ये रिश्ते हैं प्यार के Live Updates/Episode Discussions 21 Nov 2019 - Page 16

Originally posted by: SheThought

Arre, itna toh jaa sakta hai yaar! 😆 He is going after a few months... though I want him to come back real soon too! His indo trips are quite stressful 😆

Sachi😆... Indo trips are...

Any way..I think it's his work related stuff😊

Originally posted by: Cool_wonder

Mein cool hi Hun🤣😈.....

Baasss thoda🤔....u know🤣

i know re the buttttt 🤣🤣 did you see the spoiler article the khichdi one what is happening re why did she eat half khichdi n left a note... some secret planning hai kya

Originally posted by: nandagopa

Thank you @sutapasima for the update. Sad episode today!

It seems like families keep secrets that end up destroying relationships... I wonder why people are unable to be honest... perhaps it is because we people (so called society) judge too quickly and are high and mighty when we hear of such situations. A woman is wronged—betrayed by the one she loved, the man has two wives, he has practiced bigamy, and the women are not to blame, yet the illegitimate tag is ascribed to both the woman and child as illegitimate wife and child! Whereas it is not the woman or the child’s fault—the man should be ostracized and punished... And imagine all the psychological trauma of hiding this type of a secret.

I wonder how Abir can live his life post knowing what he knows... he cannot reveal it to Kunal...it seems to me that it is a fake form of happiness. It has to eat into him...

Could we not envision a different response, where Abir could call out his mother for her cruel threat and say, she is welcome to go ahead with her threat... but he would walk out anyway with Parul and Kunal? Is he not capable enough to earn and provide for Parul and Kunal? Could he not say, if such is her thinking and fear of society, that he would work / fight society to create a bright future for Parul, Kunal and himself and anyone else who would join him?

I would one day hope to see bold and forward thinking humanistic responses to such situations...

@BoldI: i said the same thing yesterday.. Same thing..😊

Atleast he should have taken a little time.. Than challenged Meenu saying do what u can I'm with Parul n Kunal n Mishti will support me........

That would have been a different a brilliant turn...... But alas our writers were incapable..n decided that insted of heroin, the hero will give in n do the needful... As they are breaking the stereotype....

I would have really aired n saluted the writer n Abhir...

But he scumbed into meenus plan n destroyed not only his love but Mishti too.... Yes he destroyed his happiness to.... But that was his decision..... His weekness at that moment...

Any way.... He'll learn what he's done n surely rectify things hopefully🤔

Originally posted by: LetThereBeLight

yes he is at mistake and i dont deny that and its all his doing...

this mishti will have no option but move on and she is gonna get someone who will make her believe in love again n she has a life ahead... thats what i said... he is not gonna let anyone in his life or move on... actually mishti doesnt need to fight after the private break up... but i've a very twisted reason for all this maybe many wont accept it but let me share it anyways...

see going by abirs character he can never say all this... he is doing so out of character thing... if abir was in mish place he would've still not believed mish, without questioning went away but will know she is doing all this for a reason.... he has blind trust and understanding.... for once i want mish to do the same she can realize he can be a jerk push her away do all this ugly thing but not say the truth, and so why should she fight.... i want her not to believe this act and be angry on him for still not saying truth n ready to give up on their love... like you said abirs dialogue comes into play now... she can move on and when tomorrow truth comes out confront abir then walk away with head held high n let him come behind you, give hard time...

But I want Mishti to fight not directly !!! I want her to provoke or torture Abir until he confesses the truth himself!!! Maybe vatti boy can help her here!!!

When he chose Kunal over Mishti, it was kind of impulsive..he is overprotective about Kunal and when Meenu said to Kunal she wants to talk to him....he kind of went through the drama of breaking up with Mish!!! My point is he didnt think through the decision or the consequences or the heart break he will facing!!! Seeing mish with vatti boi will drive home the point to abir that he can lose mish permanently from his life!!!

I surely want Mish to give him a hard time but I also want her to support him also , without him knowing.....

They never had any ego between them.....their usp was always the understanding they shared!!! Agar ek kamzor padtha hain tho doosra sambhaltha hai.......I dnt want the equation to change!!!

Mish should not give in until he understands the consequences of throwing away their relationship !!! He should understand that he couldnt always protect Kunal at the expense of hurting others!!!

I dnt know if my rant made any sense to you!!!

PS : Just noticed....I think we kind of said the same thing with minute differences!!!

Originally posted by: LetThereBeLight

i know re the buttttt 🤣🤣 did you see the spoiler article the khichdi one what is happening re why did she eat half khichdi n left a note... some secret planning hai kya

What khichdi article😲

What is it....😲.. New spoiler😲

Originally posted by: LetThereBeLight

i know re the buttttt 🤣🤣 did you see the spoiler article the khichdi one what is happening re why did she eat half khichdi n left a note... some secret planning hai kya

She is still going to harbor feelings for him and pin for him till she sees #NehaBir insta post... then she is not going to forgive him 😒

Originally posted by: divvk

I really wish BP told many more things to RV family. The worst part is no one would doubt Meenakshi in RV house. I am so glad mishti told BM and went ..really,BP and BM are ideal parents anyone could have.. I hope Kunal does think that Meenu is behind this as she has done all these kind of things in the past..looks like only he can solve the mystery.. abir can’t win BP BM trust anymore I think.. BP is just so angry with abir and I doubt if he will accept even if mishti reconciles..

very good points! Well made @divvk It will be difficult for Abir to win the trust of BP and BM..

Originally posted by: Cool_wonder

I think that will happen yaar......

See now bade Papa hates him...... Once things settle he'll have to win Bade Papa ka confidence back.. This time not just with bade dum words but he'll need to prove by action😊... That he deserves Mishti....

Also like you said he did take impulsive decision.. But the wrath of this decision will sink in slowly.. When he sees Mishti with someone else..n that time what he'll do we need to see

Everything just got complicated.....and the reason is as always Kunal!!! Ultimately its Abir's fault for never letting his brother grow up and always protecting him at the expense of hurting others!!!😔

Originally posted by: SheThought

She is still going to harbor feelings for him and pin for him till she sees #NehaBir insta post... then she is not going to forgive him 😒

What's happening😲

Neha..u meen Helly😲...Kya Kiya is Neha ne😡

Originally posted by: Cool_wonder

What's happening😲

Neha..u meen Helly😲...Kya Kiya is Neha ne😡

Neha's dulha's name is kabir.....so fandom is speculating that there will be #nehabir post in insta and mish will see this and be heartbroken and vatti boi will console her!!!😆