Yeh Rishta Kya Kehlata Hai 11th Mar 2024 Written Update and EDT - Page 8

Originally posted by: Pinecone

Armaan doesn't need to love Abhira yet. He can even be upset that she's fighting case.

But the way he behaves is not how one would be with a friend or someone they are unconsciously drawn to.

He should be happy seeing her genuine fikr for him but he's awkward. Seeing her handle the auto and prevent accident he should say thanks. But he doesn't. Hearing how genuinely she wishes well for Ruhi, he should feel touched or be surprised at her maturity- instead he's irritated and acting as if Abhira is wrong. Shes never insisted on approving the first guy they get and forcing Ruhi to marry. She's merely telling him to help Ruhi move on. Despite Ruhis rudeness, Abhira harbors no hate or ill will. And honestly if he doesn't have feelings for Ruhi anymore he should agree with Abhira. Why is he so angry with Abhira and yelling at her?! Itna restless and crazy kyun hai?! He can always say he approves Manav but final decision is Ruhis. Or he can say Manav is nice but not great for Ruhi. No one can crucify him for his opinion. And if he didn't want to get involved, he can easily come up with excuse. Why is he being a jerk to Abhira ?! How come he's more irritated atAbhira than Ruhi who has put him in this situation. And he's SO affected by Ruhi and getting involved in her matter that he didn't explain why he didn't meet Manav and neither did he make any excuse to avoid seeing him. He is SO lost in this issue that he can fall from stairs. He wasn't lost in Abhiras thoughts but Ruhi's. So while Abhira had accident while thinking about his harsh words, he was thinking about Ruhi but she saved him too. What kinda symbolism is that?!

Isnt ML supposed to get premonition about FL being in danger. But here he was lost in Ruhis thoughts.

Armaan pyaar kisse krta hai ye inki story ni hai.

He is overly responsible man. With no one in support. He is stressed right now. Hm stress me kisi ko thanks ni bol skte. He knows ki Abhira genuinely care krti hai. But he is not in the situation ki wo use thanks bole.

Even bed room scene me bi he didn't thank abhira. He just slept beside her on ground. He just asked why she showing care towards him when she did take the case against his family and him .

Originally posted by: Pinecone

Armaan doesn't need to love Abhira yet. He can even be upset that she's fighting case.

But the way he behaves is not how one would be with a friend or someone they are unconsciously drawn to.

He should be happy seeing her genuine fikr for him but he's awkward. Seeing her handle the auto and prevent accident he should say thanks. But he doesn't. Hearing how genuinely she wishes well for Ruhi, he should feel touched or be surprised at her maturity- instead he's irritated and acting as if Abhira is wrong. Shes never insisted on approving the first guy they get and forcing Ruhi to marry. She's merely telling him to help Ruhi move on. Despite Ruhis rudeness, Abhira harbors no hate or ill will. And honestly if he doesn't have feelings for Ruhi anymore he should agree with Abhira. Why is he so angry with Abhira and yelling at her?! Itna restless and crazy kyun hai?! He can always say he approves Manav but final decision is Ruhis. Or he can say Manav is nice but not great for Ruhi. No one can crucify him for his opinion. And if he didn't want to get involved, he can easily come up with excuse. Why is he being a jerk to Abhira ?! How come he's more irritated atAbhira than Ruhi who has put him in this situation. And he's SO affected by Ruhi and getting involved in her matter that he didn't explain why he didn't meet Manav and neither did he make any excuse to avoid seeing him. He is SO lost in this issue that he can fall from stairs. He wasn't lost in Abhiras thoughts but Ruhi's. So while Abhira had accident while thinking about his harsh words, he was thinking about Ruhi but she saved him too. What kinda symbolism is that?!

Isnt ML supposed to get premonition about FL being in danger. But here he was lost in Ruhis thoughts.

Yehi symbolism but it played parallel when he was going to fall abhira was also in danger

Originally posted by: Lostin90s

This lady got happy imagining ml hugged her in her own room when in reality it was her husband and took out her frustration on him……..yet she is deemed innocent by some.

Oh I remember that indecent woman scene

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AfkDbGgcWHE

Or the day she broke Rohit heart in their bedroom talking with that cheap wigwalia

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xnsuZ9l7uzE

I miss rohit, wish he wasn't a coward

Kya message hai that Ruhi will save him and he can be lost in Ruhi thoughts but Abhira will be hurt if shes lost in Armaan thoughts. It looked totally off.

Abhira called out his name when she was hit reflexly .

but he was lost in Ruhi thoughts and didn't call out Abhira's name reflexly assuming that the hand holding him would be Abhira.

Originally posted by: pyar-ishk

Oh I remember that indecent woman scene

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AfkDbGgcWHE

All the day she broke Rohit in their bedroom talking that cheap wigwalia

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xnsuZ9l7uzE

I miss rohit, which he wasn't a coward

Armaan k love at first sight k chakkar me ye khud bi fsa, and abhira and Rohit ko bi fsa Diya.

😭 Fmfir all 3 of them

He does not have to be a jerk just coz he's stressed. And if he is, it should be equal. How come he's not irritated at Ruhi but is angry at Abhira about Ruhi situation?!

Abhira is also stressed but she's not taking out gussa on Armaan.

And how many times will he accuse her of chori now?!

Originally posted by: Pinecone

I'd accept that he only feels guilty and doesn't wanna make wrong decision for Ruhi again if only that reflected in his behavior. Because if that were the case, he would do his best to make excuses and NOT be the one to have anything to do with approving Manav and he'd be irritated at Ruhi for putting him in such a position. After all her blame game for how badly things turned out for her after marrying Rohit on his insistence, she can't expect him to make a decision on her behalf again. She can very easily meet manav and refuse saying she doesn't want to marry him. Isn't she an adult?! And if Ruhi spoke up but was pressured, he can "help" her out as "friend". Instead he is deliberately taking the onus of Ruhis decision on himself. Why?! Its her decision to make and she's clear she doesn't want to marry. Instead of knocking sense into Ruhi that she should at least speak to the Manav dude herself before refusing, he is ok with putting himself in the middle of it all. he is becharifying Ruhi and irritated at Abhira who is extremely logical and well meaning as far as her opinion on Ruhi goes- this despite their equation being not great. Instead of appreciating Abhiras maturity and kindness he is annoyed. Why?!

Well here he is behaving like a teanager who is annoyed at his parents in his case Abhira for putting sense in them cause apparently we are adults. No they are not Ruhi ko humesha as a kid treat kiya gaya hain so expecting her to behave maturely is out of question. She doesn't know what is right for her. Armaan bhai iske kandhe par guilt ki potli hain. Har chiz ke liye guilty but he gets quite comfortable with that so if someone comes and say No Armaan it's not your fault he is not digesting it snapping at them cause In his opinion woh choti hain usse duniya dari ki samjh kaha hain.

Originally posted by: Dk_2024

Abhira ki suffering se kisi ko koi frk ni pdega except armaan. And he will make himself believe ki he is responsible and abhira is his responsibility. P House k log bure ni hai, but they don't love a person to that extent. Pyar whi hota hai Jo daadi and Vidya Rohit se krte hai.

I want armaan to go mad once abhira leave the house. And it will happen soon.

I know nahi padta par ye dil hain ki maanta nahi. Kya karu.

I just want ki kuch toh ho so story progress ho which is impossible for us.

Originally posted by: Lostin90s

This lady got happy imagining ml hugged her in her own room when in reality it was her husband and took out her frustration on him……..yet she is deemed innocent by some.

Arey look at her family history all this bumping over first husband and then keeping anither in heart has been there since her great grandmother’s time nothing new in this ..

He's being stupid and theres no excuses for it. Ruhis family would not wish ill on her. If he genuinely only wants to support her autonomy in making decisions that is different. He should be telling her to make decisions for her own life and speak up. Or at the very least acknowledge that she's immature and irresponsible if he is gonna let himself get dragged into it all. Its really ridiculous how he has allowed her to gaslight, manipulate and guilt trip him while also blaming him and he still calls her mature and samajhdaar but he thinks Abhira who is wise beyond her age and so sensitive and logical, highly independent - she is tagged as being immature. What the heck.

He himself is not moving on and wont tell ruhi to either.