Yeh Rishta Kya Kehlata Hai 09Dec’24 Written Update, Episode Discussion - Page 35

Originally posted by: Krinya

Rohit won't be spared , most probably his truth will also be out ..acha hai daily kalesh hoga

Praying for Ruhi to use her acid tongue and sunao both brothers 🙏

Originally posted by: MsWhiskerson

Daksh being BSP, I am 80-20

80% it is BSP because Abhira kidnapped it and they can't show their FL kidnapping a child so justification would be that it is her baby

20% it is not BSP because Ruhi and Rohit did pooja today, ITV logic would have made sure Abhira and Armaan did it, if the baby was BSP

They can do anything, there's no room for logic on TV

Bold : Absolutely agree.

Obviously they can completely write something out of blue to make the baby BSP if track or Trp needs but till now they have shown different signs as well that it's not BSP. Especially Abheera getting nightmares of other baby crying while she have Daksh in her arms, etc.

Unless they show that Abheera is sooo good mother that even Ruhi's baby Bluetooth also connected to Abheera and she hears him cry it will be a but illogical to show Daksh as BSP.

But then they also shown Abhir soul saying goodbye to his mother and then he suddenly appears, so Daksh -BSP track could also take place.

Originally posted by: theromanticcrap

You’re not wrong, but I see it differently. Just because someone is taunting you doesn’t mean you should want something that might never happen or isn’t right for you. Having a baby isn’t the only important thing in life. A child shouldn’t be born just to fulfill societal expectations, family pressure, or to prove something. A baby should come into the world because of love—and if not that, at least be loved unconditionally once they’re here.

I know AbhiMaan’s baby was born out of love, but having a child shouldn’t be treated as a priority. That’s why I agreed with Armaan when he wanted Abhira to consider an abortion. Abortion isn’t wrong; it can be the most logical and compassionate decision in certain situations. Bringing a child into the world only to lose their mother soon after is heartbreaking—not just for the baby, but for the father and the family as well.

When there are options like adoption, IVF, or surrogacy, why choose a path that leads to so much pain? Abhira wanting to have a baby knowing she wouldn’t live to raise it was, in my opinion, a flawed decision. Yes, the intention—to bring a baby into a world full of love—was beautiful. But what about the aftermath? Leaving the baby behind?

Going back to PH without BSP would be hard for both AbhiMaan, but time heals all wounds. They can heal and have their own child later, when the timing and circumstances are right—not to prove a point or compensate for anything, but simply because they want to share a part of themselves with the world.

You have said it so well. Having a child is no joke and it’s a big responsibility, one shouldn’t take the decision to have a child because you want to appease your mother-in-law in accepting your husband and marriage. And this is what Abheera did, knowing full well her body/health can’t sustain a pregnancy without risk to both baby and mother. Both Armaan, Abheera knew this before marriage, so why not take precautions to not get pregnant. If they still wanted a baby, why not consider other options - as you said there is IVF+surrogacy, adoption etc. And you rightly said choosing to get pregnant knowing that it can be life threatening was a flawed decision of both Armaan and Abheera’s. I can understand aborting a pregnancy is very very difficult, you are terminating a potential life you created but why did both of them even reach that point in first place. That was utter stupidity in my opinion and wasn’t even out of love, it was under pressure from mother-in-law with her sraap drama and whiny Armaan who knew his mother doesn’t approve of marriage, but still coaxed Abhira into marriage, just to sit and cry afterwards for three months on her mother’s disapproval all the while banging her wife to get her pregnant without regard for her health 🤷‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️ honestly where is love in all this?

Originally posted by: MsWhiskerson

If Ruhi had brain, she wouldn't be after Poddar brothers. She is happy she got waris

I was so counting that she would leave the Poddar house, divorce him bla bla, but makers have plans to keep her here and now blissfully ignorant about her husband act of donating her baby.

Waris mill gya ab or kya chahiye 🤣.

Originally posted by: MsWhiskerson

Daksh being BSP, I am 80-20

80% it is BSP because Abhira kidnapped it and they can't show their FL kidnapping a child so justification would be that it is her baby

20% it is not BSP because Ruhi and Rohit did pooja today, ITV logic would have made sure Abhira and Armaan did it, if the baby was BSP

They can do anything, there's no room for logic on TV

I don’t think it’s BSP.

After all this drama Abheera will come back, hand the baby over, all the family will sympathise with her while Ruhi will not allow her to go near Daksh making Abheera yearn and cry buckets for few episodes till they can milk TRP. Mere hisab se that is the next few weeks which I intend to skip happily 😅

Originally posted by: Krinya

Rohit won't be spared , most probably his truth will also be out ..acha hai daily kalesh hoga

Oh you think so, I will be happy if that happens but I don’t have any hopes, I think Rohit bach gaya, he and Armaan will both keep mum about his involvement 😡

Originally posted by: Mehersudha

bacha mera hi is abheera pov in her denial mode to accept truth. Out of character she is doing boli na

lol, bechari doesn’t know yrkkh ki FL ke liye yeah out of character nahin hai 😂

I wonder agar baby girl hoti tou bhi Ruhi itna hi pagal hoti....

Originally posted by: Krinya

Rohit won't be spared , most probably his truth will also be out ..acha hai daily kalesh hoga

Originally posted by: yum_immy

Exactly. Ruhi k character ki sabse bari problem yehi hai ke she doesn't know how to let things go.

Glad someone agrees. Ruhi might not show that she took the rejection hard because she wants to be seen as the good one—and she's not wrong for wanting that. However, deep down, she struggles with the need to be someone who always does the right thing and appears virtuous, even if it comes at the cost of suppressing her true feelings.

Ruhi wants to show that she is good because she craves acceptance and validation, especially from those around her. Having grown up with the guilt of indirectly causing her mother's death, even though she doesn’t fully know the truth, Ruhi feels a constant need to prove herself as worthy and virtuous. It's her way of compensating for the underlying shame she subconsciously carries.

However, her animosity toward Abhira stems from complex feelings of jealousy and insecurity. Ruhi has always wanted what Abhira seems to have—love, attention, or even opportunities Ruhi feels were denied to her. She struggles to reconcile her desire to be "good" with the resentment she harbors. This internal conflict makes her actions toward Abhira hypocritical, as she outwardly projects goodness but secretly resents her cousin.