When FLs are the toxic red flag - Page 9

Originally posted by: ShadowImbue

Abhira bailed out Vidya to fix her relationship with Armaan then why didn't she tell Armaan and Poddars about her huge favor on them? They would've still blamed her even then but still deep down they would be aware Abhira saved Vidya mata from 10 years imprisonment. No sane girl would ever live with family like Poddars. She missed 2-3 opportunities of living away from Poddars with her husband.

Agree. Ab dekho revenge mode pe kon aya hai. Ek to chori upper se seenajori. Ye Vidya ko abhi tak is baat ka realisation nahi h at what extent she has destroy abhir’s life.
Main na kehti thi ye poddars hai hi aise jab khud pe ati h ye log Sab Kuch upside down kar dete h . Khud ye 100 accident bhi kar de tab bhi in logo ka same attitude rahega . They seriously don’t value people life .

Abhira Armaan k case me clear hi ki shaadi me sirf pyaar kafi nahi hota , Armaan don’t respect his wife and Abhira don’t have self respect .

Originally posted by: itsShonali

Exactly! See, it is not a hidden secret or something that I hate the FL. Despite my hatred for her, I was so proud of her that she did the right thing by suing her toxic saas. Vidya could do so much to help Abhir but she did nothing, didn't take him to the hospital, didn't call an ambulance for him, didn't even inform any of the family members and the ones who found out, she told them to keep quiet and now she was acting as if she didn't just destroy a man's life!

I was so glad that to see the FL fighting for justice, fighting for the right thing but then she proved again why I call her a clown! That dumb woman is now acting so stupidly in front of the victim (Abhir) and now she will get that criminal saas of hers bailed out.

As per the BTS/spoilers Vidya will now instigate Delulu sa to take revenge to which that ghatiyamaan has already agreed! - "mera pyaar dekha hai, ab meri nafrat dekhegi" - like wtf?!

Despite all this, that idiot FL will accept her toxic saas and delulu husband once again and will go back to them. The makers have turned the FL into a joke. She was good in the initial episodes and now she has turned into a clown.

Seriously , creatives don’t know the essence of a. Strong female lead . They just make FL doormat and in this case Abhira loves to beg acceptance from her toxic MIL and husband who is her sauteli maa ka puppy .

Arey bhai politician k pass ja k bail karwane ki jarrorat hi kya thi , just to please her in laws and aise to chal pada inki shaadi jab baar baar apne ethics k sath compromise karna pade .

Ekta k show me atleast FL ko super strong dikhate hai , in laws n pati k aise ki taise karna to koi Ekta se sikhe waha kam se kam ye sukoon to Milta h

Originally posted by: Serenity_me

Agree. Ab dekho revenge mode pe kon aya hai. Ek to chori upper se seenajori. Ye Vidya ko abhi tak is baat ka realisation nahi h at what extent she has destroy abhir’s life.
Main na kehti thi ye poddars hai hi aise jab khud pe ati h ye log Sab Kuch upside down kar dete h . Khud ye 100 accident bhi kar de tab bhi in logo ka same attitude rahega . They seriously don’t value people life .

Abhira Armaan k case me clear hi ki shaadi me sirf pyaar kafi nahi hota , Armaan don’t respect his wife and Abhira don’t have self respect .

Originally posted by: Firefly_shines

Saw several threads and debates on whose's better Abhimanyu or Armaan. But in my eyes, problem isn't the MLs but the FLs Aaktuu and Kachri.. They're the red flags, ruining theirs and others lives.

On White Day, Ak should've waited for the police to save the girls. coz its not the job of unarmed civilians (and a woman with complicated pregnancy) to fight with goons with weapons. When Neil told her to wait for police she emotionally manipulated him. What max would've happened in 10 minutes? Her impulsiveness costed her miscarriage and Neil's life.

I read that post miscarriage Ak was suffering from Postpartum depression. So its just FLs who suffer coz Ruhi was mocked and all her sufferings were called nautanki but teek hai. So Ak saw her presence was giving anxiety attacks to Manjari. What's the least thing expected here that she'll give them space and since she's herself "suffering and is in pain" she'll take rest in her room as suggested by Abhi. But "Space" word doesn't exist in FLs dictionary.

In the room when Abhi questioned her impulsiveness and stupidity which costed 3 lives couldn't she been a little empathetic and stayed quiet. Her "MERI KYA GALTI THI" triggered Abhi. Was it so necessary to justify her idiotic decisions when theirs so much going on in the house. Still Abhi is wrong to divorce her. Then this postpartum depressed patient simply hops on a bus and leaves everything behind instead of going to Goenka House and giving everyone time to heal. And Abhi is expected to understand this. Also a half baked effort at telling their kid is alive.

Now in Kachri's case, despite getting vivid dreams and doubts she conveniently ignored them. Still I agree Ar was wrong to lie about bsp. She gave him divorce papers but time and again stated she madly loves him and can't move on coz she's a doormat. During Abhir fiasco, she was adamant to fight the case and was expecting Ar to understand her. Ar was legally wrong but morally he was supporting his mother. And V isn't a hardcore criminal, she was genuinely guilty. Easily out of court settlement hosakta tha but kachri denied. Ab jab Jeet gayi hai what's she doing, slapping herself, doing duniya bar ki nautanki, guilt tripping Abhir, literally begging higher officials to bail out Vidya.. Agar yahi sab karna tha toh case ladi kyu? when V was requesting to speak with Abhir and Ar was requesting her for out of court settlement tab maan jati. She's such a fickle minded person and there are people who hail her.

In both the gens its Kachri and her Mata who are the problem not Abhimanyu or Armaan.

Kachri but in this season the ml is also kachra kachra and kachri ki jodi hai iss season main. I used to like abhira a bit previously cos she appeared strong in front of yuvraj but then that was just deception.

Bandi main koi qualities hai hee nahi she is moofat, disrespectful towards elders, lusty(she has proved it multiple times) unethical(she cheated poor people for impressing her then fiance for lust and also cheated her own brother by bailing out vidya) fickle minded(like you said)

Armaan is basically a two timer, bhabhi lover, people pleaser, bachcha chor and ungrateful cheapster. Aisay kachra characters ko toh chullu bhar paani main doob jaana chahiye

Am i the only one who wants abhir to bash abhira to show her her doglapanti i will enjoy abhira roasting sessions by abhir

Here is my small snippet of abhira roasting session.

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/yeh-rishta-kya-kehlata-hai/5367008/abhir-roasting-abhira

Originally posted by: AnjuRish

Same I watched most of gen 3 for HC and liked aru from beginning..I guess the ambitious and working appealed..she has her faults but she was not impulsive..she stayed true to niel and did not jump to aa from pati and aa back to ex pati in days

Whatever anyone says niel was kinda compeled if he has not gone she would have ...he wanted to keep his bro kid safe .. the worst is lxter ..she could have accepted that her negligence let go his death ..let manyu manj and aru grieve and waited at goenka for every one to calm down and then talk she pushed tol much

Now I call ab as ab and even I am.partial to ru ..it was ar who led her on ..once she moved on also peep call her what not and ar ab in their own ways tried to lecture and take away ruhaan ..now that led me to dislike her ..I was on neutral to mild dislike..coz if u look at it even ab tried to take away ru fiancee

Manyu was a fairly decent son bro and father , as a husband poor

Being practical, ambitious and career oriented is actually a good trait. If maker's have not showed some flaws in arohi in the start, she would have loved by all from the start itself and akshara stand nowhere a chance, but in the end maker's made akshara so horrible that arohi's flaws seems nothing.

As this thread is about toxic fl's of Rishta. Let me tell you something.

If A toxic man is a shame to humanity

then A toxic woman is a devil incarnation.

I am saying this because of the experience of my cousins.

If makers wanted they could’ve shown Abhir recovering and starting to walk first and then Ab could’ve gotten Vidya bailed. It would’ve made sense but makers want to give queen treatment to fl, tabhi gaaliyan khane wale kaam kara rahe hai..