Babymoon, baby and psychotic Abhira

I want to understand what is going on in this character's head

She didn't face any personal loss that's why she was normally shouting on the doctor at hospital, her husband was safe

Shivani and Rohit died

She is sole benefactor of their death because a lawyer who was getting salary of 30k got to be a partner at Poddar firm

Her baby, baby baby jaap isn't only annoying but now they want to romance and do the deed, sure, your husband is safe and you probably want a time away from all the gloomy environment but bhai, leave Ruhi alone

Why is she treating her surrogate like the "bag"? Ruhi is a human with feelings, in their babymoon Abhira and her husband will show their horny pana while a recently widowed woman will watch them do all that

If nothing then plan a family trip so when you and your husband are going at it, others can be with Ruhi

Abhira is coming across as this crazy person who has absolutely no idea or understanding of how people function after they lose someone

Khud ko maje karne hain karo, none will judge you but thodi sharm is not too much

Her feelings fluctuate quite fast..... At one point getting back with arman was her priority , then it was her career then arman again then family then her baby , career again , then divorce then reconciliation then atma sammann then making a living then all of a sudden baby ka fever aaya and now all her actions revolve around baby and hence ruhi..

In no time she'll feel arre arman isn't being attentive to me like before so baby se arman se baby karegi ..ruhi is the collateral here , n she deserves it coz she and her late husband rohit initiated this .

What I don't understand is , why is bacha so imp for this character ? Ppl live a normal life in a hope & pray that there will be a better tomorrow ....they don't mourn / complain to god everyday for their unfulfilled desires ..

Previously also when ruhis baby supposedly died , she wanted ruhi to not grieve n act normal as if nothing happened ..apna Dard is Dard, kisi aur ka Dard is sardard for her "ye kyun normal nai ho raha , ab kya rote rehna hai isko?"

No matter how much she says that without "pookie" she would tc of ruhi but pookie baba is there so all her actions come across as highly selfish and pookie centric ..this babymoon is also a result of "ruhi shouldn't stress bec ruhi is pregnant with pookie" . " ruhi should be normal soon bec she can't stress" ..

Planning a family trip would be good ..n I'm getting a really bad feeling abt daksh coz he is with fossils & abhir kaand will surface soon .

Originally posted by: Krinya

Her feelings fluctuate quite fast..... At one point getting back with arman was her priority , then it was her career then arman again then family then her baby , career again , then divorce then reconciliation then atma sammann then making a living then all of a sudden baby ka fever aaya and now all her actions revolve around baby and hence ruhi..

In no time she'll feel arre arman isn't being attentive to me like before so baby se arman se baby karegi ..ruhi is the collateral here , n she deserves it coz she and her late husband rohit initiated this .

What I don't understand is , why is bacha so imp for this character ? Ppl live a normal life in a hope & pray that there will be a better tomorrow ....they don't mourn / complain to god everyday for their unfulfilled desires ..

Previously also when ruhis baby supposedly died , she wanted ruhi to not grieve n act normal as if nothing happened ..apna Dard is Dard, kisi aur ka Dard is sardard for her "ye kyun normal nai ho raha , ab kya rote rehna hai isko?"

No matter how much she says that without "pookie" she would tc of ruhi but pookie baba is there so all her actions come across as highly selfish and pookie centric ..this babymoon is also a result of "ruhi shouldn't stress bec ruhi is pregnant with pookie" . " ruhi should be normal soon bec she can't stress" ..

Planning a family trio would be good ..n I'm getting a really bad feeling abt daksh coz he is with fossils & abhir kaand will surface soon .

She is obsessed with the baby, the fact that for them keeping their baby and the "bag" near them was more important than 1 year old Daksh staying with his mother

Ruhi here is coming across as the most stupid person because she doesn't gain anything, her son is losing time with his mother while she is trying to do everything for Abhira

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Edit: Here's Roohi

Originally posted by: Shineeeee

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Edit: Here's Roohi

I don't get how people get offended on behalf of these characters, inke khud ke creators aren't taking them seriously kisi ka sar pair nahi hai

use and throw dna brought to u by you know who

exactly.. see leave ru ro i will take their step as u dono ko behen and bhai prem chadha tha..

but ab is worst .she is like tumhara dukh kuch nahi hota, agar mein khush joon toh tum sabko khush rehna hai aur mein dukhi hoon toh kisi ki mazaal hai ki khush ho le aur koi khush bhi ho liya toh mein dukh ka grahan laga doongi..

And ab ar especially ab is currently all about pookie she doesnt give a care for ru uska sirf ru ko care and behen prem is dikhavaa..

When delivery time option comes to choose between mom and baby she will choose baby...

And is bail buddhi ko moon pe jaake gullu gullu karna hai toh kare why take ru... ab is insecure ki ru will harm baby by grieving for her husband..Issliye toh har waqt chudail ki taha chipki rehti hai ru ke picche..

dekhna vacay pe siyappa hoga na toh ab ke insecurity ke kaaran

Exactly. Why babymoon? Aren't they grieving for rohit & shivani ? Is arman ok being lovey dovey so soon? He need no coping up to his loved ones death ? Everything is so messed up, at least show a time leap ..when ruhi lost her baby , abhira madam in her own twisted ways tried to "share" daksh to cheer her up & now again she tries to cheer up ruhi coz this time it's pookie ruhi ko khush rehna is imp but why this idea of babymoon ? Ruhi won't calm down coz she misses rohit with her , but will she calm down watching abhiman romancing each other ? I mean is this the right way ? Obvio it won't end well

exactly why is ar comfortable with it ya phir usko bhi sirf ab ki tarah baby padi hai??Ar ko ro and shivaani la death sirf dadi ke aage hi dikhta hai and dikhata hai jaise ussne bahut kuch kho diya ho

Originally posted by: MsWhiskerson

I want to understand what is going on in this character's head

She didn't face any personal loss that's why she was normally shouting on the doctor at hospital, her husband was safe

Shivani and Rohit died

She is sole benefactor of their death because a lawyer who was getting salary of 30k got to be a partner at Poddar firm

Her baby, baby baby jaap isn't only annoying but now they want to romance and do the deed, sure, your husband is safe and you probably want a time away from all the gloomy environment but bhai, leave Ruhi alone

Why is she treating her surrogate like the "bag"? Ruhi is a human with feelings, in their babymoon Abhira and her husband will show their horny pana while a recently widowed woman will watch them do all that

If nothing then plan a family trip so when you and your husband are going at it, others can be with Ruhi

Abhira is coming across as this crazy person who has absolutely no idea or understanding of how people function after they lose someone

Khud ko maje karne hain karo, none will judge you but thodi sharm is not too much

She doesn't know the meaning of giving space to people. She didn't do it when Ruhi supposedly lost her son and she is still forcing her idea when Ruhi lost her husband. This is where the surrogacy becomes so controversial. The person who is dealing with the loss can't grieve properly. Abheera is after Ruhi like a bodyguard and making her eat to make sure she is healthy for baby. Her behaviour comes across as selfish like that.

Lastly, this whole babymoon idea is utter stupid. A family lost two and wife became a widow but this single brain cell, Abheera ji, is focusing on spending quality time with Armaan before baby comes and trying to take Ruhi also as she thinks it will make her happy lmao. Kaise?

How does Ruhi feel when they spend quality time? She will miss Rohit more and starting to think what if Rohit was alive and all. She will feel guilty for preventing Abhimaan spend time. Even if they include her people will talk and she will feel sad and guilty. Insecurity will also come. There should be a limit to stupidity. It would have been better if this was a family trip not far away from the house. Ruhi is in a highly vulnerable position as she is dealing with Rohit's loss. No matter what doctor says, it is not good to take her out to a far away place. All she needs is love and care from the family.

Because of Abheera's stupid decision, something bad surely will happen.