YRHPK Live Updates/ Episode Discussions 30 Oct 2019 - Page 21

Originally posted by: LetThereBeLight

exactly Nandu this is not done at all... mishti getting nightmare is not new but repeating the same mistake again is not done yaar... she needs to come clean with abir..

@bold - word nandu word... 👍🏼

i hope mishti says everything to abir tomorrow no making bahana... and yaar i want then to postpone the wedding everyone except BP/BM are playing around n using mishbir relationship to achieve their goal be it meenu, baba, whole RJV fam... being the leads they dont deserve this...

bold: YAS! You took my thoughts straight out my mind 👏 Mishti's inbuilt nature is to overthink, worry, contemplate and realise mistake later, but she makes up for it 👍🏼 But making her repeat the same mistakes again, doesn't help character growth or move the story along nicely, it just feels stagnant with situations different but characters remaining the same. THIS was the issue in the parent show, the two main leads constantly made the same repeating mistakes, but even the circumstances were stupid. At least mishbir's situation is realistic enough.

We are seeing her, slowly grow - telling Abir about Kunal's bidaii words, Kunal's divorce plan and I'm sure (fingers crossed) she will tell Abir, but she simply doesn't have confidence in the form of proof for her to confess her doubts - which is all fine, I understand. All she needs to do is lay it out clearly for Abir (he is such a gem, who understood her from the moment they became friends - he will definitely understand her situation and reason for hiding) - just tell Abir how your are confused, not that you doubt Baba, but just have to say, you are confused! That's it. From there, both mishti and abir and work it out together. Simple! 🤗

#fingercrossed

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Hey guys

Good morning 🤗

How was the episode

Originally posted by: SheThought

I mean aise log hote hai duniya main, so it's not impossible for baba to be greedy and with low morals.

But after getting attached to baba in Abir's imagination and possibility of Meenu's whitewashing, this seems so cliched! I fail to understand why couldn't they show both the parents being good but differences in ideologies coupled with some major misunderstandings being the reason for their separation?!

But I tell you what, after having accepted baba as complete black last week, I feel at peace and I no longer feel the frustration of baba being an out an out bad guy. The sooner we accept it, the more we enjoy the upcoming episodes 🤗

@bold: WORD!! That is exactly what many of the audience would have loved to see! 👏Why couldn't they stick to the idea that both Meenu and Mehul could be equally good and bad, but simply stuck in a large web of misunderstandings and secrets? Rather than taking the cliche route of cheating, fraud and whitewashing the intial 'villain'; yrhpk could have really made something special and unique with breaking more ITV stereotypical storylines.

Originally posted by: SheThought

Yeah, have already accepted baba's character flip.

Now the only hope I have to not make this completely cliched is for Abir to NOT use this as justification for Meenu's twisted ways... see even in today's episode, in Mish's dream, she imagined Abir scolding her that telling lies and twisting words in for Meenu and not for Mishti. They have made it very clear time and again than Abir does not approve of Meenu's acts, he has called her out on it many times. So even after baba's truth comes out, Abir can be remorseful for hurting his mom with his words and actions and taunting her his whole life, but I want him to remain firm that even if Baba was bad, Meenu's ways were still wrong. #SmallMerciesPleaseWriters

Originally posted by: SheThought

Yeah, have already accepted baba's character flip.

Now the only hope I have to not make this completely cliched is for Abir to NOT use this as justification for Meenu's twisted ways... see even in today's episode, in Mish's dream, she imagined Abir scolding her that telling lies and twisting words in for Meenu and not for Mishti. They have made it very clear time and again than Abir does not approve of Meenu's acts, he has called her out on it many times. So even after baba's truth comes out, Abir can be remorseful for hurting his mom with his words and actions and taunting her his whole life, but I want him to remain firm that even if Baba was bad, Meenu's ways were still wrong. #SmallMerciesPleaseWriters

We have always loved Abir’s this very idiosyncrasy.. calling a spade a spade , irrespective of who is at the receiving end.

Exactly.. Meenu’s transgressions cannot be absolved .. however much her intent may be right .

@ bold - True.. may our pleas be heard .

Originally posted by: Aanchal15

Aptly said , Pali👏

We have always loved Abir’s this very idiosyncrasy.. calling a spade a spade , irrespective of who is at the receiving end.

Exactly.. Meenu’s transgressions cannot be absolved .. however much her intent may be right .

@ bold - True.. may our pleas be heard .

Originally posted by: LetThereBeLight

thank you for the positive words pali... i was almost about to freak out... 🤗🤗

@bold - together is the word pali.,,, i dont have problem with baba being negative its ok they can take the cliche route.. and i can understand mishti's dilemma but prolonging this lie n hiding things from abir is gonna get hurt more.. see if tomorrow to hide this jasoos she again makes a bahana n lies to him its gonna add up to her list of lies which is not good for their relationship.. even if doesnt wanna say the truth atleast like in her dream she can say dont ask anything to me for somedays n i myself will tell you after i'm sure.. this way abir will be not be hurt n her task will also be easy..

its just i dont wanna mishti to have sad face in her own wedding, give fake happiness for abirs sake.. last time atleast she stayed away from abir n didnt fake anything.. now the lies are adding up everyday..

Freeking out is my job darling🤗🤣🤗🤗... Why are you freeking out😲🤗...

See

1. Baba is a negative character....... Accepted

2. Meenu is getting what she sowed .... In a big way.. Accepted.. This track will not only bring MishBir close but even Meenu will see Mishtis real worth n accept her hole heartedly

3. Good that Mishti foresaw the repercussions of her own actions in her dreams..... Which may come true to an extent... But she realises n is very scared of Abhirs reactions..n that he may not listen to her or worst leave her..... This was needed

Originally posted by: LetThereBeLight

thank you for the positive words pali... i was almost about to freak out... 🤗🤗

@bold - together is the word pali.,,, i dont have problem with baba being negative its ok they can take the cliche route.. and i can understand mishti's dilemma but prolonging this lie n hiding things from abir is gonna get hurt more.. see if tomorrow to hide this jasoos she again makes a bahana n lies to him its gonna add up to her list of lies which is not good for their relationship.. even if doesnt wanna say the truth atleast like in her dream she can say dont ask anything to me for somedays n i myself will tell you after i'm sure.. this way abir will be not be hurt n her task will also be easy..

its just i dont wanna mishti to have sad face in her own wedding, give fake happiness for abirs sake.. last time atleast she stayed away from abir n didnt fake anything.. now the lies are adding up everyday..

@Bold

I get what you are saying Diyu, but it is easier said than done. For smallest of matters, it is very difficult to tell your loved ones anything negative about their loved ones.

For eg most married people here will agree how tricky it is to tell your spouse anything against your in-laws! You dont want to hurt your spouse, you don't want to hurt your relationship with them, and you certainly don't want to be proven wrong and so want to be absolutely sure of what you are presenting to them! Forget telling, even to approach them about something unpleasant, you think many times.

No amount of love, trust and understanding will give you a guaranteed path to your partner's happiness. It's a fine balance and many relationships crumble because one of both the partners fail to achieve or maintain it.

Mish has a much bigger dilemma, but I am sure she will find a way to share things with Abir soon 😛

@Italics

Abhi se shaadi ki kyun chinta? Let's just enjoy this mystery ride for now 🤗

Originally posted by: yrhpk_aus

@bold: WORD!! That is exactly what many of the audience would have loved to see! 👏Why couldn't they stick to the idea that both Meenu and Mehul could be equally good and bad, but simply stuck in a large web of misunderstandings and secrets? Rather than taking the cliche route of cheating, fraud and whitewashing the intial 'villain'; yrhpk could have really made something special and unique with breaking more ITV stereotypical storylines.

I know Nandu... but now what's done is done! YRP writers have delivered very nicely so far, so we are disappointed with this But for Meenu's sake, they wanted to stick to the cliched, tried and tested route... so I guess we better accept it - for our sanity and enjoyment 🤗

Originally posted by: LetThereBeLight

ohh thats also good preeti pooja n celebration.. 😃 haa dear had a good time with family.. 👍🏼

yaar i feel you even i'm watching one epi a day.. i cant sympathize with her at all n abir going away from her itself is a great punishment for what she did in past.. and surely she is not gonna change even if baba is exposed... only the MU between BB n abir regarding baba will be cleared.. he wont stop arguing with her if she does something again n she wont stop her mishti blame game,,...

Ikr..... she will never change in terms of not liking Mishti. But I still want everything she’s done during MishKun goddhana and KuKu marriage track in front of everyone before any redemption track for her.... but I think that’s too much to ask. Cvs are hell bent on totally whitewashing her character by turning baba completely negative.....