problem of this show and why it lok too negative - Page 4

Originally posted by: sahisri

Hello everyone,

I am new to this forum....currently yrhpk is one of the good show I am watching.....mishti is good FL and I didnt find anything different or wrong in her character.....I used to like kuhu eventhough she had flaws,she knows about her flaws and never tried to cover it up....but now she was shown as utter bumb who acts on fingers of kunal and I dont want her and kunal to be united like this...kuhu is always afraid whether their marriage will break ,till what point she is going to hold this relationship....kuhu should know about kunal and he should feel sorry for what he did and kuhu shouldnt accept him back....I know this show is about FL and ML but I want good story for kuhu too...

I agree!

Mishti is just another sacrifice brand in making.

And Mishti Abir will keep suffering as they would keep sacrificing for Kunal and Kuhu.

I won't be shocked if in future Maheshwaries would abandon/boycott Mishti for Kuhu.

And I guess Meenakshi's hubby would be shown as a negative character and post wedding Abir would become too sensitive for his mom as he would feel guilty for behaving rudely with Don Meenu. While she would keep enjoying all the privilege despite her gruesome deeds.

Just wait!

Originally posted by: Apple_Amber

I agree!

Mishti is just another sacrifice brand in making.

And Mishti Abir will keep suffering as they would keep sacrificing for Kunal and Kuhu.

I won't be shocked if in future Maheshwaries would abandon/boycott Mishti for Kuhu.

And I guess Meenakshi's hubby would be shown as a negative character and post wedding Abir would become too sensitive for his mom as he would feel guilty for behaving rudely with Don Meenu. While she would keep enjoying all the privilege despite her gruesome deeds.

Just wait!

exactly

its just fans always in start after one lecture of fl and ml start saying that the leads r different

and whatever u r saying is totally going to be true

anyway i feel fans r correct even as they love their favorite or sometime i feel some r just pr team

one negative comment they will be like dont watch this show dont come to forum etc etc etc

it is social platform but here all pr team r so manipulative and high in number that u cant say anything

i am even not able to see mishti as some revolutionary fl

and then everyone will say real life is too negative

in real life there is not much negative people

i dont know where all witness too much politics

its just upto u in real life how u r

here mishti is like all fl

all will justify saying she is adopted so what if any random person will say these bad blood and what not and u will beg and stay like statue and then not even tell anyone and will overthink and then decide to sacrifice

i never try to take much although i am not married but from my young age i never used to be those giving up type

i have seen my sisters they r just like mishti they never asked their parent to make them study only because they considered themselves girl and they knew if they demanded they would not be given(basically they have to fight for their right and then fear if they r nt able to be successful then i dont know why boys if not successful will not be given taunt but girl if not become successfull will be questioned u only demanded to study ) so they used to tell me i have denied they used to consider themselves lucky that my parent have given me more love then other of my friends r given by parent and used to justify their condition and their parent

but my parent given me everything and i am thankful to them but i never failed to demand whats mine from them i never used to compensate that oh my brother can take this more

some people will say ur sister or urs case is differnt from mishti she is adopted but u all r blood related

but then why my sisters r never able to demand their right despite being blood related and me able to do so

its just upto u how u want to feel out of obligation u want to destroy ur life sacrifice ur right or fight for it thinking its urs right

this is the problem in india when the own daughters of house cant demand then how we can think that an adopted daughter has equal right WHEN THE OWN F=DAUGHTER FEEL THAT THEY R GIVEN MORE THAN NEIGHOUR DAUGHTER AND FEEL OBLIGED THEN how an adopted one will not feel

anyone should be thankful to their parent for what they have given they should never consider themselves burden or they r given more than they deserve

out of thankfulness u should do as much good for them as much u r capable but without sacrificing ur happiness or right

if u r adopted or a daughter u dont need to feel urself ehsaanon tale daba hua as they have adopted u and tomorrow if for their own happiness deny ur happiness or right then they never considered u own

by saying he or she feel obliged to those who have adopted them u r doing injustice to all adopted children

just in SHORT OUT OF THANKFULNESS U CAN DO GOOD TO THEM BUT NOT AT THE COST OF UR OWN HAPPINESS

no Mishti is not revolutionary, she is not the most unique character, and she does do things that Indian TV female leads do normally. I don’t think anyone is doing that. But there have been a lot of female leads before Mishti so obviously people start comparing and see how Mishti is similar or different. And I kinda wanna justify Mishti because I love her, so that’s why I’m taking the time to do this.

Similar: She wants her family to be happy, above all. Even if it may mean sacrificing her own happiness. She is thoughtful and kind and cares about the guy she likes. However, I think the similarity ends there.

Differences: If she thinks people are being unfair to her or if she’s not happy with something, she speaks out. For example, breaking her alliance with Kunal, her dynamic with Kuhu, standing up for herself when people pointed fingers at her for the email, getting to the bottom of the email thing by literally trying to beat up the tech guy, the way “angry chorni” came to be. I’m singing praises of her for doing all of this because I’m watching another show where the female lead marries a guy she’s known for all of 2 days to save her fiancés business. Maybe I’m not used to female leads, at least on star Plus, acting the way Mishti does so I like to give respect where it’s due.

She does have abandonment issues, it’s clear to see that. And we can’t just look past that big important factor in how her self-respect has molded. Yes, she has self-respect but when you feel like a stranger in your own house and people keep REMINDING her (Varsha, Jasmeet, Kuhu) then it’s really difficult for her not to do everything in her power to make sure that she doesn’t get abandoned AGAIN! So yeah she’ll act a bit self-sacrificial but I definitely EXPECT that from her. It’s very consistent with her character.