Breakup and Abir

MishBir breakup is hard... and breakup by Abir is even harder 💔

Guys I know we are hurt but this is how I choose to look at Abir today...

First of all, we have to remember that he learnt something very painful about Kunal - just today. And his mom blatantly used this secret that she had been hiding for so long to blackmail him! She did not even give him time to digest or process it... Mahs were waiting at home and BB wanted him to decide now!

When Abir was thinking about Kunal and Mishti at the temple, he gets extremely emotional, he is thinking of both... And right then Kunal comes there and Abir is not able to hold back his feelings... he comes face to face with the new identity of his brother whom he loves so much and treats almost like his son! He becomes too vulnerable at that point overcoming with single-most feeling - to protect his Nanko!

Once he decides that, he has no other choice but to make Mishti believe that he is truly breaking their relationship! He knows that Mishti knows him too well... If he shows even a slightest doubt in his decision, Mishti will figure it out that he is doing this out of compulsion! So he takes charge of his emotions and puts this facade to break up with her... He has to make Mishti believe that he is truly over her and it is HIS decision to end their rishta!

We have invested so much time and energy and love into Mishti, Abir and MishBir... no matter how it would have ended, we would have been heartbroken! Seeing Mishti and Abir in pain for something that they nurtured with so much care and respect would have hurt us no matter who initiated it or under what circumstances!

And last thing to remember is this is a show. They have to have an element of drama.. the more painful the breakup, the more intense the next phase would be!

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Please share your thoughts. Vent out as much as you want! Just maybe try to keep in mind Abir’s point of view as well... he is forced to kill his most precious dream too!

Still not over the pain and disbelief on Mishti’s face in the precap 💔

Originally posted by: SheThought

MishBir breakup is hard... and breakup by Abir is even harder 💔

Guys I know we are hurt but this is how I choose to look at Abir today...

First of all, we have to remember that he learnt something very painful about Kunal - just today. And his mom blatantly used this secret that she had been hiding for so long to blackmail him! She did not even give him time to digest or process it... Mahs were waiting at home and BB wanted him to decide now!

When Abir was thinking about Kunal and Mishti at the temple, he gets extremely emotional, he is thinking of both... And right then Kunal comes there and Abir is not able to hold back his feelings... he comes face to face with the new identity of his brother whom he loves so much and treats almost like his son! He becomes too vulnerable at that point overcoming with single-most feeling - to protect his Nanko!

Once he decides that, he has no other choice but to make Mishti believe that he is truly breaking their relationship! He knows that Mishti knows him too well... If he shows even a slightest doubt in his decision, Mishti will figure it out that he is doing this out of compulsion! So he takes charge of his emotions and puts this facade to break up with her... He has to make Mishti believe that he is truly over her and it is HIS decision to end their rishta!

We have invested so much time and energy and love into Mishti, Abir and MishBir... no matter how it would have ended, we would have been heartbroken! Seeing Mishti and Abir in pain for something that they nurtured with so much care and respect would have hurt us no matter who initiated it or under what circumstances!

And last thing to remember is this is a show. They have to have an element of drama.. the more painful the breakup, the more intense the next phase would be!

Agree Pali...Abir is doing this to make Mish believe that he doesn't love her...she trusts him too much and will easily find out truth if he doesn't break her... That's y he was hard on her...he is hard on mish but he is hard on himself now...nobody does that...the way he is hurting Mish..😭😭

I totally agree with your thoughts after watching the episode

Tadpe tu bhi dil mera dukha ke , dheere dheere se zindagi mein aa ke ...

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Guys, not justifying abir ...but the amount of pain that he planning to give to mishti , it's less than the amount of pain that he will be giving to himself

Mishti will lose abir - not herself

Abir will lose abir- himself , this is more painful than we can ever think

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Feeling bad very bad for mishbir.... this is unfortunate, both have been badly played

And no ... abir is not doing something shocking ...if you all remember mishku GD , there also he wanted to back out because of his bhai

Coming to his way of doing the break up , that's rude , extremely rude...but not something which is uncalled...he had to go for the tougher way ...

Please keep in mind ...he isnt doing it willingly..its a setup ...where more than mishti he is hurting himself

Having said that , I hope mishti learns her lessons and never blindly believes anyone in future

Abir has used a 2 way sword , one side killing mishti one side killing himself which ultimately kill meenu

Agree to make it convincing he need to be harsh else Mishti will never believe but atleast mishti have bm bp Abir will be all alone . After leap he will be total different but will be in great pain which he will hide.

How much i want this seperation to end fast but i know cv will take their own time 😭

It’s really heartbreaking 😭... and it’s true what you have said.. it’s a fictional show after all.. but the pain we feel is very much real...I must say even in real life men usually tend to do the same..U can only hurt those who are so close and dear to you...

completely agree with you pali... this is what even i felt after watching episode... i'm sharing my views here hope you wont mind...

see i always tend to understand the one who is doing mistake then the one at the other end..

lack of communication between them is one of the reason that has bought them here... Abir doesnt have the strength or time to share anything with mishti, mishti is still not coming clean with abir,... both of them know the truth but unaware the other knew... this ruled out the option of mutual break up...

Abir loves mishti and understands her like no one else not even her family... so he knew other than this there is no way to push mishti away from him... during haldi track more than anyone mishti was the one to get hurt bcoz she was at the giving end... she was left alone to handle the pain even after abir came to her she pushed him away but he didnt give up and came for her... she had support..

here Abir is doing the same but in harsh way but this time Abir is gonna be hurt more... mishti has her family even RV family will support mishti bcoz everyone knew she did all that for abir so no one will blame her all will stand by her.... but Abir he is the one at giving end he cant even express his pain openly as he is the one breaking up... he always had the habit of living alone with pain from his baba leaving him, meenu not being the mother he wants, first sacrificing his love, then mishti pushing him, then getting back to her, then kunals ultimatum, then kuku shaadi truth, baba truth now kunals birth truth... he lived with the pain of all this alone now adding to it he is hurting his love which in turn will hurt him more... even after him pushing mish she came back but after that he will be left alone... no support for him ever...

i'm having more ideas on haldi n this parallel but let the episodes play out then will share my views by end of this week..

Originally posted by: The_incredible

Agree Pali...Abir is doing this to make Mish believe that he doesn't love her...she trusts him too much and will easily find out truth if he doesn't break her... That's y he was hard on her...he is hard on mish but he is hard on himself now...nobody does that...the way he is hurting Mish..😭😭

Exactly Ammu! He is putting up a facade to hide his emotions from Mishti! He is hurting as much as Mishti... this is killing him 💔

Originally posted by: Onyourface

I totally agree with your thoughts after watching the episode

Tadpe tu bhi dil mera dukha ke , dheere dheere se zindagi mein aa ke ...

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Guys, not justifying abir ...but the amount of pain that he planning to give to mishti , it's less than the amount of pain that he will be giving to himself

Mishti will lose abir - not herself

Abir will lose abir- himself , this is more painful than we can ever think

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Feeling bad very bad for mishbir.... this is unfortunate, both have been badly played

And no ... abir is not doing something shocking ...if you all remember mishku GD , there also he wanted to back out because of his bhai

Coming to his way of doing the break up , that's rude , extremely rude...but not something which is uncalled...he had to go for the tougher way ...

Please keep in mind ...he isnt doing it willingly..its a setup ...where more than mishti he is hurting himself

Having said that , I hope mishti learns her lessons and never blindly believes anyone in future

Abir has used a 2 way sword , one side killing mishti one side killing himself which ultimately kill meenu

Well said Uru!

Mishti is his life, the best thing that ever happened to him, bearer of his heart and soul! He nurtured her, made her believe in herself and she blossomed in his warmth but now he has to trample all over her heart and kill her faith and dream and snatch away the very thing that she is holding on to so dearly... her Abir!

We all feel Mishti’s pain! It’s heartbreaking! But It’s also so not easy for Abir... he is going to be hurt even more! Abir is killing his own essence by pushing away the very thing that makes him alive!

So unfortunate for both!

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Originally posted by: ..FrozenHeart..

Agree to make it convincing he need to be harsh else Mishti will never believe but atleast mishti have bm bp Abir will be all alone . After leap he will be total different but will be in great pain which he will hide.

How much i want this seperation to end fast but i know cv will take their own time 😭

Exactly, He had to put up this act, or else Mishti would have seen right though him!!

He will keep the pain to himself, that will be his Dost!

I too want them to zip through the separation episodes, rip the bandaid in one swift motion makers!!

I feel we will get the leap by Monday!! Let’s see!

Originally posted by: SheThought

Well said Uru!

Mishti is his life, the best thing that ever happened to him, bearer of his heart and soul! He nurtured her, made her believe in herself and she blossomed in his warmth but now he has to trample all over her heart and kill her faith and dream and snatch away the very thing that she is holding on to so dearly... her Abir!

We all feel Mishti’s pain! It’s heartbreaking! But It’s also so not easy for Abir... he is going to be hurt even more! Abir is killing his own essence by pushing away the very thing that makes him alive!

So unfortunate for both!

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He not only killed his love ... he killed himself ...

Mishti toh sirf love khoegi

Abir khud ko kho dega

Jab apne hi haathon mann ko maar dete hai na....jab apne mann se hi baat nahi kar pate na ...mujhe pata hai kaisa lagta hai ..bohot closely aisa pain khud experience kiya hai ..so I can connect with abir so much now

I know a part of me wanted him to fight back by taking nanko into confidence...but TV ki duniya mein itna sense nahi hota...

I feel bad for mishti , but I feel sad for abir...

It will be so difficult for abir to reconnect with himself ...comparatively he made things easy for mishti to move on ... like this way she wont feel guilty about herself