YRKKH BTS, SM updates & Spoilers Thread #82 - Page 88

Originally posted by: Apsvenky

Chodo - is maamle main they will never understand just how big of a hold Vidya has on Armaan. The issue is that we have only seen the "shraap" & the way she treated Armaan after shaadi. But the fact that Vidya took a child that was a proof of her husband's affairs & made him feel home for 30 years takes a lot. So no matter how horrible she is, Armaan ke liye she is the only mother he has ever known

Exactly this will take time for him come out of this all he need to realise is what this woman is and also he needs to know that his mom was the first wife of his father and its Vidya who came afterwards.

I get Armaan. I am very mad at him but i still get him. he made a clear choice today he better stand by it!!!

but ik he won't and i'm so excited to see his regret and suffering

Originally posted by: OliviaP

So that shall be his character sketch till the end of this gen???

Unfortunately yes, the day decides to break free of the bonds that holds him back to Poddars will be a completely different Armaan who would not find himself indebted to his family or the need to be entitled to them. And this will happen close to gen end or Shivanis death and poddars having a hand in what happened which I dont think they will ever show, even if they do, the bond he shares with Vidya will stay the same

Originally posted by: OliviaP

So that shall be his character sketch till the end of this gen???

I don't know. While I hope he learns to overcome the need to compensate Vidya for her love, I hope he gives her a reality check at some point, the way he once did with Kaveri. While things may not completely change, they hopefully may get better

Originally posted by: OliviaP

So in a way that means all the love and care Vidya showers upon Ar is conditional??? And Ar was/ is/ will be happy and content with that..

Originally posted by: Fortnight

I get Armaan. I am very mad at him but i still get him. he made a clear choice today he better stand by it!!!

but ik he won't and i'm so excited to see his regret and suffering

Originally posted by: OliviaP

So in a way that means all the love and care Vidya showers upon Ar is conditional??? And Ar was/ is/ will be happy and content with that..

Yes. Coz that is how he has been brought up. To be happy with whatever little scraps of affection he gets. Coz he has been made to feel that he deserves only that much.

Which is why when Abhira loved him wholeheartedly, he did not understand how to deal with it. He also is unable to right now understand that you need to give that respect to your partner along with love, coz he has never been given that respect by anyone in his family

Originally posted by: Apsvenky

Chal I will say this. I get where he comes from. He needed to destroy the little umeed that Abhira had of them reconciling coz he knows that he would again have to choose between his mom and her somewhere down the line. He made that choice & clearly cut off the relation using the one tool that he knew would be most effective & would make sure to remove any hopes from Abhira's mind.

The only reason I still ship these 2 even after this horrible stunt he pulled today is only because no matter how much Abhira or we hate him today, none of us can hold a candle to how much he hates himself. He is this close to ending it, but knows he cannot coz mom ki zimmedari hai uspar. Is baar bhi usne yeh sab Abhira ke liye kiya - so that she can finally move on from him.

Dekh lena - he will not say a word or ask Abhira anything. Coz he will take whatever barbadi he gets as something he deserves for what he did with Abhira today

Why he wanted to do that ?

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Originally posted by: Apsvenky

It's not about worse re Ammu. For him getting cursed at is normal. He saw Kaveri do it & agree to his shaadi. So he assumed yeh bhi theek ho jaayega, maa ka gussa shant hoga toh sab theek ho jaayega.

Armaan has been brought up to value the little scraps of affection these people throw at him & disregard the absolute vile behaviour they do with him. That is his character sketch

.he has to come out of this that's the journey