Originally posted by: Krinya
Not denying anything she did in the past..but for me , anyone on the path of redemtion must be given a chance ...if ruhi makes a u turn again n tries to break armans rishta , she will be bk on my hit list ..
What I was trying to say is , there's no control over ones feelings..the heart wants what it wants ..ruhi crossed the line ..in her insecurity, jealousy & obsession , she failed to see that Arman doesn't love her ...she failed to see the obvious..Arman chose his family over her , he chose rohit over her , then he chose abhira over her ...toh no point in running behind such a man expecting him to reciprocate her feelings ...in all this , arman is also a tad bit responsible for not keeping things clear cut between them (as he is doing now ) ..
Ruhi not only understands arman , her judgement on everyone is quite accurate...that's why she was one step ahead of abhira ..she failed in her last ditch attempt but she cud very well see where things r going ...
I know nobody will like it but her assessment on abhira Arman relation , after he ditched her at mandap , was also very accurate...that doesn't mean abhiman is set up for failure...if they know their weaknesses , they must work upon it n make sure issues don't crop up bec of that ...
Ye sab abhira ko khud sochna chahiye tha..she should be introspecting ..
Im Not saying I want ruhi near arman.
why would i
..they can bring a nice guy for ruhi ..I'm all for it ...Arman loves abhira so no point in re introducing the triangle ..it's over
Yeah I got your point in first post itself..
I am also saying that ruhi is redeemable and have scope of a very good character growth and arc..
If they truly address the wrongs she did, she can very well be a nice character like right now Armaan is...
See the flawed character had that scope..
@B- babe I have already commented long time back that I agree with ru's take on ar-ab relationship😂😂😂so its not nobody, its you and me who believes her take...
And I somehow feels that it was not just for dialogue sake...that was due to some strong reason...
They will show it materializing in their story..
What she said to ar that shanti uske sath ati hai jiske sath soch or values milein, she was completely right..
She said to ab ki armaan is a seedha serious family oriented guy not like you career oriented...
She was again right..
I understand one thing and its very simple that if I make a guy tomorrow my bf and he says to me you would have to left your job if I gets a better one at better city...and I would say ki nhi mein nhi chodungi job so what we will decide ki okay we have to break up, as simple it is....
Aise toh hoga nhi ki mein use kahun ki nhi mein naukari nhi chodungi par shadi tumse hi karni hai toh tum sacrifice kar dena..
Kyun bhai mein kaun hoti hoon yeh kehne vali...
If my career is important to me than that guy's career is important to him.
And in same way if he gets adamant ki nhi mujhe tumse hi shadi karni hai toh I would say ki thik hai apni opportunity tum chodo fir tumhein karni hai shadi toh..
If we equally wants to get married to eo than we will find a middle ground..
Yeh nhi ki mein ladki hoon toh bas equality hai toh meri hi chalegi...
There are certain things you had to find middle ground for.
One person alone can't bear respinsibility of a relationship which involves 2 people...
Edited by Nephy1 - 1 years ago
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