@bold : Ofcourse Abhimanyu needs to realise he can get better and he deserves much better but the thing is abhir is also there in between them and as a parent I can truly feel that no matter what, no loving parent would like to stay as guest appearance in their own child’s life. This marriage will give him a chance to lead life as abhir’s father (not visiting father). Agar baat sirf Akshara tak hoti toh mai bhi self respect ko zyada weightage deti lekin yaha apne bacche ke sath reh kar usse raise karne ka mauka milega and woh apni self respect se bhi zyada khubsoorat pal hoga.Originally posted by: Indira1211
Aarohi is truly better and strong character than Akshara.
Strong character woh hota hai jisme apni galti manne ki takat ho aur jo apne ap par work kare.
Akshara / Anupama yeh sab jo Rajan shahi ki leads hai unn mai kisi mai bhi apni galti manne ki takat nahi hai aur na he apne ap par work karne ki takat hai. Akshara anupama yeh sab leads isiliye most insensitive lagti hai onscreen.For Abhimanyu’s self respect point , I truly believe abhinav did the same. He was craving for family so he grabbed the offer when got the offer to have family who can fill empty photo frames. He accepted her in any way possible…whether she loves him or not .. whether she had moved on or not.. abhinav happily accepted her and Abhimanyu’s child because he had craving of having family.
The thing is Akshara never take much time to move on from marriages just like her father kartik.[/ yes but when Abhinav married her…it was an arrangement..he wanted a family and she wanted a father for her kid..he didn’t love her or want her then..he wanted abhir.. the feelings developed afterwards. So they had a mutual need. So self respect didn’t come it at their time of marriage..as they both wanted something from it..but here abhimanyu declared undying love for akshara the other day and even when she was married to Abhinav and he knows she doesn’t love him..has been living with another man..has rejected him multiple times but he’s still wants to marry her. To me he’s lost his self respect .. he needs to realise he can get better. And he is just an option for her and abhir..while Abhinav was alive akshara and abhir only wanted Abhinav. So Abhimanyu needs to let go of her.he can get a woman who’ll love him and not take him as an option. As for Abhinav.. akshara fought for him so many times..she wouldn’t let him go even when he wanted to. So he was the man she wanted to spend her life with and she rejected Abhimanyu so many times for Abhinav 🤷🏻♀️..
Regarding akshara’s love for abhinav or abhimanyu, for me, she never loved anyone including that unborn child who died. All she loves is her core nature and her zidd so her rejection to any man or her acceptance for any man is joke that’s why every time she does second/third marriage in 6 months of time span and there is no weightage in anything she speaks because dusre he pal woh apni he boli baat ko galat sabit kar deti hai.
I read so many times that Abhir rejected abhimanyu but I can’t buy this because as a parent, I only know that janmdene wale mata pita kabhi bhi apne khud ke bacche ke jivan mai second option third option bann he nahi sakte. Yeh sab nazariye ki baat hai.
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