Originally posted by: Itsflora
I sooooooo much loved the whole post.
I legit took time & read the whole thing carefully.
Wonderful analysis.
The reaction of Abir to people who are not important enough was bang on.
Also,the fact is he is very much peace loving person. We rarely see him getting angry.
And he get angry only with his ma,kunal & mish.
Even with nannu,he tolerated him way too much until nannu pushed mish.
I was about to disagree about Abir saying his angry words in real but u clarified later.🤗
Obviously those were spoken in haste & in general context how mish fights for truth always.
Due to the situation, they came out harsh too but the damage was done.
She thought it was about her past.
Mish takes abir's word very seriously,always,the girl was dreaming about what his advice would be when they were not even frnds while kunal's rishta came for her.
so she trusted his words this time too.
In a total wrong way!
Abir still has no idea how much deep rooted mishti's insecurity is about the home breaker tag, specially after he said something like this.
Your analogy about how abir's way can't ever be a permanent solution was totally bang on...like in the car they were talking about mish bt in real it will be Bir who will need help in future from his partner.
Also loved how u also see how much guilty abir was throughout the whole time.
But i will say Mishti's way wont work every time too.
They need to find a middle ground.they will need to let some things go & face some things.
I think mish was already doing this. She was letting kuhu go as long as kuhu was not doing some big damage.
They need to be both instinctive & truthful to handle the family.
That's how mayb they will grow up from individual to married couple.
Ps: are u in Twitter? If yes, pls post this there.its a wonderful piece.i mayb tweet something after getting inspired from your post.❤️
Thanks flora...😊
I totally agree with you...
Yes I have a twitter account but don't flow much fans there.... but will try to post it there...❤️