Am I the only one who has started disliking the leads? - Page 6

Originally posted by: fangirl1012

I would say Kartik was more of a bacha chor in season 2 since he legit snatched the kid. Here Rohit handed him the kid despite Armaan saying no multiple times. Even now he wants to tell but Rohit always stops him and incites fear for Abhira’s health.

Also I disagree that Abhira only sees women as baby making machine and is perverted. She is a new mom and just desperate. Tbh they should have shown her using formula instead of begging Ruhi. She is a bit delusional thought she thinks that Ruhi helping the baby would help her heal but its far from the truth. Her intentions aren’t bad though.

Lol...rohit isn't holding armaan at gun point to not tell about the baby.

What is this up with "rohit not allowing armaan to tell the truth" . Rohit doesn't have that much influence on armaan to actually influence him to change his decisions. If telling the truth was really Armaan's will he would have told it long long back. Agreeing to Rohit's idea was his own free will and not Rohit's influence.

Abheera is perverted, howcome becoming a mother or anything exempts her from basic human decency. Being desperate doesn't give her a free pass to ogle other women's bodies as milk giving machines.

Originally posted by: Pixie-Dust

Lol...rohit isn't holding armaan at gun point to not tell about the baby.

What is this up with "rohit not allowing armaan to tell the truth" . Rohit doesn't have that much influence on armaan to actually influence him to change his decisions. If telling the truth was really Armaan's will he would have told it long long back. Agreeing to Rohit's idea was his own free will and not Rohit's influence.

Abheera is perverted, howcome becoming a mother or anything exempts her from basic human decency. Being desperate doesn't give her a free pass to ogle other women's bodies as milk giving machines.

Best is Armaan sa rejecting Ruhi and her love, but stealing her baby to keep his love happy and taking selfie with someone's baby!!!

🤣😂🤣

And telling his brother, that Ruhi's pain is big..

What a joke this toffee sa has become!!! 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️

He is biggest dhabba as a ML.

Originally posted by: JustaFan13

Best is Armaan sa rejecting Ruhi and her love, but stealing her baby to keep his love happy and taking selfie with someone's baby!!!

🤣😂🤣

And telling his brother, that Ruhi's pain is big..

What a joke this toffee sa has become!!! 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️

He is biggest dhabba as a ML.

That armaan is villain , I am not even kidding. What else can these traits and acts are attributable to. Just because his spineless act is posing as a temporary relief for abheera, doesn't mean that he isn't a villain.

Originally posted by: Pixie-Dust

Lol...rohit isn't holding armaan at gun point to not tell about the baby.

What is this up with "rohit not allowing armaan to tell the truth" . Rohit doesn't have that much influence on armaan to actually influence him to change his decisions. If telling the truth was really Armaan's will he would have told it long long back. Agreeing to Rohit's idea was his own free will and not Rohit's influence.

Abheera is perverted, howcome becoming a mother or anything exempts her from basic human decency. Being desperate doesn't give her a free pass to ogle other women's bodies as milk giving machines.

Yeah but it wasn’t Armaan’s idea to begin with. His brother literally handed him the child saying I can’t take care of him please look after him so he did sort of influence Armaan to agree. Also how is Abhira perverted is something that I still don’t get people do actually donate breast milk in real life. So many moms posts on mom forums looking for milk for their babies who are in NICU or if they don’t have breast milk coming in themselves. Sometimes even when you adopt and you have someone in the family who is breastfeeding the adopted child is breastfed by that women. My mom’s friend was breast fed by her own mom’s sister in law. Would you call all these women perverted as well?

Nah not a villain he is flawed but he didn’t snatch away the baby. Rohit tbh is more of a villain for just handing out his child like Halloween candy.

The bigger joke is Ruhi’s own husband not trusting her motherly instincts enough to hand out his child like a piece of Halloween candy. Armaan is a clown for accepting too but Rohit tbh is the bigger fraud why did he hand over his own child. He could have just entrusted Abhira to care for the baby until Ruhi recovers or he could have looked after the baby himself there are loads of helping hand in the house.

This isn't even a reason that rohit stopped armaan to tell the truth. Rohit doesn't have that much influence on armaan to alter Armaan's decisions or change his path of action. Had armaan been a healthy personality, he wouldn't have agreed to trade a baby, it's his immoral demeanor that he agreed to it in the very first place.

As for love , armaan doesn't love even abheera. Love is all about wanting the spritual betterment of the other person and being a genuine well wisher , that's it. Armaan stealing someone's baby and giving it to abheera isn't love. Even parents in their heights of desperation won't resort to doing crimes for their children.

Couples do suffer miscarriage but still hold on to each other and come out stronger in their love , they don’t resort to bachca chori because no trauma can be a justification to such crimes.

Originally posted by: fangirl1012

Yeah but it wasn’t Armaan’s idea to begin with. His brother literally handed him the child saying I can’t take care of him please look after him so he did sort of influence Armaan to agree. Also how is Abhira perverted is something that I still don’t get people do actually donate breast milk in real life. So many moms posts on mom forums looking for milk for their babies who are in NICU or if they don’t have breast milk coming in themselves. Sometimes even when you adopt and you have someone in the family who is breastfeeding the adopted child is breastfed by that women. My mom’s friend was breast fed by her own mom’s sister in law. Would you call all these women perverted as well?

How does it matter it was Arman’s idea or not. He agreed to it , he executed it , he is still currently carrying the plan of keeping baby and ruhi away from each other.

All those cases you have stated is when the women in question are themselves emotionally happy and consent to it. Asking in a forum is ok and so is donating milk.

But in abheera's case she solely sees ruhi as someone with milk , paying no heed to her traumatised state. A women's state of mind should be prioritized and noticed first rather than the milk that she carries ,this applies to all onlookers whether man or woman.

Originally posted by: fangirl1012

Nah not a villain he is flawed but he didn’t snatch away the baby. Rohit tbh is more of a villain for just handing out his child like Halloween candy.

A very straightforward forward question- what exactly does come under villainy if not this act of snatching the baby from its mother. Stealing a newborn from It's mother is already among the worst of the crimes. Only an unhealthy and emotionally corrupt person can execute and indulge in such kind of malpractices, period.

Great post! I am not very regular watcher of this show - in fact I started watching a bit after Abhinav's entry in last generation and was totally in love with his bond with his adopted son. So, the main leads of last generation did not matter much though I caught on the backstory (my knowledge is incomplete and frankly a bit biased)- I stopped watching as Abhir being taken away from Abhinav was painful for me being a Mom of adopted daughter.

In this generation I liked Abhira more than everyone else from the beginning though I occasionally hated the mouthiness when she could have stayed aloof and focused on her studies. But she was still endearing. Now I just don't know. Usually we tiptoe around people with such a big loss as we don't know what to say or do to make them feel better - here despite being told not to, Abhira is being super insensitive to someone at the time of an extremely painful loss. If we didn't know Abhira, it would actually look intentionally cruel.

I disliked Armaan's behaviour with Ruhi, how he remained confused and indecisive for so long. He was not a baby to write Shiv Shakti and not understand what that implied, so at least till that point he was completely on board with her. Anyways, I got over my dislike later, partly because it was genuinely difficult to sympathize with Ruhi.

But now when I saw the character last after baby stealing track, all I felt was a deep disgust and hatred for him. Rohit was a victim in the beginning, then a somewhat pitiful character being fooled by his wife, now he has one upped her in being vile. I have lost all enjoyment in this show - lurking on this forum hoping Ruhi gets her child back even if she is thrown out of the house for her earlier mistakes. Don't care about what happens to anyone else and don't have the stomach to continue watching.