Posted: 3 months ago
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Usually toh couples akele he babymoon par jate hai jab wife pregnant hoti hai tab!

Lekin yaha situation is extraordinary. Child is coming through surrogate so agar surrogate ke sath babymoon par jana hai toh why not inviting entire family?!

Sab mil kar rohit ke gum se bahar nikle, elders, cousins sab ruhi and daksh ke sath time spend kare!

Ruhi ko kuch din akele na rehne de, akele na sone de. yeh sab ruhi ke sath ghar ki baki ladies like vidya, manisha, charu, kajal bhi kar sakti hai. I am seeing no other women of the house is taking care of their widow surrogate bahu. Family ko bhi yeh acche se pata hai ki rohit ki bhi wish thi ki ruhi surrogate bane. Yeh log rohit unke ghar ka sabse pyara beta hone ka daava karte hai lekin ussi rohit ki widow pregnant surrogate ka take care karte hue maine kisi ko nahi dekha. Ghar ki ek bhi dusri lady ko ruhi ke sath interect karte nahi dekha post rohit death!! Kyun!

Rohit apka beta tha , beta chala gaya, bahu-pota chod gaya lekin yeh log yeh tak dekhne room mai nahi aate ki daksh kaisa hai, apne baap ko kitna miss karta hai, rohit ki biwi unki bahu kaise fir se akelepan mai apna life start karegi!!! Shame on these all the ladies jo rohit ke naam par rone dhone ka natak karti hai including vidya!!

Rohit ki death ke baad 48 hours mai rohit ki pregnant surrogate widow ko high fever aya lekin ussi rohit ki family ko pata tak nahi ki unki bahu ka health is not good and she has a infant with her . Agar dusri ladies uske paas jayegi toh unko pata chalega na ki unke pyare bete ki widow ko high fever hua hai. Dusri ladies toh rohit ki death ke baad ek baar bhi ruhi ke paas gayi tak nahi hai. Pata nahi kiske ghar mai agar jawaan bete ki death ho jaye toh uski widow /bacche ko aise treat karte honge!

Usually real life mai bhi aisa hota hai jab ghar mai kisi ki death hoti hai tab!likeDadaji/nanaji ka death ho jata hai tab dadi/nani ko bhi room mai kuch din akele nahi sone dete kyunki woh dukh mai hote hai toh koi sath ho toh sahara rehta hai.

Aise kaun recently widow hui apni pregnant surrogate bahu ko jeth jethani ke sath babymoon par akele bhej deta hai!!!! Kya inka farz nahi banta ki ruhi abhira armaan ka help kare iss complex pregnancy mai! Yeh log chahe toh ruhi armaan abhira ke sath har ek event mai khade reh kar sabki life spoil hone se bacha sakte hai. jab rohit zinda tha tab samaj aata hai ki 2 couples ek sath surrogacy ka journey navigate karnewale the lekin ab he is no more and uski widow ke sath rohit ki jagah sirf armaan ko nahi entire family ko khade rehna padega and surrogate pregnant bahu ke sath babymoon par bhi jana vhahiye.Agar ek bhi family member nahi jana chahta ho sath toh babymoon he cancel karna chahiye. Aise kaun jeth jethani ke sath surrogate choti bahu ko bhej deta hai!

Rohit dekh raha hai ki bada bhai ghar wapas aya aisa vidya bol rahi thi gruhpravesh ke time par, koi iss vidya ko yeh bhi batao ki rohit yeh bhi dekh raha hai ki uske jaane ke baad koi uske bete daksh ko room mai dekhne tak nahi jaata hai, koi uski pregnant surrogate widow ka haal bhi raat ko puchne nahi jata hai. Rohit sirf armaan ki ghar waapsi nahi ,yeh sab bhi dekh he raha hai.

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Posted: 3 months ago
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Honestly, this show has been failing Ruhi at every level since the beginning, and the lack of family support for her is just another glaring example of how poorly they’ve been handling the emotional depth and complexities of surrogacy. It’s honestly laughable how they expect us to buy into these hollow 'family' dynamics when no one seems to care about the surrogate mother, the woman carrying their grandchild, or the widow left behind after a tragic loss.

The fact that no one—not even the other women of the house—are looking after Ruhi in her time of need speaks volumes about the lack of depth in character writing. Where is the so-called family? Where is the empathy? The situation should have brought them closer, but instead, it’s just another case of inconsistency. The writers have failed to portray the emotional journey of the surrogate mother, which is a major oversight. After all, it's not just about who carries the baby; it’s about acknowledging her sacrifice, her pain, and her right to feel supported.

And don’t even get me started on the absurdity of sending her off with just Armaan and the other couples for the babymoon. If they claim to be this 'family,' why aren't they standing by her? If this is truly about supporting Ruhi through her complex pregnancy, where is the backup from the entire family? The emotional neglect she’s facing is ridiculous—how is she expected to deal with such a huge responsibility and emotional toll when no one’s there for her? It’s beyond just bad writing; it’s a complete disrespect to the emotional weight of the story.

This whole ‘family’ is so inconsistent with their actions. One moment, they’re crying over Rohit’s death and pretending to care, but then they can’t even check on his pregnant widow? The writers have turned them into cardboard cutouts with no real empathy or depth, and it’s frustrating to watch as a viewer. They’ve clearly failed in portraying the concept of 'family' in any meaningful way. Maybe the show needs a refresher on what it means to actually show care and support, instead of this lazy writing that leaves us questioning the very foundation of the narrative.

Edited by SarafWasima - 3 months ago
Posted: 3 months ago
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Originally posted by: SarafWasima

Honestly, this show has been failing Ruhi at every level since the beginning, and the lack of family support for her is just another glaring example of how poorly they’ve been handling the emotional depth and complexities of surrogacy. It’s honestly laughable how they expect us to buy into these hollow 'family' dynamics when no one seems to care about the surrogate mother, the woman carrying their grandchild, or the widow left behind after a tragic loss.

The fact that no one—not even the other women of the house—are looking after Ruhi in her time of need speaks volumes about the lack of depth in character writing. Where is the so-called family? Where is the empathy? The situation should have brought them closer, but instead, it’s just another case of inconsistency. The writers have failed to portray the emotional journey of the surrogate mother, which is a major oversight. After all, it's not just about who carries the baby; it’s about acknowledging her sacrifice, her pain, and her right to feel supported.

And don’t even get me started on the absurdity of sending her off with just Armaan and the other couples for the babymoon. If they claim to be this 'family,' why aren't they standing by her? If this is truly about supporting Ruhi through her complex pregnancy, where is the backup from the entire family? The emotional neglect she’s facing is ridiculous—how is she expected to deal with such a huge responsibility and emotional toll when no one’s there for her? It’s beyond just bad writing; it’s a complete disrespect to the emotional weight of the story.

This whole ‘family’ is so inconsistent with their actions. One moment, they’re crying over Rohit’s death and pretending to care, but then they can’t even check on his pregnant widow? The writers have turned them into cardboard cutouts with no real empathy or depth, and it’s frustrating to watch as a viewer. They’ve clearly failed in portraying the concept of 'family' in any meaningful way. Maybe the show needs a refresher on what it means to actually show care and support, instead of this lazy writing that leaves us questioning the very foundation of the narrative.

The thing is inko apne show ko ghum season 1 banane ka aisa bhoot chadha hai ki yeh log bhul he gaye hai inke apne show ka original theme.

Chahe ruhi ho yah xyz koi bhi ho , jab jawaan bete ki ghar mai death hoti hai tab uski widow ko kuch din ke liye koi ghar mai akele nahi chodta , koi na koi female family member uske paas kuch din rehta hai and yaha they show big joint family of india lekin ghar ki koi dusri bahu/beti uss pregnant surrogate widow ke paas jata tak nahi hai. What a worst way treat a widow bahu of house!

Rohit death ke baad maine uske dada dadi pardadi bua , chacha kisi ko uss bacche ko hath mai lete tak nahi deta.

Samaj aata hai ki inko ghum ka triangle banane ki jaldi hai lekin thoda toh humanity touch dikhao kisi ki death par!

FAMILY bolte hai yeh log khud ko rohit ki lekin behaviour dekho ussi rohit ki widow pregnant surrogate ke sath jo unke ghar ki bahu hai 🤮

Woww jeth jethani ke sath pregnant surrogate choti bahu ko bhej denge baby moon par and drama karte rahege ussi surrogate choti bahu ke husband ki death par rone dhone ka!

It’s clear inn sab ke liye rohit bhi koi apna nahi tha tabhi toh rohit ki pregnant surrogate widow ke paas uski death ke baad ghar ki 1 lady bhi kabhi jati nahi hai.

Sabko armaan ko rohit se replace karna hai lekin inn sabko khud ko rohit ki taraf, rohit ke daksh ki taraf, rohit ki widow ki taraf ek farz tak nahi nibhana hai and seriously yeh log alag he level par ghatiya family hai jo kal ki widow hui bahu ko aise treat karte hai. Muje lagta nahi hai worst se worst sasural bhi apne jawaan bete ki death ke baad apne ghar ko bahu ko Aise akele pan mai dhakelta hoga.

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Posted: 3 months ago
#4

Lmao in Rohit's death people in pagal poddar house fawning over Arman..the guy left them for months now same characters telling audience the family came to street cause Arman didn't earn for them of whatever 🤣🤣🤣


These bunch of cousins are so useless and ehsan faramosh for their own parents. Rohit was same too, bhabhi this bhai that ab mar and soon your wife will become triangle sandwich. That charu happily having affair with abhir uncared of her sister and still eating Sanjay Bansal ka earned money. Krish Aryan etc their parents are working yet bhai this bhabhi that. And Vidya lmao she said she always picked Arman and it's visible she's dying to give Arman his old place back. Only kaveri holding firm but she's a vamp...if your family member leaves you it takes time to take them back. Not everyone can be fickle and spineless losers like charus gang etc


On topic stupid babymoon mein bageera ko extra drama karna hai na how else she will feel insecure lmao. Her baby obsession overshadowing khadoosman obsession 🤣🤣🤣

Posted: 3 months ago
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When Roohi woke up from coma and was mourning for her baby this whole family was celebrating without her . This vidhya was planning for Rohit's second marriage. They have always been insensitive towards Roohi. When Armaan left her in mandap. All of them were happy noone thought about the girl who was left alone.

So leaving Roohi alone when her husband is no more is nothing new. Frankly speaking this whole family is useless. They want Armaan to take care of Roohi. They expected him to take care of her in the past when Rohit left the house and they expect him to take care of her now when Rohit died. Their only job is to praise Armaan and do nothing.

Posted: 3 months ago
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Originally posted by: viji2111

When Roohi woke up from coma and was mourning for her baby this whole family was celebrating without her . This vidhya was planning for Rohit's second marriage. They have always been insensitive towards Roohi. When Armaan left her in mandap. All of them were happy noone thought about the girl who was left alone.

So leaving Roohi alone when her husband is no more is nothing new. Frankly speaking this whole family is useless. They want Armaan to take care of Roohi. They expected him to take care of her in the past when Rohit left the house and they expect him to take care of her now when Rohit died. Their only job is to praise Armaan and do nothing.

@bold : Pehli aisi family dekh rahi hu Jo khud he bade bete ko chote bete ka har tarah se replacement banane par tulli hui hai. Kapda, chair, table , profession sab mai apne chote bete ki jagah bade bete ko replace Karna chahte hai and agar bass chala toh Rohit ke biwi bacche mai bhi Armaan ko replace kar denge lekin khud 1 takke ka take care nahi karege kisi chiz ka!

Kya seriously India mai kisi ke ghar mai aise bade-buzurg hote hai jo chote bete ki pregnant surrogate widow ko bada beta bahu ke sath babymoon par akele bhej de!!! Yah aisi ghar ki ladies hoti hai jo agar ghar mai jawaan bete ki death ho jaye toh uski widow ke paas ek baar bhi koi na jaye!! Damn ghatiya family hai yar! Pata nahi kis mooh se Rohit ko pyar karne ka dava karte hai!!

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Posted: 3 months ago
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I am sure that dadi sa will object but who will listen to

In their needs to show DDP and drama ..they are being insensitive if they are not showing a time leap of a few months

Which widow who loves her husband will leave for baby moon types of things 😩😩😩😩

They should legally free her allow her to grieve properly before ru loses her sanity

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Posted: 3 months ago
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Baby moon why not for Bahujan samaj party smiley19a cartoon of patrick star with tears running down his face

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Posted: 3 months ago
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Originally posted by: sweet_tania

Usually toh couples akele he babymoon par jate hai jab wife pregnant hoti hai tab!

Lekin yaha situation is extraordinary. Child is coming through surrogate so agar surrogate ke sath babymoon par jana hai toh why not inviting entire family?!

Sab mil kar rohit ke gum se bahar nikle, elders, cousins sab ruhi and daksh ke sath time spend kare!

Ruhi ko kuch din akele na rehne de, akele na sone de. yeh sab ruhi ke sath ghar ki baki ladies like vidya, manisha, charu, kajal bhi kar sakti hai. I am seeing no other women of the house is taking care of their widow surrogate bahu. Family ko bhi yeh acche se pata hai ki rohit ki bhi wish thi ki ruhi surrogate bane. Yeh log rohit unke ghar ka sabse pyara beta hone ka daava karte hai lekin ussi rohit ki widow pregnant surrogate ka take care karte hue maine kisi ko nahi dekha. Ghar ki ek bhi dusri lady ko ruhi ke sath interect karte nahi dekha post rohit death!! Kyun!

Rohit apka beta tha , beta chala gaya, bahu-pota chod gaya lekin yeh log yeh tak dekhne room mai nahi aate ki daksh kaisa hai, apne baap ko kitna miss karta hai, rohit ki biwi unki bahu kaise fir se akelepan mai apna life start karegi!!! Shame on these all the ladies jo rohit ke naam par rone dhone ka natak karti hai including vidya!!

Rohit ki death ke baad 48 hours mai rohit ki pregnant surrogate widow ko high fever aya lekin ussi rohit ki family ko pata tak nahi ki unki bahu ka health is not good and she has a infant with her . Agar dusri ladies uske paas jayegi toh unko pata chalega na ki unke pyare bete ki widow ko high fever hua hai. Dusri ladies toh rohit ki death ke baad ek baar bhi ruhi ke paas gayi tak nahi hai. Pata nahi kiske ghar mai agar jawaan bete ki death ho jaye toh uski widow /bacche ko aise treat karte honge!

Usually real life mai bhi aisa hota hai jab ghar mai kisi ki death hoti hai tab!likeDadaji/nanaji ka death ho jata hai tab dadi/nani ko bhi room mai kuch din akele nahi sone dete kyunki woh dukh mai hote hai toh koi sath ho toh sahara rehta hai.

Aise kaun recently widow hui apni pregnant surrogate bahu ko jeth jethani ke sath babymoon par akele bhej deta hai!!!! Kya inka farz nahi banta ki ruhi abhira armaan ka help kare iss complex pregnancy mai! Yeh log chahe toh ruhi armaan abhira ke sath har ek event mai khade reh kar sabki life spoil hone se bacha sakte hai. jab rohit zinda tha tab samaj aata hai ki 2 couples ek sath surrogacy ka journey navigate karnewale the lekin ab he is no more and uski widow ke sath rohit ki jagah sirf armaan ko nahi entire family ko khade rehna padega and surrogate pregnant bahu ke sath babymoon par bhi jana vhahiye.Agar ek bhi family member nahi jana chahta ho sath toh babymoon he cancel karna chahiye. Aise kaun jeth jethani ke sath surrogate choti bahu ko bhej deta hai!

Rohit dekh raha hai ki bada bhai ghar wapas aya aisa vidya bol rahi thi gruhpravesh ke time par, koi iss vidya ko yeh bhi batao ki rohit yeh bhi dekh raha hai ki uske jaane ke baad koi uske bete daksh ko room mai dekhne tak nahi jaata hai, koi uski pregnant surrogate widow ka haal bhi raat ko puchne nahi jata hai. Rohit sirf armaan ki ghar waapsi nahi ,yeh sab bhi dekh he raha hai.


Poddars are a complete useless family .

When Ruhi woke up from coma and grieving for her baby , these poddars were celebrating completely ignoring Ruhi's pain .

Now that Ruhi has turned a widow , no member of the family has been shown consoling or taking care of her , not even Manish , Swarna or Surekha .

It's just lazy writing . The writer is just adding Poddar firm nonsense , how Armaan is the asset for Poddar Firm and how Gadheera longs for her own baby .

Charu is a shameless girl , who even after Rohit's death want to do EMA with Abhir , even though Rohit warned her not to destroy Kiara's life .Chorus Gang , Manisha chachi are another useless bunch of people , who have no work other than praising Armaan - Abhira , for even the bare minimum they do .

Vidya is busy replacing Rohit with Armaan .

Fufa sa reminded Dadi to handover Rohit's property to Daksh , which seemed sensible to me.

In gen 3 , after Neil's death , Arohi was suggested by Birlas to abort the baby and move on in life. I guess for once , the entire family needs to sit together and talk to Ruhi that she is the single parent of Daksh now and if anything happens to her during pregnancy , Daksh will be left all alone , so she should priorotize Daksh and herself over anything . Also , for once Gadheera and Armaan should give her an option to abort the baby .

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Posted: 3 months ago
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First tell me who will enjoy going out like that when a death is happened just before. It's not a 3 month or 6 mo th gap shown. That too the lady who lost hubby is in full grief still she has that baby bhoj in tummy and head with her dead pati wishes. Ar can't do more than anything just hold daksh when needed as it's not his own kid and cry why I am alive. Abheera will jump in words first later rethinking is it right. Is she on to remove kid then free ruhi. Na. She has no chance so she will act. Babymoon done for a couple who is going to be getting their kid Sharing the happiness. The surrogate is with them crying one side and they need to have romance and dates for their relief. Will anyone do this and poke someone in pain that way in real life.

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