Originally posted by: sharadrocks
When will three months end in Rishtaverse ? I don’t know if I should just check in then ..because they’ve dumbed down Abhira too now ..she knows Ruhi is in love with someone, she knows Ruhi brought the divorce papers and still she doesn’t have a shred of a doubt ? I don’t think it is anything but a case of wanting to believe something so badly that you don’t want to acknowledge anything to the contrary. She is in her own la la land and is convinced that Armaan reciprocates her feelings. So the next three months are going to be her blushing and dreaming while hopefully also completing her internship and getting her degree ? As appreciation for this feat, Armaan is going to present her with divorce papers and only then, her bubble is going to burst? And we signed up to watched three deluded people dancing around each other? Actually two deluded people only, Armaan is simply going with the flow, anything to keep him from taking a stand and doing the right thing by one woman or the other. We are going to watch him perform sacred rituals with a woman whom he intends to dump in three months. At least Abhira has started believing that this relationship is for a lifetime and so it makes sense for her to perform these rituals. Why would Armaan though, and why would he even touch her knowing he plans to divorce her in three months? What kind of a sorry specimen does that make him? Rather an immoral one? Maybe he thinks he’s said he will make the divorce papers when he wants and so Abhira should have been aware. Caveat emptor or buyer beware you know, read the fine print always. After this, I don’t think Abhira is even ready to be a lawyer, given how gullible she is. Maybe the blow he delivers is what is going to harden her up and make her a smart and hardened professional ? I sure hope so ..but with Abhira’s angst not being served either right now, why do I want a seat at this table ?
I, for one, am not blaming Abhira for anything.
This is just a big lesson for Abhira to not make decisions when you are in too much pain, sadness, fear, or happiness. Because your state of mind changes with time. Abhira is just a relevant example of that.
When Abhira spoke of the deal, she was in pain, with no one to trust and no intention of marriage or keeping it going. But with time, those thoughts have altered as she warmed up to Armaan and his family. Her current frame of mind is very happy and loving and she wants it to continue, even after 3 months. And she hasn't arrived at this conclusion suddenly.
It has taken 9 months of effort and work to build that comfort with Armaan, where he has fulfilled his duties as promised to her mother been a good companion, and hasn't crossed the line with her. Zimmedari means zimmedari. And he has fulfilled that bit.
Now, what Armaan is doing is deflecting again and again. She still asked him today to sign the DP. He tore it up and created a scene on that, for what?? Why hasn't he initiated a conversation on the future after 3 months with her?? Where will the relationship stand, how will they proceed, and what will she do after 3 months? Ye saari baatein ek "ZIMMEDAAR" insaan karta hai na?? So why hasn't that happened?
Armaan, being a 30+ guy, doesn't know the effect he has on a woman?? Can't he see her shift in body language? Isn't that also his "ZIMMEDARI" to ensure he doesn't give wrong signals to a growing 20+ woman?
Feelings grow, evolve, and change over time for human beings. And feelings cannot be controlled either.
Abhira is human, so she is experiencing it and that tends to shut off your alertness, unless you shaken out of it.
Armaan is in-hoo-man who has had no growth since last 9 months,he doesn't feel, he doesn't care, he doesn't change. He is feel-less, care-less, change-less, brain-less, heart-less. In short, he is just a pawan ka jhokha who just blows on his own free will from here to there, and thrives on false promises and counter-productive personality traits.
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