities are yet to be explored and for that the sisters' bond needs to be at the centre. Likewise, this can show mishbir's insecurities and can provide Kunal the actual opportunity to accept a person other than his bhai and maa into his life with all her flaws.

@Bold 4 - Will she play the same card again?? She had already used Kunal and Parul as pawns for ousting Mishti from Abir's life. So she knws Abir myt not fall for the same trick again. She has to have an idea that if Mishti leaves then Abir will also follow. Also, Mishti is not his gf, to break his relationship with her easily. She is Abir's wife and he has to stand by her in everything.

I sooooooo much loved the whole post.

I legit took time & read the whole thing carefully.

Wonderful analysis.

The reaction of Abir to people who are not important enough was bang on.

Also,the fact is he is very much peace loving person. We rarely see him getting angry.

And he get angry only with his ma,kunal & mish.

Even with nannu,he tolerated him way too much until nannu pushed mish.

I was about to disagree about Abir saying his angry words in real but u clarified later.🤗

Obviously those were spoken in haste & in general context how mish fights for truth always.

Due to the situation, they came out harsh too but the damage was done.

She thought it was about her past.

Mish takes abir's word very seriously,always,the girl was dreaming about what his advice would be when they were not even frnds while kunal's rishta came for her.

so she trusted his words this time too.

In a total wrong way!

Abir still has no idea how much deep rooted mishti's insecurity is about the home breaker tag, specially after he said something like this.

Your analogy about how abir's way can't ever be a permanent solution was totally bang on...like in the car they were talking about mish bt in real it will be Bir who will need help in future from his partner.

Also loved how u also see how much guilty abir was throughout the whole time.

But i will say Mishti's way wont work every time too.

They need to find a middle ground.they will need to let some things go & face some things.

I think mish was already doing this. She was letting kuhu go as long as kuhu was not doing some big damage.

They need to be both instinctive & truthful to handle the family.

That's how mayb they will grow up from individual to married couple.

Ps: are u in Twitter? If yes, pls post this there.its a wonderful piece.i mayb tweet something after getting inspired from your post.❤️

Originally posted by: Npdeepa

Thanks vaishu...🤗

Here is the last para for you.

So now that the truth has been brought to light, BB might use the reporter to frame parul with mehul fraudulent case of cheating her for money... which will irritate kuhu more and Jas will instigate kuhu as well...so at some point, kuhu might tell her bro that she can't live with Mishti in the same house because of her weird reasons and when she gets stubborn about it...

kunal might decide to leave the RVs because he doesn't belong to RV family anyways. BB know Abir won't let his nanko and parul leave the house. So bb notion is Abir might ask Mishti to leave the house.
But alas, BB plan will flop as usual and it will be her son and bahu leaving the house. Because to me, no one know the depth of love mishbir share.

kya ye hoga, #happytears 😭🤗

Originally posted by: Mimzy

Moni ......yaar....interesting perspective about all the happenings abt the show. Its different and I will just reply on the things in bold.

@Bold 1 - Mishti might have decided to follow Abir because she absorbs Abir's advises like a sponge and applies it in her life. Sometimes it wrks and sometimes it doesn't. Like his 1% theory, protecting ur loved ones by lying etc. Like u said she might apply the band aid theory also in her life, maybe it can work out or maybe it can not. Like you said the MO of Abir and Mishti is different when it comes to resolving problems or managing situtions. Maybe it myt work positively for Mishti if she thinks with her heart along with wrking on the facts. Likewise it myt do good for Abir if he wrks on the facts along with his emotions.

@Bold 2 - Diya's post made me think that he was always like that. He doesn't give any explainations or justifications for his actions or for others'. Likewise, he didn't think it was important to justify Mishti infront of Kuhu. Okay, I have explained it in diya's post😃

@Bold 3- I agree. Kuhu's insecurities are yet to be explored and for that the sisters' bond needs to be at the centre. Likewise, this can show mishbir's insecurities and can provide Kunal the actual opportunity to accept a person other than his bhai and maa into his life with all her flaws.

@Bold 4 - Will she play the same card again?? She had already used Kunal and Parul as pawns for ousting Mishti from Abir's life. So she knws Abir myt not fall for the same trick again. She has to have an idea that if Mishti leaves then Abir will also follow. Also, Mishti is not his gf, to break his relationship with her easily. She is Abir's wife and he has to stand by her in everything.

Now It's getting creepy!!🤣

@bold : told the same thing in somewhere else😆

Originally posted by: Itsflora

Now It's getting creepy!!🤣

@bold : told the same thing in somewhere else😆

Okay .....its real creepy......🤣🤣

Originally posted by: peacenfun

ye plan toh banne se pehle hi flop hai yaar😆

even a blind person can see that abir will never leave mishti's side, now now that she is his wife, it is impossible, he will simply walk away with her(if she is made to leave this house, he will also go with her)💔

infact even if mish has to jump in fire he will tag along

ye sabko pata hai, bb ko ab tak nahi samjha toh ek number ki idiot hai wo, isliye flop hote hain uske saare plans, basic concept hi nahi samjha usko ab tak🤣

vaise bb ke mishku se family ka break-up karane ke plan se hoga kya, chalo maan liya ek baar(though it is highly impossible ki ye plan successful ho) ki family toot gayi & mishku par balme bhi aa gaya, toh ab kya abhinal chood denge apni wives ko, and family patch-up kaise karegi bb, ye details sochi hai ya bas vague idea ke saath chal padi hai bb

thank god kunal business sambhalta hai, bb ke planning-plotting skills ke bharose toh rjvs beggars ban jaate🤣

Originally posted by: Mimzy

Moni ......yaar....interesting perspective about all the happenings abt the show. Its different and I will just reply on the things in bold.

I happy that you found it interesting...🤗

@Bold 1 - Mishti might have decided to follow Abir because she absorbs Abir's advises like a sponge and applies it in her life. Sometimes it wrks and sometimes it doesn't. Like his 1% theory, protecting ur loved ones by lying etc. Like u said she might apply the band aid theory also in her life, maybe it can work out or maybe it can not. Like you said the MO of Abir and Mishti is different when it comes to resolving problems or managing situtions. Maybe it myt work positively for Mishti if she thinks with her heart along with wrking on the facts. Likewise it myt do good for Abir if he wrks on the facts along with his emotions.

Mini, that is the problem na... now they have a role reversal...she is going to work on instincts and he is going to work on facts....working on facts has a higher success rate than the other one. However,Ii want them to work as team... if they work as team and discuss every single incidents of their day, no one could try to create MU to separate them....okay lets see

@Bold 2 - Diya's post made me think that he was always like that. He doesn't give any explainations or justifications for his actions or for others'. Likewise, he didn't think it was important to justify Mishti infront of Kuhu. Okay, I have explained it in diya's post😃

That is his inborn quality... I am yet to read you comment in diya's post, so will comment there later.

@Bold 3- I agree. Kuhu's insecurities are yet to be explored and for that the sisters' bond needs to be at the centre. Likewise, this can show mishbir's insecurities and can provide Kunal the actual opportunity to accept a person other than his bhai and maa into his life with all her flaws.

Yes, i completely agree...

@Bold 4 - Will she play the same card again?? She had already used Kunal and Parul as pawns for ousting Mishti from Abir's life. So she knws Abir myt not fall for the same trick again. She has to have an idea that if Mishti leaves then Abir will also follow. Also, Mishti is not his gf, to break his relationship with her easily. She is Abir's wife and he has to stand by her in everything.

I dread to answer this but I will put it forth.

Abir will not fall for any of BB tricks but mishti would because she totally MU abir on that holi night and BB could trick mishti indirectly through kuhu.

See during Abir's birthday he said i will not leave you even if you ask me too but he is the one who broke up with her....during logo inauguration bts, she said even if anyone ask her to leave RV's she wont' leave this house (and she saw abir when she said that)...

So now that she has decided to follow band aid therapy...Will she go away from Abir for family's unity and happiness because she is very well aware that for Abir family comes first...

In reality, for Abir, Mishti is his best half...he never saw her as a separate individual but he failed to make her realize that. I hope not but this might lead to their next separation. or maybe it could play like kuku shaadi time airport scene where abir will find her and knock some sense into her head.

My answer in red...😊