No, you're not the only one. Count me in too. And the fact is, I WAS neither a fan of Shaheer nor Rhea nor Ritvik when I started watching this show ('was' because I like them now 😳). So you can take my opinion as a neutral viewer.
I love this show!! Yeah, as you mentioned, there are many flaws but tell me which show has not? Every show you like will bore you, annoy you at some point because it's Indian TV that we're talking about. Sometimes writes have to change the script for the sake of trps, the shooting goes on on a daily basis so it's a tough job, sometimes actors are committed to some other works, sometimes things don't go as planned. Plus, there's pressure...from channel, for trps coz you can't predict the fate of the show. We are well aware that any show can shut down at any time.
You know what I've just started hating this word 'regressive'. Lol. Why do we watch tv shows? For some entertainment, right? And if you ask me, this show is not just entertaining but realistic too. It's also trying to give a good message to the society. Now it's up to people how they want to see it. To each their own.
Now talking about YRHPK, I, too, was bored of the unnecessary drama & the story was being stretched. I initially liked Meenu's character. I thought she is not outright negative. Anyways, I feel there are chances of improvement for sure... For the script, character sketches & screen space of all the four leads. With all its flaws, this show still manages to keep you hooked. It's because it has its own charm and freshness. The casting of the show is just perfect! And this show surely has a great potential.