Slap Justified? - Page 8

Ruhi was the real or permanent bahu of poddars, she got married to Ro with everyone's presence and happiness, her husband respected her and liked her, in laws treated her as their own but then also she decided to use Ro for her benefit i.e. to live close to Ar. Ar told her to marry Ro but she as a 29 year old can make her own decisions. Even standing with Ro she gave heart eyes to Ar.... And eventually (with Ar) became cause of Ro's death.

So a temporary - deal wali bahu is better though her marriage truth can make people sad or angry but atleast they'll not be dead or mia hearing about it.

Also when it comes to interfacing in others life....... every viewer knows who interfere in others life with ill intentions.

After Ro's supposed death she could pursue Ar only if he wasn't married. Ar is no less as he himself assures her and is 2 timing.

Even though their marriage is for 1 year Ru should maintain distance and behave sensible and not doing chindi harkat like stealing Ab's dupatta or bringing divorce papers without consulting the couple.

Originally posted by: Firefly_shines

I guess this debate will continue till this season remains.

A deal is a deal whether done verbally, on paper, with an eyewitness or in court. Both Armaan and Ab consciously took the deal. They both were adults, weren’t intoxicated or were held at gun point… just because they are leads and people wish to see their love story we can’t change the narrative as we want. Ab knew the consequences still made a deal so why it’s not her fault.. she could have accepted the marriage for life or stayed true to her words by not attaching herself to him or his family but she didn’t do both…. She got attached being fully aware she was breaking their trust, got the benefits of being Poddar bahu but still time and again stated it’s just a deal.

If Ab was a person true to her words and self righteous as she claims, one, she would have maintained distance from the family and two when Ruhi was being questioned or even before would have the guts to say that she has made a deal with Ar and after one year she will leave… but somewhere her heart knows had she done this she wouldn’t have gotten the little of respect she is getting now… But unfortunately Ab is both a hypocrite and coward… in a way it’s good only half truth was revealed yesterday because when the deal truth will come in front of the family, the same people who supported ab will brutally accuse her…

@bold they decided it's a deal of a year so they can also decide to stay together forever it's Abhira and Armaan's choice, how can she maintain distance from family when she is living with them? We develop a close bond with ppl we work with even for short duration how can she maintain distance from family she has to live with 24/7?

Khair, did adulteress Ruhi inform Poddars about her purpose behind marrying Rohit? How can she get the benefits of being Rohit's wife, being loved and accepted by all in the blink of an eye when she was marrying Rohit merely to stay close to Armaan? She tried to guilt trip and approach Armaan even when Rohit wasn't considered dead or he was there in her life.

What are the benefits of being Poddar bahu? Getting insulted, ridiculed, slapped (yes Abhira was also unintentionally slapped by dadisa) fighting for basic rights like education and career, and not being given a place to sit with family while having meals. These are the so-called privileges for Abhira being a Poddar bahu?

@red According to you Abhira is a hypocrite and coward according to me Ruhi is the worst third angle ever, haven't seen a more toxic desperate character with victim syndrome, adulteress (her marriage wasn't the deal marriage was it?) who has habit of roaming around her ex's room even eavesdropping outside his room & will keep throwing herself on her married ex, whose deal marriage isn't over yet, he is still Abhira's husband for three months even if we go by verbal contract, she wore Abhira's uttaran (Dupatta with Armaan's name) despite zero stand, empty promises and insults from Armaan (yeah he insulted her for Abhira) or slap from MIL, Ruhi won't stop her desperation. Will hypocrite and coward Ruhi ever reveal her intentions to marry Rohit was not to be a life partner to Rohit but to stay close to his brother Armaan in front of Poddars? Will she reveal that she asked him to swear on her that he will never love anyone apart from her thereby destroying the life of both of their sons? Will she ever grow the backbone to reveal her true intentions behind being a Poddar DIL? Will she tell them that she was staying in Poddar house even after Rohit was declared dead to fulfil her only one dream (obsession) of being Mrs Armaan Poddar after the deal marriage is over? Will she tell them she was staying not as Rohit's widow but as future Mrs. Armaan Poddar?

Was this topic about Abhira? I didn't create an Abhira bashing post/thread but ppl made it one. I think there is nothing to defend in Poppy's adoptive daughter so let's bash Abhira.

Originally posted by: Mehersudha

ar could have got her home as wife but said i am taking care of her till she is independent. She could not have been taunted by dadi for being bahu nor blames. Instead she was kept as guest at home and slowly when they all accepted her they could have married them properly with their blessings. Same way abhira could have not given tests like bahu and observed everything staying as member in family. Instead of making her fall for him or that mental family who are controlled by dadi or fufa she could have thought her only dreams of career and helped others who are in need. This family is waste one day they flip taunt throw.Another day they hug her. Most important was she can't get ruhis equation. And abhira told them as dost not ar any day.

This topic wasn't about Abhira.

Wow… this thread is going strong…. Loving many of your perspectives..

Little off topic, can Swarna actress comes up with a different face expression after seeing Ruhi’s harkaatey such as eying Armaan and running to Mussorie etc. How she is destroying 3 lives by being mute and perhaps wishing in her mind bad for Abhira’s marriage.

there are actually three who needs punishment in different ways, Ruhi (off course #1), Aarmaan (#1 jointly with Ruhi) and Swarna.

Another point from me, I know Rohit became really sad or Makers just made him too much sad for throwing this cringy EMA on us, I wish he was around. His departure created a monster pshycho like Ruhi. He should regret his decision and it’s affect on his family if he comes back.

Originally posted by: ShadowImbue

@bold they decided it's a deal of a year so they can also decide to stay together forever it's Abhira and Armaan's choice, how can she maintain distance from family when she is living with them? We develop a close bond with ppl we work with even for short duration how can she maintain distance from family she has to live with 24/7?

Khair, did adulterer Ruhi inform Poddars about her purpose behind marrying Rohit? How can she get the benefits of being Rohit's wife, being loved and accepted by all in the blink of an eye when she was marrying Rohit merely to stay close to Armaan? She tried to guilt trip and approach Armaan even when Rohit wasn't considered dead or he was there in her life.

What are the benefits of being Poddar bahu? Getting insulted, ridiculed, slapped (yes Abhira was also unintentionally slapped by dadisa) fighting for basic rights like education and career, and not being given a place to sit with family while having meals. These are the so-called privileges for Abhira being a Poddar bahu?

@red According to you Abhira is a hypocrite and coward according to me Ruhi is the worst third angle ever, haven't seen a more toxic desperate character with victim syndrome, adulterator (her marriage wasn't the deal marriage was it?) who has habit of roaming around her ex's room even eavesdropping outside his room & will keep throwing herself on her married ex whose deal marriage isn't over yet he is still Abhira's husband for three months even if we go by verbal contract, desperately wore Abhira's uttaran (Dopatta with Armaan's name) despite zero stand, empty promises and insults from Armaan (yeah he insulted her for Abhira) or slap from MIL. Will hypocrite and coward Ruhi ever reveal her intentions to marry Rohit was not to be a life partner to Rohit but to stay close to his brother Armaan in front of Poddars? Will she reveal that she asked him to swear on her that he will never love anyone apart from her thereby destroying the life of both of their sons? Will she ever grow the backbone to reveal her true intentions behind being a Poddar DIL? Will she tell them that she was staying in Poddar house even after Rohit was declared dead to fulfil her only one dream (obsession) of being Mrs Armaan Poddar after the deal marriage is over? Will she tell them she was staying not as Rohit's widow but as future Mrs. Armaan Poddar?

Was this topic about Abhira? I didn't create an Abhira bashing post/thread but ppl made it one. I think there is nothing to defend in Poppy's adoptive daughter so let's bash Abhira.

Bold - if Ab is so tortured at Poddar’s, who has stopped her to leave the house and go into a PG? Ab as a character is shown as someone who always does what she thinks is right… so she can leave the house, work par time and study… at least after Yuvraj being sent to jail, she could have left the house, if she genuinely felt insulted… but if after all the “tortures” she stays there then it’s on her.., and you just mentioned all the negative points as benefits - Madhav called her daughter, Manisha adores her, except dadisa and fufasa rest all have accepted her as bahu and give her that respect and status.. the cousins love her… Vidya gave her the traditional bangles… all her expenses are borne by Ar (in short Poddars)… they always give in to her demands and wishes… getting love warmth and respect is also benefits…don’t you think these are the benefits being Poddar bahu? Had she been in hostel or pg would she get these?

Originally posted by: ShadowImbue

Was this topic about Abhira? I didn't create an Abhira bashing post/thread but ppl made it one. I think there is nothing to defend in Poppy's adoptive daughter so let's bash Abhira.

Dude, I think because you supported Ruhi in this that's why they think you are part of Ruhi's fanclub or sth, and when you are part of Ruhi Birla's fanclub that means you have to write something to demean Ab as much as possible without any logical explanations

Originally posted by: Firefly_shines

firstly no one even a Ruhi fan denies she has not done mistakes… but Ruhi’s mistakes can’t be used as a justification for Abhira’s mistakes… 2 wrongs don’t make a right ma’am… whenever on any thread Abhira’s flaws are mentioned, people jump to write about Ruhi’s wrongdoings.. Ruhi is wrong so? Will it make Abhira right? Would it justify every anction every mistake she has done… atp all characters are flawed, with their own set of mistakes.. but it’s cheered only when one gets punished… if tomorrow ab gets slapped in Daru kaand, the same people will call it toxic… Physical violence is wrong no matter who the victim is…

Bold - if Ab is so tortured at Poddar’s, who has stopped her to leave the house and go into a PG? Ab as a character is shown as someone who always does what she thinks is right… so she can leave the house, work par time and study… at least after Yuvraj being sent to jail, she could have left the house, if she genuinely felt insulted… but if after all the “tortures” she stays there then it’s on her.., and you just mentioned all the negative points as benefits - Madhav called her daughter, Manisha adores her, except dadisa and fufasa rest all have accepted her as bahu and give her that respect and status.. the cousins love her… Vidya gave her the traditional bangles… all her expenses are borne by Ar (in short Poddars)… they always give in to her demands and wishes… getting love warmth and respect is also benefits…don’t you think these are the benefits being Poddar bahu? Had she been in hostel or pg would she get these?

@bold did I use the word "torture"? I said insulted and ridiculed I think, that also, I mentioned in reply to "privilege of being Poddar bahu" she is not given a place to sit with family members while having meals which is also true. Why would she leave the house because of Dadisa's insults or for not being able to have meals together with family? As there are people who genuinely adore her but that isn't because of the privilege of being Poddar's DIL but because of her efforts, she shares a separate bond with all of them.

Vidya saw history repeating. Arman's mom in Ruhi coming between Abhira (her) and Ar (Madhav)

It is obviously not justified but Vidya did lose her mind there. If it's anything Ruhi will run to her family and there can be an issue but here poor Ruhi can't open her mouth.

The foreshadowing game of Yrkkh

They'll have similar stories of their MIL, kirti had similar track of Akshara at places? Idk I remember something

Originally posted by: ShadowImbue

@bold did I use the word "torture"? I said insulted and ridiculed I think.

Aakho dekhi 4 cheezo ke grounds par ek 75 years around ki lady ka bina work ethics check kiye uske samne uske pote ko yeh bolna ki tum galat ka sath de rahe ho woh dadi ka bhi insult he tha. Uski mumma ki photo fadi ruhi ne, lekin jitna dekha wohi sach abhira ke uss nature ke hisab se usne dadi par attack kar diya, yeh bhi insult he tha.

The thing is abhira ne kafi baar jitna dekha wohi sach uss nature ke hisab se logo ka insult kiya hai being abhira.

Aisa bilkul nahi hai ki sirf one way insult and blames he chal raha hai unke ghar. Bahu ko ghar ke bahar sunlight mai khade rehne ka order dena, bahu par due to whatever reason hath uthana yeh action muje bhi bahot galat lagte hai. kuch bhi ho, kisi ko bhi kisi ke sath physical nahi hona chahiye i truly believe in that .

Inn sab ke sath muje yeh bhi lagta hai ki ekdusre ki insult karne mai sab same level par hai including abhira so she can't portray ki bhai yaha one way insult hota hai. Unke ghar ka kalesh roz hum bhi dekhte hai so acche se pata hai ki yaha koi ek mauka nahi chodta hai ekdusre ko blame kar dene ka ya indult kar dene ka

Originally posted by: JustAnEngineer

Vidya saw history repeating. Arman's mom in Ruhi coming between Abhira (her) and Ar (Madhav)

It is obviously not justified but she did lose her mind there. If it's anything Ruhi will run to her family and there can be an issue but here poor Ruhi can't open her mouth.

The foreshadowing game of Yrkkh

They'll have similar stories of their MIL, kirti had similar track of Akshara at places? Idk I remember something