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Originally posted by: Mimzy

I should be angry ....but I am not!!! But he just dug his own grave and now he has to lie in it !!! Ab toh mish bhi nahin he to ground him!!!

@bold - The thing is mishti has no other option other than to move on!!! She tried her best to fight for him and if he had even given an inch she would have held on!!! In Abir words "agar jisse main pyaar karta hoon wahi iss ladayi mein saath nahin hain tho mein samajhoonga ki usne kabhi mujhe pyar kiya hi nahin!!!"

yes he is at mistake and i dont deny that and its all his doing...

this mishti will have no option but move on and she is gonna get someone who will make her believe in love again n she has a life ahead... thats what i said... he is not gonna let anyone in his life or move on... actually mishti doesnt need to fight after the private break up... but i've a very twisted reason for all this maybe many wont accept it but let me share it anyways...

see going by abirs character he can never say all this... he is doing so out of character thing... if abir was in mish place he would've still not believed mish, without questioning went away but will know she is doing all this for a reason.... he has blind trust and understanding.... for once i want mish to do the same she can realize he can be a jerk push her away do all this ugly thing but not say the truth, and so why should she fight.... i want her not to believe this act and be angry on him for still not saying truth n ready to give up on their love... like you said abirs dialogue comes into play now... she can move on and when tomorrow truth comes out confront abir then walk away with head held high n let him come behind you, give hard time...

Originally posted by: Cool_wonder

I think Sha did a good job at showing how desperate abhir was to search for reasons n bad words soo that mishti could go

That info trip is still in my head.....I haatsss abhir more

Originally posted by: LetThereBeLight

hahaha i know your thought re why you are saying this 🤣🤣 will check twitter n say now ok

I read somewhere he is coming back on the 25 or 26th...

Originally posted by: SheThought

I read somewhere he is coming back on the 25 or 26th...

really so only for weekend types.. thats ok i'm not worried yaar trying to cool down cool 😆

Originally posted by: SheThought

I read somewhere he is coming back on the 25 or 26th...

Oh😲😃..

Thanks Pali🤗🤗...

So 4-5 days ka trip🤔

Originally posted by: piyasingh

Thanks diya for the update..but what did he say to the BP and BM.??

he didnt say anything to them piya... infact he only asked if they knew mishti was missing on GD day and bm said she knew n asked him to understand mishti... but abir says thats what he is trying to do understand why mish didnt say anything to him..

Originally posted by: SheThought

Abir aage hame bahot rulane wala hai dekhna... we need to be prepared!!

Feel so bad that Meenu managed to kill MishBir essence! Kaash.... they had eloped on KC day and gotten married 💔

Yaaa....wish they had got married!!!Next time around they probably will elope❤️

Originally posted by: LetThereBeLight

really so only for weekend types.. thats ok i'm not worried yaar trying to cool down cool 😆

Mein cool hi Hun🤣😈.....

Baasss thoda🤔....u know🤣

Originally posted by: Cool_wonder

Oh😲😃..

Thanks Pali🤗🤗...

So 4-5 days ka trip🤔

Arre, itna toh jaa sakta hai yaar! 😆 He is going after a few months... though I want him to come back real soon too! His indo trips are quite stressful 😆

Originally posted by: Mimzy

......Pali ...that promo and abir's expression dekhkar mujhe sachii me rona aagayi!!!!💔 Heartbroken expression......his overprotectiveness over Kunal made him to impusively choose Kunal over Mishtiii....and now he would have to pay the price .....and he is going to realize the extent of it when he sees vatti boi and mish!!!

Yaaa....wish they had got married!!!Next time around they probably will elope❤️

I think that will happen yaar......

See now bade Papa hates him...... Once things settle he'll have to win Bade Papa ka confidence back.. This time not just with bade dum words but he'll need to prove by action😊... That he deserves Mishti....

Also like you said he did take impulsive decision.. But the wrath of this decision will sink in slowly.. When he sees Mishti with someone else..n that time what he'll do we need to see

Thank you @sutapasima for the update. Sad episode today!

It seems like families keep secrets that end up destroying relationships... I wonder why people are unable to be honest... perhaps it is because we people (so called society) judge too quickly and are high and mighty when we hear of such situations. A woman is wronged—betrayed by the one she loved, the man has two wives, he has practiced bigamy, and the women are not to blame, yet the illegitimate tag is ascribed to both the woman and child as illegitimate wife and child! Whereas it is not the woman or the child’s fault—the man should be ostracized and punished... And imagine all the psychological trauma of hiding this type of a secret.

I wonder how Abir can live his life post knowing what he knows... he cannot reveal it to Kunal...it seems to me that it is a fake form of happiness. It has to eat into him...

Could we not envision a different response, where Abir could call out his mother for her cruel threat and say, she is welcome to go ahead with her threat... but he would walk out anyway with Parul and Kunal? Is he not capable enough to earn and provide for Parul and Kunal? Could he not say, if such is her thinking and fear of society, that he would work / fight society to create a bright future for Parul, Kunal and himself and anyone else who would join him?

I would one day hope to see bold and forward thinking humanistic responses to such situations...