“We are all mistaken sometimes; sometimes we do wrong things, things that have bad consequences. But it does not mean we are evil, or that we cannot be trusted ever afterward.Some mistakes... Just have greater consequences than others. But you don't have to let the result of one mistake be the thing that defines you”
― Alison Croggon
Phew breathe in breathe out fandom. So, Misthi actually went there and kind of did BB's bidding she succumbed to the pressure and let fear dictate her actions . It was appalling to see her like this because this wasn't the Mishti we had come to known in the first 100 episodes. The Mish we know is strong and always does the right thing and fights for her right. It was difficult to digest it at first how could Mishti of all people do this but than I realized how we as viewers have put Misthi up on a pedestal. We have these expectations from her character and most of them are warranted because she is shown to be a strong female lead so unlike the ones we are usually subject to see on TV every day but in all that we forgot that she is human to. We humans are not perfect so why should we expect characters to be perfect and to have everything figured out at all times at the end of the day these characters are also humans. They will make mistakes and sometimes they will do things that will make us scratch our heads and because we love them its hard to see them being like this. However, we need to realize that at one point another we all make mistakes. Some are small and some turn out to be very big but mistakes don't define us. As long as we admit our mistakes and make an active effort to make up for that things will turn out to be okay. If tomorrow Abir misunderstands Misthi let him that would be his mistake. Real life relationships are not all sunshine and rainbows. You have to work every day to make your relationship work sometimes you make mistakes sometimes your partner does as long as that mistake is not heinous there is always room for forgiveness. It is said that one of our greatest lessons in life come from when we make mistakes. So, Mish right now is fully aware of the full extent of what level BB can stoop too and that BB cannot be trusted in the future. This would help her immensely later when she might have to live in RV house. She will also realize that how important it is to communicate with the people who truly care about her one of the weakness of the Mishbir relationship in this track from Mishti's end was that she didn't effectively communicate with Abir from Abir's end if he choses to misunderstand her would be that he didn't look at things objectively. Another mistake from Abir's end is his blind love for Kunal, his mom and his brother were playing such a dirty game under his nose and he didn't even get an idea. From Parul's end it is to keep silent until things get out of hand. From Naanu's end it is to let his daughter have her way just because she helped him in a crucial time he needs to knock some sense in to her its high time and also for keeping Abir and Kunal in the dark from whatever secret the RV have. Kuhu would finally realize how hard it is to be at the receiving end of nasty remarks because she has called Mish a puppy,charity case and a bhoj. Varsha and Jasmeet need to realize that often treat Misthi like an outsider. BM and BP need to make Misthi realize that she is not a burden and they willingly and lovingly brought her in to their home and heart. Every single character in this story is flawed because at the end of the day every character is human. I am confident that after this track both Mishbir will be well equipped to fight for their love because boy oh boy its going to get harder from now on but as long as they communicate with each other openly and honestly no one can come between them.
Yaad rakay ga aik galti pyar kay risthon koh kabi todh nahi sakti. Aur agar todh day toh samaj lay uss risthay main kabi pyar tha hi nahi.
“You must never feel badly about making mistakes ... as long as you take the trouble to learn from them. For you often learn more by being wrong for the right reasons than you do by being right for the wrong reasons.”
― Norton Juster, The Phantom Tollbooth
Let me leave you with this quote and the reason on why Mishti did not confide in Abir. Because if she did she would be telling a boy that his own mother has gone to such an extent in order to keep Misthi away from him. A mother who is supposed to nurture and love a child unconditionally is actually trying to take away her own son's happiness. Think about Abir his father willingly abandoned him and his own MAA willingly decided to oppose and even actively try to destroy his happiness. Dealing with pain for Misthi has been easy because her parents directly tossed her towards the side and openly showed they did not care but Abir still hasn't dealt with his pain. He still needs closure on why his father left him. How can Misthi tell him that even his own mother has sort of abandoned him by keeping him in the dark and by playing such dirty games. We girls are often blamed from coming between a mother and her son and Misti said she was unable to pick sides. In doing this she thought she could save Abir some of the pain he will definitely experience when he gets to know the truth.
Stray Thoughts
- Can we fast forward to the Airport track so done with Kuku shaadi
- Meenu and her Munna deserve hell after this they are both so vindictive
- Parul behen please take a stand or you will lose your son to the dark side
- I was disappointed too after the episode I hope the CV's have done the damage they wanted to do now I want them to move past this track asap
