Breakup and Abir - Page 2

Originally posted by: raishi

It’s really heartbreaking 😭... and it’s true what you have said.. it’s a fictional show after all.. but the pain we feel is very much real...I must say even in real life men usually tend to do the same..U can only hurt those who are so close and dear to you...

True Raishi, we hurt the people closest to us because we feel we have the most right on them. You feel they will understand you!

The pain is very real! We all are feeling the heartbreak... especially because MishBir were so so special! Uff!!

Abir is in an emotional turmoil and literally on gunpoint to make a decision .

I am actually relieved that we did not have to see them married / getting married with all the ceremonies and having Bigben then throw Mishti out, that dragon woman would have done that also.

I understand everyone wanted a mutual separation but it’s very tough with a girl like Mishti. She will fight and fight .

The only way for Abir was to use the only weapon that Meenu gave him , that Mishti knew about Baba and did not tell him. That is by far the only way Abir could have broken up with her...

I feel worse for Abir than Mishti. The entire family will rally around her and bring back her smile. Abir becomes the bad guy here and he will have only himself to cry with. He will not be able to tell anyone the truth.

Also, I feel he will bring back his fun loving side in front of the family and feel like he has moved on. Seeing Mishti with someone else is what is going to trigger him again to start thinking about her. He has been shown to be extremely territorial (in a sweet way of course) , so seeing her with another guy is not going to go well with him.. what he will do and will he express his jealousy openly is what will make this track even more exciting ....

and thanks for this thread, with all the Abir bashing (I know everyone has their reasons). I feel a lot of the comments here are in line with what I have been feeling through this track 🤗

double post

Hopefully the makers just do the leap thing super fast... it’s really affecting us all fans...just keeping strong even though feeling bad... Abir and Mishti has indeed seeped through slowly in our hearts and made an unforgettable place in our hearts...

Even though abir isn't in mistake,still he will suffer even if mishti learns the truth.Because according to her characterization,she isn't less practical than being an emotional lover.Even if at some point after leap,everything comes out she will make a point like You chose your brother over me,I appreciate that but where am I in your life and if such situation arrives again in your life,You will again leave me at gunpoint of choosing between kunal and me.

And on top of that this time they r not alone.Two big time musibaat have come.Vaatsal and helly will make the situation more complicated even if the truth comes out unless they end up together.

I really hope leap starts from Monday and they don't delay it anymore.

Originally posted by: SheThought

MishBir breakup is hard... and breakup by Abir is even harder 💔

Guys I know we are hurt but this is how I choose to look at Abir today...

First of all, we have to remember that he learnt something very painful about Kunal - just today. And his mom blatantly used this secret that she had been hiding for so long to blackmail him! She did not even give him time to digest or process it... Mahs were waiting at home and BB wanted him to decide now!

When Abir was thinking about Kunal and Mishti at the temple, he gets extremely emotional, he is thinking of both... And right then Kunal comes there and Abir is not able to hold back his feelings... he comes face to face with the new identity of his brother whom he loves so much and treats almost like his son! He becomes too vulnerable at that point overcoming with single-most feeling - to protect his Nanko!

Once he decides that, he has no other choice but to make Mishti believe that he is truly breaking their relationship! He knows that Mishti knows him too well... If he shows even a slightest doubt in his decision, Mishti will figure it out that he is doing this out of compulsion! So he takes charge of his emotions and puts this facade to break up with her... He has to make Mishti believe that he is truly over her and it is HIS decision to end their rishta!

We have invested so much time and energy and love into Mishti, Abir and MishBir... no matter how it would have ended, we would have been heartbroken! Seeing Mishti and Abir in pain for something that they nurtured with so much care and respect would have hurt us no matter who initiated it or under what circumstances!

And last thing to remember is this is a show. They have to have an element of drama.. the more painful the breakup, the more intense the next phase would be!

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Please share your thoughts. Vent out as much as you want! Just maybe try to keep in mind Abir’s point of view as well... he is forced to kill his most precious dream too!

Still not over the pain and disbelief on Mishti’s face in the precap 💔

Very very nicely said Pali! 👏

I also haven't watched the epi today, frankly I don't know whether I'll be able to handle today and tomorrow, or the rest of the week.😔😕 I know the performances are going to AMAZING, so I really want watch them, but the other part of me knows, I'm going to break down and my heart is going to burn💔😭

@bold: YES! this is very true, I completely understand Abir's plight and struggle. He's killing himself equally by breaking their rishta, but poor Mishti is kept in the dark as to why suddenly Abir has changed. Infact, like Rhea said in her IV, mishti doubts the sudden change in Abir due to Meenakshi and that's why goes behind Abir - but Abir again needs to put on his harsh facade and break the rishta💔😭 arghh too much pain to handle for both.

This was totally unnecessary to put the characters through; they used to share every small thing with each other and find comfort and support in each other - now the writers have purposely made mishti hide Mehul's truth, and now Abir hide break-up truth/kunal's birth truth all because of drama and trp😳

#disappointed to say the least with the writers