Slap Justified? - Page 10

Originally posted by: Susi26

I think most of non Abhira fans have problem with her character and not because of her father. Example is me: I supported Akshnav after the leap because of my dislike towards previous ML for certain reasons. Logically I should support Abhira being their daughter, but I didn’t like her characterization. So I dont connect with her. I’m more connected to Ruhi because of previous season, but I don’t support her running behind Armaan. There are few legacy viewers who cannot connect with Abhira as her childhood was not shown and also because of her characterization.

Armaan and Rubi’s truth will definitely shock and rage the family members.. Armaan and Abhira’s marriage truth also disturbs the whole family. And Rohit if he returns he will blame Armaan only for not telling him about Ruhi.. so in any truth Armaan will be the one to be pointed out for this whole mess.

@bold I haven't seen most of the non-Abhira fans or yrkkh fans having problem with Abhira's character on different SM platforms except IF. There has always been a division and difference of opinions. In my opinion how can people defend characters like Ruhi/Armaan? But then we can't question preferences.

Originally posted by: ShadowImbue

@bold I haven't seen most of the non-Abhira fans or yrkkh fans having problem with Abhira's character on different SM platforms except IF. There has always been a division and difference of opinions. In my opinion how can people defend characters like Ruhi/Armaan? But then we can't question preferences.

No one has issues with Abhira, Abhira is getting praised everywhere, called one of the best Itv FLs and is lauded for her out of the box ways. And people rightly criticize her when she does something stupid, even her hardcore fans. But, she has not done even a single thing to warrant hatred.

edited for calling out fan groups

For every new legacy generation many people leave watching or start, and if talking about mass public opinion we can see comments under YT videos where Ru supporters or defenders are less then 1%.

The thing is people are liking current Ruhi only because they liked her as child whereas Ab is liked because her current character is good, though some are there who like her coz of her parents but are less.

Doesn't matter how they are as kids, only matters is how they are shown as adults. Best eg is Naksh who was a type of lead in s1 but was reduced to random sidey in s2.

Originally posted by: ShadowImbue

@bold I haven't seen most of the non-Abhira fans or yrkkh fans having problem with Abhira's character on different SM platforms except IF. There has always been a division and difference of opinions. In my opinion how can people defend characters like Ruhi/Armaan? But then we can't question preferences.

Originally posted by: Krinya

By what logic ?

I never liked akshnav frankly ..everything about s3 was shit , even if I liked some aspects of it ..eventually every character went down the drain (went down the hill literally ) ..there is nothing remotely likeable in the prev season ..

Nothing would stop me from liking ruhi if she earned it ..others are horrible than her & equally at fault doesn't make her less horrible ..ruhi is in this mess bec of herself . I have similar views on Arman.he ain't any good either for the same reasons..

Nothing would stop me from hating abhira if she was like that ...i mean i can have an opinion on her.....abhiras character makes me curious..she's like a Phoenix & I like such chars, till they are butchered of course ..she never had it easy..her moms death , yuvraj, unwanted marriage , sasural where nobody wanted her , husband who doesn't love her ..she still makes the best out of it , without any sulking and blaming fate or others for her misery..she tries to stay happy in that hell hole..except manisha chachi koi aur wahan khush dikhta bhi hai? In future if they Butcher her , I'll express it as it is..

I respect ur opinion on ruhi & abhira & enjoyed reading abt it ..it gave me another perspective ..cya around

Originally posted by: janecastle

No one has issues with Abhira, Abhira is getting praised everywhere, called one of the best Itv FLs and is lauded for her out of the box ways. And people rightly criticize her when she does something stupid, even her hardcore fans. But, she has not done even a single thing to warrant hatred.

edited for calling out fans & gen 3 talk

Originally posted by: firewings_diya

i have adopted can also mean in my family someone else is taking care of it.

And coming to your point when adopting dog itself is wrong then how come contract marriage for 1 year is right.

Why will it not hurt ppl. Everyone do not change their bahu every year. It's not a coroprate job where ppl switch you get replacements.

That's the difference between a family and colleagues. If in a family i am permanent bahu they should tolerate me may be and invest time in teaching.

But if i am not even permanent bahu why should they get troubled for my mistakes. Why should they tolerate my tantrums. Why should they forgive me for mistakes like blaming head of the family.

Regarding ruhi and armaan i don't know what's stopping them but they anyways do not poke their nose in other's buisness like how abhira does. They do not act like i am self righteous, they do not act like ye meri family and outside they don't scream i am all alone. Iss duniya main koi nahi hai. Since abhira is doing all this my expectation are more from when she can blabber abt ruhi she can very well blabber abt her marriage.

Wait

Isn't Ruhi doing all these things as you claim she isn't doing?

She keeps poking her nose in Abhira's matters, if Abhira supports someone she will just go against her and poke nose in that person's matters.

Don't she claims to be sensible, mature women and never things she is wrong.

Heck when she even apologize for all the nonsense she does. Last I saw when Abhira accused for photo fasico she apologized.

It is Ruhi who keeps crying about she has no one when she even has P Nanu and others too in her family about whom she don't care.

These all things are done by Ruhi.

I am super against slapping and all specially by In laws.

I want to support Ruhi but the shit that women does is just super horrible.

Fact is Ruhi is herself would be behind the bars for so many shit and her DV on Abhira.

Originally posted by: ShadowImbue

@bold Nobody thinks I like Ruhi because I spoke against her getting slapped, bashing Abhira's character is a habit. I can't support adulterers and women with zero self-respect and self-awareness.

Repeating the same arguments for "n" number of times. Atleast Ruhi gives a new reason to criticize her actions every single day but Abhira is criticized daily for the same rinse-and-repeat reasons for 4 months.

1- Deal marriage/Fake Marriage

2- Getting advantage of Poddars by not telling them about the one-year verbal deal marriage. She is privileged to be a Poddar bahu.

3- She must stay in PG as she has a job and leave Poddar's house to prove herself an independent woman.

4- Why is Abhira/Sam overpraised?

5- She went against Dadisa and then fought the case from both sides.

I have no problem with them for 'criticizing' Ab, but it's when they come up with illogical theories and explanations then it becomes a problem , like what about Ruhi Birla's rights and completely disregarding Ab's rights. Ruhi Birla is as much of a fraud as Ab (and more because her actions led to RoPod's death!).

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Originally posted by: Palak2812

Wait

Isn't Ruhi doing all these things as you claim she isn't doing?

She keeps poking her nose in Abhira's matters, if Abhira supports someone she will just go against her and poke nose in that person's matters.

Don't she claims to be sensible, mature women and never things she is wrong.

Heck when she even apologize for all the nonsense she does. Last I saw when Abhira accused for photo fasico she apologized.

It is Ruhi who keeps crying about she has no one when she even has P Nanu and others too in her family about whom she don't care.

These all things are done by Ruhi.

Abhira divorcing Armaan will free Armaan.

Abhira leaving will free Poddar's from a girl like abhira who will not even blink her eyes to blame them.

But when abhira is doing her work when she goes outside for her work i don't think ruhi has poked her nose except dadisa's matter.

Ruhi is only poking the nose where the impacted person is either Armaan or poddars.

Whereas Abhira wants Ruhi to get married. Abhira wants Ruhi to not to poke her nose in their contract marriage even after knowing Ruhi is chit wali gfs friend. So ideally his gf wants to know what she should do wait for him or move on.

If abhira was not in love post 1 year contract agar chitwali move on kargayi thab abhira nahi rukne wali armaan ke liye as at that point she made it clear it was contract marriage.

Just because Ab is in love chitwali should back off? They are in love as per narrative. Lovers ke beech main haddi toh abhira hai. Any woman who has dignity would have left home once she gets a job knowing Armaan has a gf and after seeing him hugging her in a sunsaan hut.

Abhira apologized only sometimes. Has she apologized for pushing Ruhi in the kitchen? Has she apologized for blasting at Ruhi for blaming her for breaking Murthi and even spoiling her boxes? Has she apologized to Phuphasa for saying he purposefully wanted to handicap his son?

When she has not done it many times ek baar se mujhe koi fark nahi padhega.

Regarding Ruhi, yes she is wrong but that will not make AB right.