The new home doesn't quite feel like home..

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Dunno if it's just me but it feels empty and strange to see Kuhu at the Rajvansh house (It in a way makes me feel like darn why did you have to get married so early on Kuhu) That madhouse just doesn't feel like her house. I miss Kuhu being with her own family, in her own house 🥺

And today when Mishti was shown saying that she doesn't wanna fight Kuhu anymore, I just felt like saying that but then fighting is also a way of showing love na, Mish ♥️ I can completely understand why Mishti wants truce, she probably feels exhausted being at the receiving end of Kuhu's countless blamings. But sadly as easily as Mishti wants them to be friends just can't be so because Kuhu has long harboured insecurities to deal with.

A friend was saying the other day that how there would be a sort of change of roles where Mishti can enjoy being free spirited while Kuhu would be burdened with responsibilities. That's very true. But gah, as much as Kuhu chose it for herself, I hate to see Kuhu confined in marital responsibilities. Especially when she wouldn't even find a sense of belonging from Kunal.

I really miss them sisters 😭 Them being in different houses just doesn't feel right to me.

PS- Kaveri looks gorgeous as the newly wedded bride! <3

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: beguiling

Dunno if it's just me but it feels empty and strange to see Kuhu at the Rajvansh house (It in a way makes me feel like darn why did you have to get married so early on Kuhu) That madhouse just doesn't feel like her house. I miss Kuhu being with her own family, in her own house 🥺

And today when Mishti was shown saying that she doesn't wanna fight Kuhu anymore, I just felt like saying that but then fighting is also a way of showing love na, Mish ♥️ I can completely understand why Mishti wants truce, she probably feels exhausted being at the receiving end of Kuhu's countless blamings. But sadly as easily as Mishti wants them to be friends just can't be so because Kuhu has long harboured insecurities to deal with.

A friend was saying the other day that how there would be a sort of change of roles where Mishti can enjoy being free spirited while Kuhu would be burdened with responsibilities. That's very true. But gah, as much as Kuhu chose it for herself, I hate to see Kuhu confined in marital responsibilities. Especially when she wouldn't even find a sense of belonging from Kunal.

I really miss them sisters 😭 Them being in different houses just doesn't feel right to me.

PS- Kaveri looks gorgeous as the newly wedded bride! <3

yes it did feel weird and uncannily i had the same feeling too that she is too young to be bride. But apart from sulking Meenu , family was very welcoming. usually all of them are on their own. So Kuhu would get family feel but husband wali , not so much🤪
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: meen123

yes it did feel weird and uncannily i had the same feeling too that she is too young to be bride. But apart from sulking Meenu , family was very welcoming. usually all of them are on their own. So Kuhu would get family feel but husband wali , not so much🤪


I know the family members are good natured..they are acceptive and welcoming and not burdening her with their expectations from a newly wedded bride. But then I miss the times when Kuhu and Mishti would get doted on by their family. (There was no anti-Mishti vibe to the house back then 😕 ) Both were loved equally.

Ironically Kuhu and Mishti had to put up a facade at their own house too and now Kuhu would have to do it at her sasuraal as well.

It is so cute how Kuhu and Mish called out each other's names in each other's absence 🤧 And I was glad Kuhu's blame Mishti session didn't last for eternity, ended quickly this time around lol

I also feel like shaking Kuhu sometimes, with Kunal she wants to sit down calmly and discuss, find a way out. With Mishti she constantly wants to fight 🤦 Perhaps fighting is the only way of expressing love towards Mishti that Kuhu knows..

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Btw I love Ananya. She seems to be the only family member in that house who shows love equally towards her two younger sisters.

Jasmeet I used to find cute earlier but now I find her annoying. I don't get her baseless hatred towards Mishti. She provokes Kuhu instead of showing her the right path.

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: beguiling


I know the family members are good natured..they are acceptive and welcoming and not burdening her with their expectations from a newly wedded bride. But then I miss the times when Kuhu and Mishti would get doted on by their family. (There was no anti-Mishti vibe to the house back then 😕 ) Both were loved equally.

Ironically Kuhu and Mishti had to put up a facade at their own house too and now Kuhu would have to do it at her sasuraal as well.

It is so cute how Kuhu and Mish called out each other's names in each other's absence 🤧 And I was glad Kuhu's blame Mishti session didn't last for eternity, ended quickly this time around lol

I also feel like shaking Kuhu sometimes, with Kunal she wants to sit down calmly and discuss, find a way out. With Mishti she constantly wants to fight 🤦 Perhaps fighting is the only way of expressing love towards Mishti that Kuhu knows..

Mishti pe vo haq samajti hai, I think. That is the only relationship where she doesn't have to hold back..... Gussa, pyar, nafrat sab bharpoor......

Yes kuhu will have to pretend to be happy, alas! Yehi journey hai na ladki ki... She could have been happy the way she is, doesn't need anyone's approval or Kunal's love specifically.

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: meen123

Mishti pe vo haq samajti hai, I think. That is the only relationship where she doesn't have to hold back..... Gussa, pyar, nafrat sab bharpoor......


Aww..love the way you describe it ❤️ Ikr, as much as Kuhu would find some support system with Abir, Nanu, Parul, Kekti being by her side, she just can't be with them in the same way as she can be with Mishti. With Mishti, Kuhu can be brutally honest and wildly crazy. Trying to deal with a wretched marriage on one hand and trying to be a good DIL on other..being a bahu would subject her to a more restrained way of living..

Yes kuhu will have to pretend to be happy, alas! Yehi journey hai na ladki ki... She could have been happy the way she is, doesn't need anyone's approval or Kunal's love specifically.

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Posted: 6 years ago
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I totally agree with you. Makers have shown us a modern Kuhu. Even i never thought that Kuhu will get married first and we have to see her in a bridal look first and now in a DIL look.Though she is looking really good as a new bride.

Anywz 100 episodes are over. Kisiki shaadi toh honi thi as per the ITV standard rules.I wish we could have seen more MishKuhu banters or sisterly convo in their own room.

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: beguiling

Dunno if it's just me but it feels empty and strange to see Kuhu at the Rajvansh house (It in a way makes me feel like darn why did you have to get married so early on Kuhu) That madhouse just doesn't feel like her house. I miss Kuhu being with her own family, in her own house 🥺

And today when Mishti was shown saying that she doesn't wanna fight Kuhu anymore, I just felt like saying that but then fighting is also a way of showing love na, Mish ♥️ I can completely understand why Mishti wants truce, she probably feels exhausted being at the receiving end of Kuhu's countless blamings. But sadly as easily as Mishti wants them to be friends just can't be so because Kuhu has long harboured insecurities to deal with.

A friend was saying the other day that how there would be a sort of change of roles where Mishti can enjoy being free spirited while Kuhu would be burdened with responsibilities. That's very true. But gah, as much as Kuhu chose it for herself, I hate to see Kuhu confined in marital responsibilities. Especially when she wouldn't even find a sense of belonging from Kunal.

I really miss them sisters 😭 Them being in different houses just doesn't feel right to me.

PS- Kaveri looks gorgeous as the newly wedded bride! <3

Awww...this is such a heart warming post...

I know kitna Ajeeb lagta hoga kuhu Ko...it's like going from one planet to another....upar se Kunal ka wierd behaviour

Thank god Parul Abir Nidhi n team are trying to make her comfortable

Role reversal thing is absolutely right!

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Awww...this is such a heart warming post...

I know kitna Ajeeb lagta hoga kuhu Ko...it's like going from one planet to another....upar se Kunal ka wierd behaviour

Thank god Parul Abir Nidhi n team are trying to make her comfortable

Role reversal thing is absolutely right!

🤣🤣

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: beguiling

Aww..love the way you describe it smiley27 Ikr, as much as Kuhu would find some support system with Abir, Nanu, Parul, Kekti being by her side, she just can't be with them in the same way as she can be with Mishti. With Mishti, Kuhu can be brutally honest and wildly crazy. Trying to deal with a wretched marriage on one hand and trying to be a good DIL on other..being a bahu would subject her to a more restrained way of living..

kuhu will start appreciating Mish presence. She might already do but absence makes heart grow fonder.

Kuhu is unabashedly badtameez with her.. Patakha movie wala haal hai. Jitna Mishti ko ghar valo ka sochna padta hai, somewhere kuhu ko bhi mummy Papa, dada-dadi ke liye thoda extra cheery hona pada.

Vaha nayi family me unabashed behavior nai chal payega

I'm the most raw with my own sister. I like to think kuhu won't tolerate agar koi Mishti ko saamne se hurt krne ki koshish karega. Right now she just wants herself to be happy... And away from Mish presence and aura.

Tareeka galat ho gaya bas Kunal se shaadi ka

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