Ruhi didi ke bully nature ko defend karne wali members ko pranam!

Life rarely this Vs that hota hai. Except kabhi-kabhi. Mujhe Ruhi banaam Abhira ki ladai me koi interest nahi kyonki dono hi unrealistic depiction hain. Ruhi ke mamle me traumatizd woman ka exaggerated aur inaccurate depiction dikha rhe hain makers (uske bahane se PTSD ya cPTSD survivors ka majak bana rhe) aur Abhira ko to dikhaya hi superhuman hai inhone.

Anyway! Mai to Ruhi ke bahane triggered aatmao par chutki lene aai hu. Jo "chor ki daadhi me tinka" jaisa behave kar rhi.

Bhai unka tark (kutark actually) hai ki agar aap dusro aur dusro ke bachho (Specially jab us adult ne bhi aapka kuch bura na kiya ho, ye bas aapka perception/belief/feeling ho, jaisa Ruhi ko khud pata hai. Saath hi uske Infant bachhe se bhi nafrat ho ki badduao ki baarish kiye ja rhi. Trigger hona ek baat hai, nafrat hona ekdam alag.) se nafrat karti hain to iska matlab ye nahi ki aap buri insaan aur buri Maan hain!!

Wow! 👏👏 👏 taliya bajao koi in deviyo ke logic par? May be yahi sab dimaag me reasoning dekar ye apni bully nature ko real life me defend karti hongi. Because this is the literal definition of abuse/evil!

Fir bura hona hota kya hai? Aise to desh me sadiyo se casteism, misogyny hai hi aur ab Communal tension bhi joro par hai.

Are ye jaane do... Rapists ki mothers aksar yahi kahkar to apne beto defend karti hain ki mai mere bete ke liye sahi hu, wo mere liye sahi hai to mai kyu defend na karu?

Matlab bete ko paisa, roti, unhealthy emotional attachment dena hi "pyaar" hai? Forget values... Ye khud kisi bhi bachhe ke mental health ko kharab karne wali baat hai ki jaao beta jaise tumhari maa unreasonable nafrat me khud ki aur dusro ki life barbaad kar rhi hai, waise hi tum bhi usi fight me barbaad ho jao ya dusre ko barbaad karke chain manao. Jo koi aur nahi tumhara hi Bhai/bahan hai!! 👏

Aise sick arguments maine aaj tak kisi American ya European ko dete nahi dekha. Jabki yaha to unhe Anti-family society kahkar badnam kiya jata hai. Par yaha... Indians ko apne abusers se mohabbat hai, Innocents se nafrat!

Waise bhi ab to Ruhi Borderline Personality ke kai symptoms exhibit kar rhi. She needs actual help. Not condemnation, nor pat on her back! She is actually sick and this is really concerning.

Ruhi is a pathetic , evil human being, vo maa kya insaan kehlane ke bhi layak nahi hai . But the defences she gets here is she have trauma,lost everyone . So what ? Even Akshara ,Kairav ,Abhira (she have her mom) Abhir lost everyone.

Abhir ko bhi dhoka Mila hai from his so called family and sautela maasi ki zid ki wajah se. He and his pregnant mom has been thrown out of their own house and he lost everyone ,lived alone all his life. But still he can never become a psychopath like Ruhi or wish baby’s death or name him Asubh. Being angry for what happened and not wanting to keep in touch with them is absolutely fine but for this evil woman it’s always jealousy and hatred , she hates Abhira because Armaan chose Abhira over her.
she don’t have any kind of trauma , she just used trauma for her convenience when she wants to manipulate ppl.
Life gave her opportunities but she can never cherish what she have , Rohit accepted her even after witnessing how she was lusting on his brother ,but she never seems to respect that man , she got pregnant and then she is jealous how can Abhria get pregnant,instead of taking care of her own baby she focused on hating Abhira and her unborn . She didn’t even take medicines in her pregnancy.

Even now when the baby is back she is more focused on how to hurt Abhira rather than enjoying her motherhood . She wants waris the trophy,he is just a trophy and nothing else for her .
But sadly here she is not only being defended but also being hailed as if she is some becahri aatma and everyone is ruining her life. Kabhi apne S3 erased character ki pyaar ki patti nikal ke dekho thab na.

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I cannot

I'm a psychology student and believe me when I say it more then Ruhis Borderline personality I'm worried about those who defend her agressively . Read a post somewhere in the forum about Rohit and abhira and I was likeAre you serious. Ruhi was actually begging Armaan to marry her so she could give him child.

Where as Rohit and abhiras relationship is more like brother and sister . It's actually concerning sometimes to see issues like this glorified. Bullying, Harrassment , plottings and this level of unhealthy hatred should never be supported.

Thank you dear. Pranam accepted ................

.I accept that Ruhi has boarder line personality disorder as you said, every thing else others call her Lusty , evil , devil , shit evety thing ..

You yourself admitted she is not mentally fit so how can yoh hold a character mentally not fit to be bully...There is an Attorney from US you can ask her...even murderers get leniency when they are mentally not fit .

You points contradicts what you say..

Any ways Thank you for the " Pranam"

From my side " Mr & Mrs Chor " ko pranam not any human being but the characters.

Is it right you insult other who are real humans for " imaginary " characters 🤔

Thank you very much

Originally posted by: Why_though

Though I hate Roohi character a lot, I really wish she gets some medical help and heal.. she keeps spoiling everyone’s lives and doesn’t feel guilty at all.. she thinks she is the only victim.. she doesn’t even know what is right or wrong.. but one thing constant is she never faces any consequences at all.. Roohi is such a pathetically written character.. I can’t understand how anyone can defend her… trying to comprehend the twisted logic to justify her actions really hurts my brain..

Again jaisa ki maine apne post me kaha ki Ruhi aur Abhira dono hi unrealistic hain. Galti makers ki hai. Wo dono characters ke jariye women ki band baja rahe hain.

And people often forget that... Hamari society to kya kisi bhi society me Ruhi jaisi women ko aise support nahi milta ki wo kisi dusre ko relentlessly victimize kar sake. BPD lifelong severe trauma ka result hota hai. Aur usko aise galat tareeke se dikhana:

1) BPD patients ke sath anyay hai. Usse stigma aur badhta hai

2) Isse Manipulation ko badhava milta hai. Ki aap jo karo sab sahi! Aksar aisa criminal mindset ke log karte hain Abuse Victims nahi.

Also.... BPD mostly self-harm karte hain.

Saath me ye bhi kafi concerning hai ki logo ki comprehension skills kafi kamjor hain. Khair ye to wider population ka problem hai aajkal.

Maine apne post me saaf likha hai ki "Ye unrealistic depiction" hai.

Because... Ruhi me BPD aur trauma ke symptoms hain to sahi (waisi background story bhi hai) lekin use wakai me criminals ki tarah plotting karte, bullying karte bhi dikha rhe hain. Wo bhi tamam inaccuracies aur prejudice ke saath.

Jiske response me do hi cheeze ho rhi hain:

1) Jo Ruhi ko evil witch banakar baate karte hain, Mental illness ko character illness ki tarah treat karte hain. Stigmatize baate karte hain.

2) Dusre jo Ruhi ki criminal harkato aur manipulation ko endlessly defend karte hain. Aur Abhira ke jo wakai me normal reactions hain (waise FL ko normal hone ka mauka kam hi milta hai) use villainize aur twist karte hain ye log. Ruhi se to jyada hi.

Baki kyon? Kya mai koi fictional desh ki waasi hu jahan mujhe nahi pata ki koi Aisa rule banaya gya hai ki real life logo ki pathetic baato ko aap underline karke use galat nahi bata sakte? Mujhe to nahi pata ki Mai aise ki desh ki sadasy hu.

Baki aakhir me maine saaf likha ki Ruhi ko na "condemnation" ki jarurat hai aur na hi "defense" ki. Use serious help ki jarurat hai.

But... Mai bahut kuch kahna chahti hu par nahi kahungi. Kyonki bhai Mai to dharti par hi rahti hu, kisi hawa hawai desh me nahi. Real life me har dusre Ghar me Jo Intergenerational trauma ka raita faila hai, school/colleges me bullying aur offices me harrasment, government/s jis tarah innocents ko target karti rahi hain... To mai ye pretend karke baat karu ki jo kisi fictional character ki "actual abusive harkato" na sirf defend kar rha, uske bahane se manipulative behaviours ko endorse kar rha, mental illnesses ke bare me bhram aur stigma faila raha, wo koi normal shareef insaan hoga?

To Pranaam to kahna hoga!

Baki jisko ye post delete karna hai wo kar de. Toxic positive logo se yahi ummed ki ja sakti hai. I don't care. Baki jo din raat casteist, misogynist baate is forum par hamesha hoti hain wo sab sabhya mahilaao ke beech hone wale "sanskari" conversations hain. Delete karo Meri Bala se.