When FLs are the toxic red flag

Saw several threads and debates on whose's better Abhimanyu or Armaan. But in my eyes, problem isn't the MLs but the FLs Aaktuu and Kachri.. They're the red flags, ruining theirs and others lives.

On White Day, Ak should've waited for the police to save the girls. coz its not the job of unarmed civilians (and a woman with complicated pregnancy) to fight with goons with weapons. When Neil told her to wait for police she emotionally manipulated him. What max would've happened in 10 minutes? Her impulsiveness costed her miscarriage and Neil's life.

I read that post miscarriage Ak was suffering from Postpartum depression. So its just FLs who suffer coz Ruhi was mocked and all her sufferings were called nautanki but teek hai. So Ak saw her presence was giving anxiety attacks to Manjari. What's the least thing expected here that she'll give them space and since she's herself "suffering and is in pain" she'll take rest in her room as suggested by Abhi. But "Space" word doesn't exist in FLs dictionary.

In the room when Abhi questioned her impulsiveness and stupidity which costed 3 lives couldn't she been a little empathetic and stayed quiet. Her "MERI KYA GALTI THI" triggered Abhi. Was it so necessary to justify her idiotic decisions when theirs so much going on in the house. Still Abhi is wrong to divorce her. Then this postpartum depressed patient simply hops on a bus and leaves everything behind instead of going to Goenka House and giving everyone time to heal. And Abhi is expected to understand this. Also a half baked effort at telling their kid is alive.

Now in Kachri's case, despite getting vivid dreams and doubts she conveniently ignored them. Still I agree Ar was wrong to lie about bsp. She gave him divorce papers but time and again stated she madly loves him and can't move on coz she's a doormat. During Abhir fiasco, she was adamant to fight the case and was expecting Ar to understand her. Ar was legally wrong but morally he was supporting his mother. And V isn't a hardcore criminal, she was genuinely guilty. Easily out of court settlement hosakta tha but kachri denied. Ab jab Jeet gayi hai what's she doing, slapping herself, doing duniya bar ki nautanki, guilt tripping Abhir, literally begging higher officials to bail out Vidya.. Agar yahi sab karna tha toh case ladi kyu? when V was requesting to speak with Abhir and Ar was requesting her for out of court settlement tab maan jati. She's such a fickle minded person and there are people who hail her.

In both the gens its Kachri and her Mata who are the problem not Abhimanyu or Armaan.

Yes toxic & foolish FLs at the end Abhimanyu wanted to be the father of her unborn baby , she even begged infront Manjari...At last Abh left everybody went with her only to die.

Yaa could have waited for Police where an man like Neil can fight agaist goons alone, stillmI supported her thinking of her humiliation but towards the end only realised the toxicity in that FL ...

Abheera is very fickle minded , she has no idea what she wants to do , if she wanted to bail Vidya out why did she send her to jail ...She should have let Vidya speak to Abhir...Vidya is not a murderer, thief , scammer or drug trafficker , it was a hit & run case . She did a crime but the way Poddar handled it was wrong also.

When to speak when not to. When to take decision when not to. This is the main arrogance in akshu and Abheera covered with zidd and ego when a situation comes . Abheera is ziddi to fight case for abhir instead she could allow ar or vidya in talk what happened why she ran away and why she didn't tell truth. She was the road block to abhir saying bhai is not well. If he listened to vidya he could not be this painful to punish vidya . Though he is right to punish culprit she could manage him with cooler way. Now what happened to bhais pain from childhood evaporated in second immediately after punishment told. When she doesn't want jail she could have agreed for out of court settlement. Poddars total family could have done seva and abhir could have bent both bil for his seva that way and healed fast staying together. Instead bitter way they went. Did she stand on that. One minute bhi nahi. Everything looks fake from her side na bhai ka pyar na maa ke liye pain it's all to chipko to ar on bed as they are dry from long.

Cvs pl don't give this fl anything extra keep her as poddar bahu and give wrath from vidya and more curses she will be very happy there holding ar on bed and at home. 😜

Originally posted by: Firefly_shines

Saw several threads and debates on whose's better Abhimanyu or Armaan. But in my eyes, problem isn't the MLs but the FLs Aaktuu and Kachri.. They're the red flags, ruining theirs and others lives.

On White Day, Ak should've waited for the police to save the girls. coz its not the job of unarmed civilians (and a woman with complicated pregnancy) to fight with goons with weapons. When Neil told her to wait for police she emotionally manipulated him. What max would've happened in 10 minutes? Her impulsiveness costed her miscarriage and Neil's life.

I read that post miscarriage Ak was suffering from Postpartum depression. So its just FLs who suffer coz Ruhi was mocked and all her sufferings were called nautanki but teek hai. So Ak saw her presence was giving anxiety attacks to Manjari. What's the least thing expected here that she'll give them space and since she's herself "suffering and is in pain" she'll take rest in her room as suggested by Abhi. But "Space" word doesn't exist in FLs dictionary.

In the room when Abhi questioned her impulsiveness and stupidity which costed 3 lives couldn't she been a little empathetic and stayed quiet. Her "MERI KYA GALTI THI" triggered Abhi. Was it so necessary to justify her idiotic decisions when theirs so much going on in the house. Still Abhi is wrong to divorce her. Then this postpartum depressed patient simply hops on a bus and leaves everything behind instead of going to Goenka House and giving everyone time to heal. And Abhi is expected to understand this. Also a half baked effort at telling their kid is alive.

Now in Kachri's case, despite getting vivid dreams and doubts she conveniently ignored them. Still I agree Ar was wrong to lie about bsp. She gave him divorce papers but time and again stated she madly loves him and can't move on coz she's a doormat. During Abhir fiasco, she was adamant to fight the case and was expecting Ar to understand her. Ar was legally wrong but morally he was supporting his mother. And V isn't a hardcore criminal, she was genuinely guilty. Easily out of court settlement hosakta tha but kachri denied. Ab jab Jeet gayi hai what's she doing, slapping herself, doing duniya bar ki nautanki, guilt tripping Abhir, literally begging higher officials to bail out Vidya.. Agar yahi sab karna tha toh case ladi kyu? when V was requesting to speak with Abhir and Ar was requesting her for out of court settlement tab maan jati. She's such a fickle minded person and there are people who hail her.

In both the gens its Kachri and her Mata who are the problem not Abhimanyu or Armaan.

From what I see so far I find Armaan wrong as well. Especially his muteness and leading a girl on.

It wasn't Ruhi who approached him first it was him with all those tum meri mohabbat ho and same with Abhira he did.

Jahan support krna chahiye krta nahi hai jahan nahi krna chahiye wahan bhi 50% hi saath

I was missing Abhira appreciation thread from yesterday

I completely agree regarding Gen 4 FL & won't defend Abhira Sharma, though she only destroyed her own life nobody else, but Akshara Sharma ka zikr saat janam tak hoga kya? Just to prove Bhagwaan Abhimanyu right?

Originally posted by: Mehersudha

When to speak when not to. When to take decision when not to. This is the main arrogance in akshu and Abheera covered with zidd and ego when a situation comes . Abheera is ziddi to fight case for abhir instead she could allow ar or vidya in talk what happened why she ran away and why she didn't tell truth. She was the road block to abhir saying bhai is not well. If he listened to vidya he could not be this painful to punish vidya . Though he is right to punish culprit she could manage him with cooler way. Now what happened to bhais pain from childhood evaporated in second immediately after punishment told. When she doesn't want jail she could have agreed for out of court settlement. Poddars total family could have done seva and abhir could have bent both bil for his seva that way and healed fast staying together. Instead bitter way they went. Did she stand on that. One minute bhi nahi. Everything looks fake from her side na bhai ka pyar na maa ke liye pain it's all to chipko to ar on bed as they are dry from long.

Cvs pl don't give this fl anything extra keep her as poddar bahu and give wrath from vidya and more curses she will be very happy there holding ar on bed and at home. 😜

Originally posted by: chaipaani

From what I so far I find Armaan wrong as well. Especially his muteness and leading a girl on.

It wasn't Ruhi who approached him first it was him with all those tum meri mohabbat ho and same with Abhira he did.

Jahan support krna chahiye krta nahi hai jahan nahi krna chahiye wahan bhi 50% hi saath

Originally posted by: ShadowImbue

I was missing Abhira appreciation thread from yesterday

I completely agree regarding Gen 4 FL & won't defend Abhira Sharma, but Akshara Sharma ka zikr saat janam tak hoga kya? Just to prove Bhagwaan Abhimanyu right?

To think that had Akshara not left the room that day like Abhimanyu told her then both Neil and her unborn child would’ve survived, Roohi would’ve gotten the love of her father and Abhir would’ve gotten the perfect life as he deserves. Par nahi madam ko mahaan banna tha uss din aur sab kuch barbaad kiya to which both her kids are struggling to this very day nor can her elders rest in peace.

Abhira ka toh kya hi kehna. I do not understand her love for her so called Maaaaaaaaa who hates her guts and always curses her. She claimed to want justice for her brother yet is now throwing a tantrum now that the buddhi has been rightfully arrested and wants to bail her out??

And yes, Aurat Bhi Toxic Red Flag Ho Sakti Hai.

Originally posted by: Rosh4rose

Yes toxic & foolish FLs at the end Abhimanyu wanted to be the father of her unborn baby , she even begged infront Manjari...At last Abh left everybody went with her only to die.

Yaa could have waited for Police where an man like Neil can fight agaist goons alone, stillmI supported her thinking of her humiliation but towards the end only realised the toxicity in that FL ...

Abheera is very fickle minded , she has no idea what she wants to do , if she wanted to bail Vidya out why did she send her to jail ...She should have let Vidya speak to Abhir...Vidya is not a murderer, thief , scammer or drug trafficker , it was a hit & run case . She did a crime but the way Poddar handled it was wrong also.

Vidya had got publically humiliated already and even if she comes out no one can reverse what she has faced. Either abhira should let her take punishment or never went to court in the first place. Now it looks more she made vidya to face humiliations and now acting mahaan as if saving her 🤷‍♀️