Family matter vs couple’s personal matter: Abhira 😁

Joint family mai 10-20 log sath rehte hote hai , unn mai 3-4 couple hote hai and har couple ke apne up-downs hote hai.

Joint family mai grocery , property, house maintenance, house maids salary , electricity bills yeh sab family matter mai aata hai , ek couple ke personal up-downs family matter mai nahi aate hai.

Sabko pasand nahi aata koi dusra unke marriage life ke up-downs ko fix karne ki try kare specially woh jinke sath unki ghar mai banti na ho. Same case yaha vidya ka hai. Usko apni up-down wali marriage life ke matter mai abhira ka bolna pasand nahi aa raha hai.

Ab jiski marriage life hai usi ko abhira ka bolna pasand nahi aa raha hai toh abhira ko unke rishte ko fix karne ka theka lena chod dena chahiye.

ITV ki female lead ki yehi problem hoti hai ki inko puri duniya ka theka lena hota hai.
Chalo pehle abhira ka pata nahi hoga ki vidya ko uska uski marriage life mai bolna pasand nahi hai lekin ab toh vidya ne clearly bol diya na ki bhai tum meri up-down wali shaddi ke matter mai na pado toh abhira ko ab unka theka nahi lena chahiye and unka rishta fix karne ka bhoot jo uss par savar hai usko bhoot ko bhi utar dena chahiye. Khud ko force kar ke abhira ko bhi kya milega!!!

Dadi abhira ko society ki wajah se ghar mai chahti thi , Madhav ko abhira as a Armaan ki wife pasand hai isiliye usne usko ghar lane ki zidd kari, yaha dadi and Madhav ka abhira ko wapas Poddar house bulane ka agenda clear hai.
Abhira ne bhi apna Poddar house return hone ke piche ek agenda set kiya like fixing Madhav-vidya ‘s marriage kyunki Madhav was ready to leave his house/wife for abhira. Lekin twist yeh hai ki Madhav ki biwi ko abhira ka uni up-down wali shaddi mai kuch bhi bolna pasand nahi aa raha hai so ab abhira ko apna agenda chodna padega lekin abhira ko lagta hai ki yeh couple matter nahi family matter hai usne puraa theka le kar shaddi fix karne ka mann bana liya hai chahe force he sahi

Help ek baat hoti hai , lekin joint family mai agar dusra couple, dusre parents nahi chahte ho toh husband-wife , dusro ke bacche inn sab ke matters se durr rehna chahiye. Aisa nahi hota ki mai joint family mai shaddi kar ke ayi hu so ab koi couple chahe ya na chahe, koi parents chahe ya na chahe mai toh sabka theka lungi he lungi 🤣🤣🤣

Well written. Giving space to each and every relationship and person instead of forcing or intruding ones own pov on others. If Vidya is letting abhira into their relationship abhira can do it. Madhav is wanting it for his purpose to unite ar abhira. But he is not thinking of vidyas feelings hurt due to his breaking for his bahu. 26 yrs of shadi was dragged by them inspite of many hurdles. Vidya never failed as a mother or bahu and I feel as wife top tried a lot as per dialogues given. All that is kept in air by madhav just for a girl who came now . Madhav and abhira seem similar ziddi and do their manmani hurt others in that process. Initially abhira told madhav that you talk like my mother so similar types.

Ab ne just prove kiya she is a big hypocrite. Ruhi ko bolthi hai hum dono pati patni hai. Tum hothi kaun ho hamare beech main bolne wali. Hamara divorce karne wali.

But same ab wants to fix marriage between two ppl. If ruhi does not have rights to break marriage. Ab has no rights to mend marriage.

Madhav bhi faltu hai i read written update that madhav said pyaar ho hi jayega slowly. Usko hua vidya se pyaar? Vidya sacrificed everything but he can leave her for any xyz person. Vidya needs an accha aadmi more than ab. Madhav does not deserve vidya as he is still stuck with his past and thinks ar will start loving ab

Har kisi ki life mein ghusna.. problem solve karne ke bahane kaand karna aur pehli fursat mein bhag jaana bas yahi aata hai😅

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Vidya must be thinking ab will be one more madhav who can leave armaan for anything. She knows how a person like madhav who looks at every random stranger but ignored her from past 20+ years.

Even AB is such women who can go against armaan or his family for any XYZ person. Both choose anything else over family. Vidya even slapped ruhi for AB. But AB never felt like telling her truth on her marriage to Vidya.

I guess Armaan's mom was really a gold digger. But madhav does not know about it. Only Vidya and Dadisa knows. How rohith came god knows 😂 may be manisha chachi intoxicated them 😂 ab next turn Ar and Ab ka hai intoxicate karwao. SR karwao baccha karwao then they will be tied in this stupid marriage forever 😂

Originally posted by: Firefly_shines

Personal space ko respect karna na Akshara ko aata tha na uski beti ko… Har kisi ki life mein ghusna.. problem solve karne ke bahane kaand karna aur pehli fursat mein bhag jaana bas yahi aata hai😅

Originally posted by: Mehersudha

Well written. Giving space to each and every relationship and person instead of forcing or intruding ones own pov on others. If Vidya is letting abhira into their relationship abhira can do it. Madhav is wanting it for his purpose to unite ar abhira. But he is not thinking of vidyas feelings hurt due to his breaking for his bahu. 26 yrs of shadi was dragged by them inspite of many hurdles. Vidya never failed as a mother or bahu and I feel as wife top tried a lot as per dialogues given. All that is kept in air by madhav just for a girl who came now . Madhav and abhira seem similar ziddi and do their manmani hurt others in that process. Initially abhira told madhav that you talk like my mother so similar types.

Originally posted by: firewings_diya

Ab ne just prove kiya she is a big hypocrite. Ruhi ko bolthi hai hum dono pati patni hai. Tum hothi kaun ho hamare beech main bolne wali. Hamara divorce karne wali.

But same ab wants to fix marriage between two ppl. If ruhi does not have rights to break marriage. Ab has no rights to mend marriage.

Madhav bhi faltu hai i read written update that madhav said pyaar ho hi jayega slowly. Usko hua vidya se pyaar? Vidya sacrificed everything but he can leave her for any xyz person. Vidya needs an accha aadmi more than ab. Madhav does not deserve vidya as he is still stuck with his past and thinks ar will start loving ab

Armaan abhira dono ka life kharab kar raha hai Madhav abhira ko wapas ghar bula kar. Better hota Shanti se divorce ho gaya hota.

Originally posted by: Firefly_shines

Personal space ko respect karna na Akshara ko aata tha na uski beti ko… Har kisi ki life mein ghusna.. problem solve karne ke bahane kaand karna aur pehli fursat mein bhag jaana bas yahi aata hai😅

Charu -Dev ki love story ka waisa end nahi hua jaisa abhira chahti thi lekin Madhav-vidya case mai woh apni jaan laga degi chahe vidya ko pasand ho na ho

After all this is family matter and abhira Armaan ki wife hai so she has all the right to force herself in Vidya’s shaddi

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

Muje na vidya pasand hai and na he Madhav lekin yar har couple ka apna up-down hota hai , agar vidya ko pasand nahi hai toh kyun uski shaddi ko fix karne ka theka lena!!