Why be mad at Armaan? He is absolutely correct - Page 2

Originally posted by: Randomlurker

From the precap, I don't get the feel that Armaan is a little upset. I just feel he's just taken aback or feels a bit bad because he said to Abhira that she isn't his family, and she said she's only here for one year. I feel abhira feel little bit upset but I don't get that vibe from armaan hearing one year contract.

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Originally posted by: Aashiqanafan

It is true that it will take a whole lot for them to trully become family and it will be a good treat for the audience but to constantly remind each other is like putting salt on a wound and very petty specially on the part of Armaan as Abhira has no one in this world. Even if they do not end up being together after one year it is very insensitive to say blunt dialogues like that.

Tbh I think Abhira is getting attached. Her first episode - she always wanted a big family. Even if she tells herself that she is mehmaan etc etc, her deepest desire is to have a family like Armaan's and she got it. That's why she's getting so involved. So I am starting to not believe her words anymore. Having no one but Armaan and his family now, her actions feel like she does want to be part of the family.

Originally posted by: bangtanARMY

Tbh I think Abhira is getting attached. Her first episode - she always wanted a big family. Even if she tells herself that she is mehmaan etc etc, her deepest desire is to have a family like Armaan's and she got it. That's why she's getting so involved. So I am starting to not believe her words anymore. Having no one but Armaan and his family now, her actions feel like she does want to be part of the family.

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Originally posted by: Aashiqanafan

It is true that it will take a whole lot for them to trully become family and it will be a good treat for the audience but to constantly remind each other is like putting salt on a wound and very petty specially on the part of Armaan as Abhira has no one in this world. Even if they do not end up being together after one year it is very insensitive to say blunt dialogues like that.

Originally posted by: Nomadic_Vibe

They both constantly keep on reminding each other and themselves that they are not real husband and wife so Armaan alone is not to be blamed here. Also first they both took it in their stride not feeling bad when the words were being said but now it has started pricking them both. May be it's a sign of progress that they do care and feel hurt by this constant remainder about their marriage coming to end eventually which will culminate at the end as something of a volcano which will burst the dam of their feeling making them realize why are they crying for the person why are they feeling bad even if it's true

Armaan reminds and taunts without much provocation as in the precap and he said she is not family. The word family triggers a different emotions to Abhira because of her situation.

Abhira on the other hand tries to remind it as a means of coping against the bad behaviour that she daily faces from the Poddars. So they are slightly different.

Agree with you eventually they will end up hating these dialogues but as of now Abhira is the one of has started to feel some hurt and Armaan has not much impact. Though I feel like in initial days after marriage it was Armaan who was not fond of this deal and it was Abhira's initiative to start the deal and say such dialogues.

Originally posted by: Aashiqanafan

Armaan reminds and taunts without much provocation as in the precap and he said she is not family. The word family triggers a different emotions to Abhira because of her situation.

Abhira on the other hand tries to remind it as a means of coping against the bad behaviour that she daily faces from the Poddars. So they are slightly different.

Agree with you eventually they will end up hating these dialogues but as of now Abhira is the one of has started to feel some hurt and Armaan has not much impact. Though I feel like in initial days after marriage it was Armaan who was not fond of this deal and it was Abhira's initiative to start the deal and say such dialogues.

Agreed 100%

A slightly different perspective. It is Armaan who is sacrificing by being in this unwanted relationship. Abhira is still getting something out of it - safety and security. Armaan gets nothing - not even the time to mourn his lost love (it was love for him and he is not looking for Ema as shown in the show). He could have simply walked away saying no to Akshara but he did not. Akshara saved his life but he got into this whole mess also because he cared to help them. We don't blame Abhira for this because she is not responsible for Yuvraj's abducting her then how can we blame Armaan for Akshara's death when clearly Yuvraj is the culprit.

By Abhira's own admission, she is not his wife and by extension she is not his family.I absolutely hated Abhira interfering between Armaan and Rohit - I would hate it if I fought with my sister or best friend and my husband fought with them on my behalf, however well-meaning he might be and I would similarly respect his relationships and not pitch in unless asked. That whole drama was followed by Rohit leaving the family - which is a big thing. How was th

e family and Armaan wrong in lashing out at Abhira (esp since they know nothing about Armaan and Ruhi)? Every angry word is not abuse. And we should not use these words so lightly.

I love Abhira's cuteness (and I loved Abhinav earlier) but I absolutely hate all fls on itv who are busybodies going around telling the world how everyone should behave. As if they have a copyright on morality - and they justify and stick to their self righteousness even when asked to stay away. Why can't Abhira stick to her room and focus on studying, treat this home as a safe house? I understand her loss and loneliness as well as her need to have someone by her side in her extreme grief. But logically she has a higher chance of getting that support from Armaan as long as she does not intrude and pick fights with his family. And she can slowly build friendships in his family without all this drama - younger cousins anyways like her enough.

Originally posted by: fantasyshowfan

A slightly different perspective. It is Armaan who is sacrificing by being in this unwanted relationship. Abhira is still getting something out of it - safety and security. Armaan gets nothing - not even the time to mourn his lost love (it was love for him and he is not looking for Ema as shown in the show). He could have simply walked away saying no to Akshara but he did not. Akshara saved his life but he got into this whole mess also because he cared to help them. We don't blame Abhira for this because she is not responsible for Yuvraj's abducting her then how can we blame Armaan for Akshara's death when clearly Yuvraj is the culprit.

By Abhira's own admission, she is not his wife and by extension she is not his family.I absolutely hated Abhira interfering between Armaan and Rohit - I would hate it if I fought with my sister or best friend and my husband fought with them on my behalf, however well-meaning he might be and I would similarly respect his relationships and not pitch in unless asked. That whole drama was followed by Rohit leaving the family - which is a big thing. How was th

e family and Armaan wrong in lashing out at Abhira (esp since they know nothing about Armaan and Ruhi)? Every angry word is not abuse. And we should not use these words so lightly.

I love Abhira's cuteness (and I loved Abhinav earlier) but I absolutely hate all fls on itv who are busybodies going around telling the world how everyone should behave. As if they have a copyright on morality - and they justify and stick to their self righteousness even when asked to stay away. Why can't Abhira stick to her room and focus on studying, treat this home as a safe house? I understand her loss and loneliness as well as her need to have someone by her side in her extreme grief. But logically she has a higher chance of getting that support from Armaan as long as she does not intrude and pick fights with his family. And she can slowly build friendships in his family without all this drama - younger cousins anyways like her enough.

I agree Abhira had no business to meddle between the brothers. However, the way Vidya went at Abhira was definitely disgraceful. The poor girl got blamed for being an orphan. Everyangry word is not an abuse. That is why Armaan lashing at her is plain idiocracy because he isn't vile. While Vidya and Dadisa have always been unnecessarily mean to her as if her mother died all for getting Abhira married to Armaan.