Yeh Rishta Kya Kehlata Hai 11th Jun 2024 Written Update and EDT - Page 19

Originally posted by: mili9

This girl who is several years younger than him has been acting and taking control of her life so maturelyI really liked the fact that she didn't cry more to show him any further emotions. It is a total waste of time and humiliating to show people like Armaan any emotions when they don't reciprocate or acknowledge them

Put the situation in reverse...,Armaan kya kya kar sakthe hai, no idea..Do theen function ka falooda banaya hoga..intentionally....Bade aaye Abhira ko immature kehnewaala

Originally posted by: Aashiqanafan

Kaveri's dialogues to Ar that we will never forget what u did today for family made my blood boil today but I have immense hope that her other dialogue "Today u proved u r Kaveri Poddar's grandson" will backfire on her big time. It is nothing to be proud about considering Ar already knows now how cunning she is and Ar will rethink about it and will not want to be Kaveri Poddar's grandson today.

Soon she may say tum toh tumhari papa se bhi do kadam aaghe nikal gaye ho

Originally posted by: viji2111

Roohi was always clear about her intentions. Whatever manipulation she did is not hidden from Armaan. He knows everything. He not even once thought about Roohi getting into a loveless marriage for the second time. The reason he gave for marrying Roohi is vidhya 😂.

Roohi should open her eyes and see this man will never be loyal to her. He can marry anyone for anyone but won't marry because he wants to.

And what have makers done with Roohi's character. She is so unrelatable and unlikeable. She is so blind in her so called that she is ignoring everything happening in front of her eyes. Pathetic she is.

@bold.... this is what makes me irritated with Armaan the most and I place the blame solely in Armaan's lap for Abhira's, his own and Rohit's difficulties.

When you look at it from a 3rd person's perspective, Roohi did everything in the open with Armaan's full knowledge. Whether it is marrying Rohit or wishing for Rohit not to come back once he eloped, to staying in the PH for Armaan under the guise of sambhaloing the family, to humiliating and ridiculing Abhira, every single one of her important kaands, he is privy of. So, I don't think there is anything else he needs to know which would be a surprise for him. There are many things which border on immorality and crossed the line which she(and him) had done, ONLY he knows- such as physical proximity, or both of them trying to write Shiv-Shakti or serving divorce papers with intention of deleting Abhira from the equation, to wanting whatever the " middle ground" isbetween SIL-BIL. She may have faked concern, manipulated the family and spoke abject lies, BUT he knew every one of her ulterior motives behind her each action. So, Ruhi and her personality, there is nothing new he needs to know. Why he calls her acchi and pyari, only he knows.

The only revelation about Charu's affair and motive behind that he is not privy of, but does this really matter in the grand scheme of things???? Because whatever she had done, he ran with it and had multiplied it n number of times with his ridiculous behavior towards Abhira.

Don't get me wrong, I can't stand Ruhi, but when it comes to Abhira, Rohit or himself, Ruhi and her actions are irrelevant , had he not enabled them. When you look at it objectively, Ruhi has neither any responsibility nor allegiance towards his family, Rohit or Abhira. All these people are his responsibility and he let them get manipulated, humiliated, ridiculed and shooed away All happened with his full knowledge. To a certain extent, he used Abhira as a decoy to hide his equation with Ruhi

In the same way, I don't fault him for Ruhi's life or her delusional thinking. She could have declined the wedding wtih Rohit. If she went along with it, she could have changed to at least some cordial and conducive behavior towards Rohit as a first step. Which girl or woman in the right mind would vie for a married man to break his marriage and come to her? What is a " deal marriage"? How is she so sure that a deal marriage would always remain a " deal marriage"? During this one year or proximity, anything could have happened and the deal couple would have become " real parents"

I have no sympathy either for Ruhi or Armaan. I would love for them to cry buckets while Abhira dusts herself and starts walking her life like a queenI loved how composed she was yesterday at the end of the episode, no hyper-emotionality, crying, extreme dard or sarcasm. She simply seemed like she is done processing, she took it in her stride and is very matter of fact. She also didn't shy away from showing her affection towards him

Another reason I don't feel much of anything for Armaan is that he has a whole army of people coddling him (for real or fake), unlike Abhira who had to struggle even to survive on the streets, her physical needs along with her emotional needs while the guy and family bludgeoned her. There is no comparison between what they have and are going through in my mind. I won't talk about his upbringing etc. as I don't understand that at all

Ready for chappals, tomatoes and eggs

I agree entirely. You have hit the nail on the head

I can understand that Armaans conditioning is such that guilt is a big driving factor in his life but he has gone overboard with it and he does things impulsively without considering consequences. This is completely against his outward persona of cool, calm, collected guy. He's actually easily manipulated and impulsive if right buttons are pushed.

He gave Ruhi too much leeway without any thought

Its impossible to understand how he has tagged her as acchi, sacchi bff after knowing her intentions.

He really needs to snap out of the Ruhi is devi mode and recognize that if he's choosing Abhira for real and not out of charity then he needs to evolve.

Now also if he doesn't behave with clarity, draw clear boundaries for Ruhi then he doesn't deserve Abhira

When I watch stand alone scenes, RoPu looks really sincere, he's HOT, he does the angst really well and therefore I do root for Abhimaan but should not happen too easily. He needs to correct his wrongs, he needs to be worthy.

Originally posted by: Pinecone

I agree entirely. You have hit the nail on the head

I can understand that Armaans conditioning is such that guilt is a big driving factor in his life but he has gone overboard with it and he does things impulsively without considering consequences. This is completely against his outward persona of cool, calm, collected guy. He's actually easily manipulated and impulsive if right buttons are pushed.

He gave Ruhi too much leeway without any thought

Its impossible to understand how he has tagged her as acchi, sacchi bff after knowing her intentions.

He really needs to snap out of the Ruhi is devi mode and recognize that if he's choosing Abhira for real and not out of charity then he needs to evolve.

Now also if he doesn't behave with clarity, draw clear boundaries for Ruhi then he doesn't deserve Abhira

When I watch stand alone scenes, RoPu looks really sincere, he's HOT, he does the angst really well and therefore I do root for Abhimaan but should not happen too easily. He needs to correct his wrongs, he needs to be worthy.

Pine ji, agree with this. It is only the actor who is making me bear with this character at all. He comes across as a sincere and honest guy. I feel really bad erupting on the character when I see the actorPoor guy, bali ka bakra lagta hain.

For all the zimmedaari jaap about Abhira, when you actually look at it, it seems like he only took zimmedaari of Ruhi seriously. This is at the expense of Rohit and Abhira. He covered up all of her actions, when he knew exactly what and who she is after. I can't believe which writer conceptualized Armaan's character, and that it is OK to do what Armaan did to his brother Yuck, this writer needs to have his brain checked out

Ya somehow all zimmedari, karz, ehsaan is only for Poddars and Ruhi. He has forgotten Abhira has no one except him.

While I would not want Abhimaan relationship to be based on ehasaan, obligation etc- but sometines it looks like if Abhira also guilt tripped him, she'd not have become his punching bag.

Originally posted by: pyar-ishk

Gosh imagine the future war of Gen 4 & 5 and 3 will take

a break dependent on what side they're on and watch tamasha

while eating their favorite snack

In the end I say

We'll stick with Armaan and have fun abusing him

Originally posted by: mili9

@bold.... this is what makes me irritated with Armaan the most and I place the blame solely in Armaan's lap for Abhira's, his own and Rohit's difficulties.

When you look at it from a 3rd person's perspective, Roohi did everything in the open with Armaan's full knowledge. Whether it is marrying Rohit or wishing for Rohit not to come back once he eloped, to staying in the PH for Armaan under the guise of sambhaloing the family, to humiliating and ridiculing Abhira, every single one of her important kaands, he is privy of. So, I don't think there is anything else he needs to know which would be a surprise for him. There are many things which border on immorality and crossed the line which she(and him) had done, ONLY he knows- such as physical proximity, or both of them trying to write Shiv-Shakti or serving divorce papers with intention of deleting Abhira from the equation, to wanting whatever the " middle ground" isbetween SIL-BIL. She may have faked concern, manipulated the family and spoke abject lies, BUT he knew every one of her ulterior motives behind her each action. So, Ruhi and her personality, there is nothing new he needs to know. Why he calls her acchi and pyari, only he knows.

The only revelation about Charu's affair and motive behind that he is not privy of, but does this really matter in the grand scheme of things???? Because whatever she had done, he ran with it and had multiplied it n number of times with his ridiculous behavior towards Abhira.

Don't get me wrong, I can't stand Ruhi, but when it comes to Abhira, Rohit or himself, Ruhi and her actions are irrelevant , had he not enabled them. When you look at it objectively, Ruhi has neither any responsibility nor allegiance towards his family, Rohit or Abhira. All these people are his responsibility and he let them get manipulated, humiliated, ridiculed and shooed away All happened with his full knowledge. To a certain extent, he used Abhira as a decoy to hide his equation with Ruhi

In the same way, I don't fault him for Ruhi's life or her delusional thinking. She could have declined the wedding wtih Rohit. If she went along with it, she could have changed to at least some cordial and conducive behavior towards Rohit as a first step. Which girl or woman in the right mind would vie for a married man to break his marriage and come to her? What is a " deal marriage"? How is she so sure that a deal marriage would always remain a " deal marriage"? During this one year or proximity, anything could have happened and the deal couple would have become " real parents"

I have no sympathy either for Ruhi or Armaan. I would love for them to cry buckets while Abhira dusts herself and starts walking her life like a queenI loved how composed she was yesterday at the end of the episode, no hyper-emotionality, crying, extreme dard or sarcasm. She simply seemed like she is done processing, she took it in her stride and is very matter of fact. She also didn't shy away from showing her affection towards him

Another reason I don't feel much of anything for Armaan is that he has a whole army of people coddling him (for real or fake), unlike Abhira who had to struggle even to survive on the streets, her physical needs along with her emotional needs while the guy and family bludgeoned her. There is no comparison between what they have and are going through in my mind. I won't talk about his upbringing etc. as I don't understand that at all

Ready for chappals, tomatoes and eggs

💯 For the post. I liked Roohi when the show started but can't stand her delusional love and desperation for a man who she knows is not interested in her.

And Armaan, he promised his brother's wife that he would love her for the whole life and nobody wcan replace her. He knew she married his brother because she wanted him to be in front of his eyes.

Rohit and Abhira are the innocent ones not these two.

Originally posted by: firewings_diya

sab moh maya hai

Originally posted by: Susi26

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