Unfairness with Abhir - Page 3

I know it is difficult. I know it is traumatizing. But abhir should have been informed and they should have let him see the body once .

See the reason why we emphasise on seeing the body once is to the get the closure with that person . So that we don't go in a denial phase . Closure with a person is very important. That's why ppl wait for several hours for family members to come and see the dead person once. It's never easy to see your loved ones dead . Trust me when I say that , at the age of 6 , 16, 26 , 56 ...no matter whatever the age is . It I'd always a traumatizing experience. And whenever you see/ attend the funeral of anyone you will get the flashbacks of that day.

But now this is abhir's reality . He has to live with it. Kab tak ni batayenge usko , wo to aise hi puchta rahega , Kab tak behlayenge.

They locked him in a room in a sane house where the body is kept . So cruel .

Atleast they should show him once , Chale funeral Akshara hi karti , cremation ground par ni le jate .

Ab ink pass is bat ka kya proof h ki Abhinav mar chuka h ? What if abhir refuses to belive them ?? And go in a denial !! Isn't it gonna affect him negativity. He was partying with his dad and suddenly he is nowhere around , everyone saying he will never come back.!! This is itself very traumatizing. What If he starts hallucinating Abhinav. I have seen kids becoming schizophrenic due to traumatizing drastic changes occurring in there lives.

Totally agree.

Also, I never equate anything that happens in fictional shows to real life. So when we are talking about Abhir, I earnestly feel that he should have been able to say last goodbye.

The little man was preparing for Abhinav’s birthday and what will he face now? His health will deteriorate anyway but now it will be coupled with a shock. Abhir loved Abhinav so much. The least they could have done is given the child to say goodbye.


P.S: I also think it was deliberate because the child not knowing will create a huge drama. I am sure the makers have planned something, so I will go with their judgement

Originally posted by: nutmeg7

The little man was preparing for Abhinav’s birthday and what will he face now? His health will deteriorate anyway but now it will be coupled with a shock. Abhir loved Abhinav so much. The least they could have done is given the child to say goodbye.


P.S: I also think it was deliberate because the child not knowing will create a huge drama. I am sure the makers have planned something, so I will go with their judgement

@bold I think it is to lay foundation for Abhir hating docman sequence. Most likely Abhir will hear someone saying that Abhimanyu pushed Abhinav and will blame him.

I don't think they want to end this gen as many are predicting. They've killed Abhinav to drag the story again that otherwise could've reached a conclusive end. So most likely plots like Abhir hating Manyu, Muskaan vs Akshara in future will be the trp generating pts for them.

Yes. True. Has the possibility to happen.

Leave alone everything, but didn't ak had enough time to ask that did abhi pushed him or not?? Or even if she was sure then why didn't she told him that don't worry I wont let abhi off hook. He will be punished. Why that stupidity was going on.

Regarding abhir.. she should tell him because sooner or later he is anyway gonna find it. Like she can hide for a week,a month,or even 3 months but what after that... He is gonna know about it.

I don't see a change in maturity level or how handling a trauma is gonna be different for a kid of 6 years or 6 years and 3 months. I won't create a difference????? Right....

Originally posted by: Kabhi18

Yeah "favouritism" that's why the character is dead now right? Soo much favouritsm. 🙄🙄

Exactly if this is about favouritsm then abhim character would have died in place of abhinav

I was around age 5-6years my grandmother’s sister was dead she is most favourite person than my own grandma….i saw that funerals that has impacted soo much on my mind i had nightmares for years and also now too I can’t attend any funerals because of that…..my mom still apologies to me for that….I’m not saying ak did correct thing but some kids can’t handle such situations like me…

Originally posted by: Harry-potter

Leave alone everything, but didn't ak had enough time to ask that did abhi pushed him or not?? Or even if she was sure then why didn't she told him that don't worry I wont let abhi off hook. He will be punished. Why that stupidity was going on.

Regarding abhir.. she should tell him because sooner or later he is anyway gonna find it. Like she can hide for a week,a month,or even 3 months but what after that... He is gonna know about it.

I don't see a change in maturity level or how handling a trauma is gonna be different for a kid of 6 years or 6 years and 3 months. I won't create a difference????? Right....

@bold I didn't see any stupidity in that.

Abhinav was critical and everyone was eaten with stress and sleep deprived. Then news came that he was out of danger. Akshara went to meet him and they got hardly 10-15 mins before Abhinav's demise.

At that pt, Akshnav were rightly enjoying each-other's presence and were flowing with emotions and memories.

Dr. Birla wasn't even featuring in their priority list bcos:

a) If a loved one narrowly escapes death, one wants to stay just in the moment with them knowing the fear they experienced on the possibility of losing them.

b) A patient who's just got out of danger shouldn't be stressed with questions regarding the accident, especially when they thought the patient will recover soon.

If anything, Akshnav discussing Dr. Birla at that time would've been super duper weird.

Originally posted by: verve

@bold I didn't see any stupidity in that.

Abhinav was critical and everyone was eaten with stress and sleep deprived. Then news came that he was out of danger. Akshara went to meet him and they got hardly 10-15 mins before Abhinav's demise.

At that pt, Akshnav were rightly enjoying each-other's presence and were flowing with emotions and memories.

Dr. Birla wasn't even featuring in their priority list bcos:

a) If a loved one narrowly escapes death, one wants to stay just in the moment with them knowing the fear they experienced on the possibility of losing them.

b) A patient who's just got out of danger shouldn't be stressed with questions regarding the accident, especially when they thought the patient will recover soon.

If anything, Akshnav discussing Dr. Birla at that time would've been super duper weird.

It would be weird if akshara asks him..but it should be the police taking the statement since fir was filed against Dr Birla and statement of the witness/victim was utmost important..

If it was only accident , police need not be informed..its just illogical..

Originally posted by: Krinya

It would be weird if akshara asks him..but it should be the police taking the statement since fir was filed against Dr Birla and statement of the witness/victim was utmost important..

If it was only accident , police need not to informed..its just illogical..

Logic doesn't exist in rishtaverse that's for sure 😆

But here Abhinav's condition deteriorated so fast that even rest of the family didn't get time to meet him. So I found police not coming in for statement reasonable.