Yeh Rishta Kya Kehlata Hai 09Dec’24 Written Update, Episode Discussion - Page 31

Originally posted by: theromanticcrap

I don't know how Ruhi will get to know the truth about Akshara, but yes when she'll know probably then she'll get a closure and let go of her hatred for Abhira. I don't know how she'll get to know because only the makers will know that. Abhimanyu knew the truth but he is dead. Who else knows? I've not watched every episode of Gen 3 so idk.

But Abhir is also Akshara's son. Tou uss se nafrat kiu nahi kar rhi Ruhi? Uske pass tou baji ko sympathy lena jana hai. If all this evilness kf hers is due to her hatred for Akshara then it should apply to Abhir aswell na why this hypocrisy

Originally posted by: Indira1211

look none of us wanted baby track so quickly ..it was thrown on top of us. We were still waiting for honeymoon and suhaagraat etc..and abhira becoming a high flying lawyer ..🤷🏻‍♀️.’but they started that infertility track..then taunts and curses. And then pregnancy. And BSP changed everything..abhimaan will never be themselves again if they don’t get this baby. They’ll be crying and miserable with Ruhi making their life hell. So better the baby be theirs..then he can grow up with his family..and abhimaan can be happy again. Armaan hasn’t been happy since they told him BSP didn’t survive. And while Daksh is raised with the family. Other tracks can be brought for abhimaan ..and we also can move on. This baby track needs to wrap up.. otherwise it’s going to go back to that pre pregnancy story of vile Ruhi taunting abhira and making her life miserable..

You’re not wrong, but I see it differently. Just because someone is taunting you doesn’t mean you should want something that might never happen or isn’t right for you. Having a baby isn’t the only important thing in life. A child shouldn’t be born just to fulfill societal expectations, family pressure, or to prove something. A baby should come into the world because of love—and if not that, at least be loved unconditionally once they’re here.

I know AbhiMaan’s baby was born out of love, but having a child shouldn’t be treated as a priority. That’s why I agreed with Armaan when he wanted Abhira to consider an abortion. Abortion isn’t wrong; it can be the most logical and compassionate decision in certain situations. Bringing a child into the world only to lose their mother soon after is heartbreaking—not just for the baby, but for the father and the family as well.

When there are options like adoption, IVF, or surrogacy, why choose a path that leads to so much pain? Abhira wanting to have a baby knowing she wouldn’t live to raise it was, in my opinion, a flawed decision. Yes, the intention—to bring a baby into a world full of love—was beautiful. But what about the aftermath? Leaving the baby behind?

Going back to PH without BSP would be hard for both AbhiMaan, but time heals all wounds. They can heal and have their own child later, when the timing and circumstances are right—not to prove a point or compensate for anything, but simply because they want to share a part of themselves with the world.

Originally posted by: yum_immy

But Abhir is also Akshara's son. Tou uss se nafrat kiu nahi kar rhi Ruhi? Uske pass tou baji ko sympathy lena jana hai. If all this evilness kf hers is due to her hatred for Akshara then it should apply to Abhir aswell na why this hypocrisy

Let’s not forget, Abhir is a part of Abhimanyu too. Abhimanyu wasn’t just Ruhi’s poppy—he was someone she loved deeply, especially since she never got the chance to know her own father. For a year, Abhir and Ruhi even lived as siblings, sharing a bond and a history that can’t be erased.

Ruhi’s hatred for Abhira isn’t just about Aarohi’s death or Akshara’s choices. It’s also rooted in Armaan rejecting her love. That rejection, combined with everything else, has left her with so much unresolved pain and bitterness, which she unfairly directs at Abhira. It’s a mix of hurt, jealousy, and grief all tangled together.

.

Originally posted by: theromanticcrap

Let’s not forget, Abhir is a part of Abhimanyu too. Abhimanyu wasn’t just Ruhi’s poppy—he was someone she loved deeply, especially since she never got the chance to know her own father. For a year, Abhir and Ruhi even lived as siblings, sharing a bond and a history that can’t be erased.

Ruhi’s hatred for Abhira isn’t just about Aarohi’s death or Akshara’s choices. It’s also rooted in Armaan rejecting her love. That rejection, combined with everything else, has left her with so much unresolved pain and bitterness, which she unfairly directs at Abhira. It’s a mix of hurt, jealousy, and grief all tangled together.

.

Yup agreed! I just hope that Ruhi’s kaands are exposed aswell to the family.

Ruhi can't see ab as her sister... till she heals she wants nothing

to do with ak ...

Ruhi was over armaan since that wedding day she genuinely grew to bond with abheera she moved on ...she won't like armaan anymore he's her past ... ruhi fell in love ig ... armaan rejected her so she could have taken revenge when she was acting nice ... like they showed ab ir like ... ruhi literally loved ab for 3 mths

Why should her kaands be exposed so late till she goes behind ar no Kaanapali needn't be exposed

Originally posted by: PoojaaNair

Ruhi can't see ab as her sister... till she heals she wants nothing

to do with ak ...

Please read the comments carefully. I answered that later.

Originally posted by: PoojaaNair

Ruhi was over armaan since that wedding day she genuinely grew to bond with abheera she moved on ...she won't like armaan anymore he's her past ... ruhi fell in love ig ... armaan rejected her so she could have taken revenge when she was acting nice ... like they showed ab ir like ... ruhi literally loved ab for 3 mths

Ruhi might’ve tried to move on from Armaan, but trying isn’t the same as actually letting go. Deep down, she still subconsciously blames Abhira for losing Armaan. When Abhira’s parentage was revealed, it triggered that part of her again—the part that holds Abhira accountable for all her miseries. It’s like all the unresolved anger and pain she tried to bury came rushing back, making her project her frustrations onto Abhira even more.

Originally posted by: PoojaaNair

Why should her kaands be exposed so late till she goes behind ar no Kaanapali needn't be exposed

Its not about being exposed late or early. Its about bearing the consequences for her actions which she never got to do. She has done alot of things whether they were in the past or in the present. Its not about going after Ar. Same goes for Rohit. He should also come forward and accept that he was equally part of this whole bacha exchange program.