YRKKH BTS, SM updates & Spoilers Thread #82 - Page 87

Originally posted by: sharadrocks

Armaan feels entitled ..and this is an Armaan fan saying it

Like I said - aaj sab aise baatein bol rahe hai ki it's hard for me to understand which show they are watching.

In logon ne pukka aaj ka episode nahi dekha hoga, warna yeh statement pukka nahi maarte

Originally posted by: sharadrocks

she thinks Armaan deserves a family and that’s his greatest dream..and in the moh maya of love, he is losing out on his dream ..and that makes her furious with him for giving up on his own dream ..see she’s irrational and vile ..but she loves Armaan for sure !

I disagree..Had she loved Ar truly, then he wud have never told Ab that he feels unwanted in that family.. He feels he may lose them anytime.

Idt Getting furious on someone gives u the license to treat another person worthless.

Originally posted by: AnashqU

@bold means????

Tumhi batado IF kya meaning hai

Beautiful aadmi (jo woh Hai)

Originally posted by: sharadrocks

she thinks Armaan deserves a family and that’s his greatest dream..and in the moh maya of love, he is losing out on his dream ..and that makes her furious with him for giving up on his own dream ..see she’s irrational and vile ..but she loves Armaan for sure !

Like I said. I have seen a mom murder her DIL (who was the mother of a 2 yr old child, that MIL's granddaughter) only because the MIL felt that the DIL ne uske bete ke kaan bhare, jisse woh bechara behek gaya & he left his mother & went abroad. So yes, this happens

Originally posted by: Apsvenky

Chal I will say this. I get where he comes from. He needed to destroy the little umeed that Abhira had of them reconciling coz he knows that he would again have to choose between his mom and her somewhere down the line. He made that choice & clearly cut off the relation using the one tool that he knew would be most effective & would make sure to remove any hopes from Abhira's mind.

The only reason I still ship these 2 even after this horrible stunt he pulled today is only because no matter how much Abhira or we hate him today, none of us can hold a candle to how much he hates himself. He is this close to ending it, but knows he cannot coz mom ki zimmedari hai uspar. Is baar bhi usne yeh sab Abhira ke liye kiya - so that she can finally move on from him.

Dekh lena - he will not say a word or ask Abhira anything. Coz he will take whatever barbadi he gets as something he deserves for what he did with Abhira today

Wow girl you said everything I wanted to say.... in doing all this for Abhira to move on, I still dont like him making her career the target but he knows what her career and mumma ka sapna means to her.... he also know she will keep trying to pursue despite him pushing her away and choosing Vidya over her will again be a scenario and he will always choose Vidya over Abhira, he even stated today that Vidya has given him the identity so instead of again causing her the pain he has decided to end it once and for all, he is going to keep hurting himself for what he did.

Originally posted by: Apsvenky

It's not about worse re Ammu. For him getting cursed at is normal. He saw Kaveri do it & agree to his shaadi. So he assumed yeh bhi theek ho jaayega, maa ka gussa shant hoga toh sab theek ho jaayega.

Armaan has been brought up to value the little scraps of affection these people throw at him & disregard the absolute vile behaviour they do with him. That is his character sketch

Originally posted by: OliviaP

I disagree..Had she loved Ar truly, then he wud have never told Ab that he feels unwanted in that family.. He feels he may lose them anytime.

Idt Getting furious on someone gives u the license to treat another person worthless.

Originally posted by: Apsvenky

Chal I will say this. I get where he comes from. He needed to destroy the little umeed that Abhira had of them reconciling coz he knows that he would again have to choose between his mom and her somewhere down the line. He made that choice & clearly cut off the relation using the one tool that he knew would be most effective & would make sure to remove any hopes from Abhira's mind.

The only reason I still ship these 2 even after this horrible stunt he pulled today is only because no matter how much Abhira or we hate him today, none of us can hold a candle to how much he hates himself. He is this close to ending it, but knows he cannot coz mom ki zimmedari hai uspar. Is baar bhi usne yeh sab Abhira ke liye kiya - so that she can finally move on from him.

Dekh lena - he will not say a word or ask Abhira anything. Coz he will take whatever barbadi he gets as something he deserves for what he did with Abhira today

issiliye to iss gadhe se nafrat nahi hoti... Gussa dila ke khud victim banjata hai.. .main ne aise bete dekhe hai jo Maa ko partners se upar rakhte hai chahe Maa kitne bhi galat lage... Ye to uski sagi Maa bhi nahi hai to aur zyada indebted feel karta hai.... Emotional fool hai wo nafrat nahi kar raha Abhira se bus umeed khatam kar raha hai..... Jiske liye i agree very bad move tha.... Pitne wala kaam kiya hai gadhe ne

Originally posted by: sharadrocks

@bold this ..and the fact that she has obviously given him love all through except during the shraap phase maybe ..I mean she even digested the fact that Armaan and Ruhi had once had feelings for each other and likely her son was lost to her because of that..she genuinely thought she was giving Armaan back what he loved .. takes a lot to do that

Exactly. See this is why I don't actively hate Vidya, she is just a non entity for me (just aaj kal she is looking much more fake than normal). She may be a vile & manipulative flipper who can never take sides or treat Armaan nicely. But honestly she is one of the only people who loved Armaan before Abhira came into the picture. Be it conditional love, be it because she wanted to show Madhav that she is the bigger person, be it anything. For Armaan, the only person who truly accepted him was Vidya, phir baaki sab log.

Abhira bhi Vidya depends on Armaan despite knowing that Abhira did all this with her. Coz for Vidya, Armaan is more hers than he can be of anyone else's. She actually had an obsessive love towards him, which for Armaan is the only maa ka pyaar he knows.

Originally posted by: sharadrocks

he spoke of family ..not Vidya alone …and we have had sequences in the show where even the cousins have left him out ..but not Vidya …not till the shraap thingy…and this is not about anyone having the license to degrade another human being …of course no one does …but I still get Vidya …I am not saying she is a lovable character or she is right …but Armaan became the balm to her wounded pride when he chose her over his father even …when he loved her blindly maybe even more than her biological son ..she is not able to stomach the fact that he chose someone else or even himself over her, particularly when she only had his interests at heart as per her .:.

So in a way that means all the love and care Vidya showers upon Ar is conditional??? And Ar was/ is/ will be happy and content with that..