If Abhira is next - Page 4

Originally posted by: Aashiqanafan

I believe AK would have not doubted AbhiM at all until BP/Muskaan sows the seed of doubt. AK has been shown to ask AbhiM to help with the surgery so that proves she had no such thoughts abt AbhiM. This is purely BP's doing but I cant blame him either as he has to believe whatever he saw. BP should not have just jumped to his conclusion so soon.

Originally posted by: R.G.C

Yeah, but it can’t be helped, they are not on good terms to show trust. BP and Kairav have been showing distrust from the moment Abhim decided to take Abhinav away. And I do agree to your point that Akshu does not seem to distrust Abhim yet. Maybe because BP claims that he saw with his own eyes Abhim pushing Abhinav thats why Ak believes it, which is also fine. If my dad tells me a guy is red flag I will also side with my dad. Considering Abhim has actually done wrong with Ak in the past, her losing faith him becomes much easier too. I think Abhinav will reveal the truth before dying. Otherwise there is no other way they get cleared of their misunderstandings

Imagine all this drama and then Abhi’s car has a dash cam or something 😂 because Abhinav will die soon most likely before weekend and the allegations may start after so how will Abhinav himself prove Abhimanyu’s innocence.

Originally posted by: cutepigs

And that's the point. She believed Kairav can never hurt anyone even when all proofs were against him, and Kairav, has gone through this trauma twice, when he was blamed for pushing someone because of circumstances. Akshara truly believes she is completely blameless in what happened to Neil, whether right or wrong isn't the point, and hence, she apparently still has trauma with being blamed for his and Sirat's death, so for people who have gone through this twice, and then hated the people who blamed them (Kairav even hated his own mother), it won't make sense if they believe with their eyes closed, no matter who the blame is being pointed to. And if they do, then they need to be accepting of the "negative" tag because even though they went through the same, they didn't learn even empathy, forget sympathy.

I said it should happen that ways because else it shows no growth for the brother and sister, and without that growth, it makes no sense for Abhimanyu to even keep a relationship with anyone in Goenkas except his 2 kids. Mahaan FL needs to mean a growing FL. I didn't find any flaw in her moving on with Abhinav, I found and still find flaw in the way they both made sure Abhimanyu is wiped from Abhir's life, even if he wins.

You’re right. When we completely trust someone we don’t doubt them no matter what others say. If Abhira were in together and let’s say Abhimanyu was accused of pushing someone, we all know Akshara would have supported him but here when it’s her husband who has died, her sister in law and BP saw him, she is likely to believe them. Tbh the current state Abhira are in, Akshara doesn’t have full/blind trust in Abhimanyu so we can’t have those expectations from her.

Originally posted by: Noorain13

Imagine all this drama and then Abhi’s car has a dash cam or something 😂 because Abhinav will die soon most likely before weekend and the allegations may start after so how will Abhinav himself prove Abhimanyu’s innocence.

Originally posted by: Noorain13

You’re right. When we completely trust someone we don’t doubt them no matter what others say. If Abhira were in together and let’s say Abhimanyu was accused of pushing someone, we all know Akshara would have supported him but here when it’s her husband who has died, her sister in law and BP saw him, she is likely to believe them. Tbh the current state Abhira are in, Akshara doesn’t have full/blind trust in Abhimanyu so we can’t have those expectations from her.

Originally posted by: R.G.C

I get it that you have expectations from Ak, but why are there none from Abhim? That is my point. As I mentioned earlier building trust is a two way thing. And no I don’t see any growth in Abhimanyu, might be we are viewing things from different perspectives Idk, but that is how it is. No matter what, Abhir is a child, and Abhim treating him that way is not cool. We expect maturity from adults, not 6 year olds. And about Ak trusting Abhim, the guy has not done anything as such to win her trust so that kind of expectation is not right. Neither do I expect Abhimanyu to understand Ak right now, nor the opposite, because there has been a lot of differences between them in recent times which cannot vanish just like that. Both need to build back that trust organically with time rather than just randomly out of nowhere. That’s not an idealistic situation, Abhim also failed to trust Ak when she was telling him that Kairav didn’t kill Anisha, Abhim also failed to trust her when she was telling him she did not reveal Neil’s DNA test result, Abhim did not trust her during WD either, and all these times they still had the husband-wife relationship binding them. So, why set such expectations from Akshara to trust Abhim over BP while Abhim-Ak don’t have any relationship binding them close anymore? Sorry to say but I don’t see how that viewpoint is neutral either

How is Abhimanyu supposed to build the trust when he is the one who would be questioned? That is again his proving his innocence, not showing trust in anyone. And I am not expecting anything one sided, Abhimanyu trusted Akshara to tell Abhir the truth, the right way, Akshara was the one who got angry because Abhimanyu saw Abhir tensed and no more wanted to live according to her sharte. Akshara didn't trust Abhimanyu with Abhir for a single day, she was over every day, when Abhimanyu requested a few hours of his son's time, she said he can be anything BUT his father and that is something she as the mother will make sure, and she did in the end. Abhimanyu trusted Akshara and Abhinav to never poison Abhir against him, but they did when they said Abhir's father wants to take him away. Abhimanyu showed trust in Akshara and Abhinav when it was needed, he even trusted Muskaan and Kairav, but when has Akshara shown trust on Abhimanyu? She "trusted" him to accept her without explanation after she turns up a year later, but that's not trust, that's her assuming he should live according to her. Trust is given free initially, and then has to be earned. While Abhimanyu lost the trust on WD after losing his brother, his kids and seeing his mother break down as his wife refused to let them mourn because she had to say bye too, Akshara lost it by spending all this time erasing Abhimanyu from Abhir's life and then ensuring Abhir can never love him as a father. For me, Akshara became worse than Abhimanyu the day she allowed Abhinav to say to Abhir that Abhir's father wants to take him away when it was BP who started custody with the condition that Abhir will never find out the truth, because it suited her. She was so over confident of winning that she even told Abhimanyu that she is nice so she'll tell her son when she wants to, which would have come when Abhimanyu was dead, because she didn't tell even when he was dying. As a woman, she had full rights to move on, as a mother, she had full rights to protect her son, but she didn't use the later rights, she rather chose to protect her perfect family illusion than her son.

Lol, he cannot build trust like that, that’s why I am saying problem is in the expectation that she should trust not in Abhim or Akshara😆. The story didn’t start from Ak hiding truth from Abhir, the started from WD where Abhim broke her trust and then one thing lead to another, its like domino effect as everything started falling from there. Its clear from the reply that its not a neutral stance and you too have a side so its useless I go on and on about this. Akshara is free to not trust Abhimanyu anymore as they are not even friends currently. When they had a bond, it was always Akshara showing faith towards him while him always questioning her, so now that that bond also does not exist, it makes it easier for both sides to mistrust. Abhim indeed started the custody battle, BP reignited the flames, so making it look like Abhim has no fault there is again no comments. He retaliated to Kairav’s restraining order although Akshar went to talk to him about that but he didn’t listen to her. Akshnav could have said a lot more about Abhimanyu but they didn’t, because of Abhir. Again in promo it seems Abhir does not know about what happened at the cliff. So no, they are not brainwashing the child. They are just dumb people. They were so dumb that they made themselves look bad in front of the kid by making him believe he was a financial burden to send him to Abhimanyu😆. I don’t even know moving on and protecting son point kyun hi aa raha iss conversation mein when your original post is about Akshara obliged to show trust but okay😆. I’ll end the conversation from my end here.

Originally posted by: R.G.C

No bro, car ka dashcam hai, kaha hi HD quality mein video record kare (unless Abhim is using a gopro or something as a dashcam alternative😆), yaha humare BP ke aankho ko dhoka ho gaya to dashcam kya hi cheez hai🤣 but these writers can do just anything so we never know🤣

Originally posted by: --Priyaa--

I think Akshara knows how it feels to be blamed when innocent..she was in a similar situation years back..so she should understand Abhimanyu’s situation..He is willing to care Abhinav and do his surgery..he was also trying to save Abhinav who slipped and fell..which indicates he is probably innocent..though drinking near the cliff was not the best decision taken by both Abhinav and Abhimanyu..

I don't think so. The first reaction would always be grief , the logical mind takes after ..can't blame akshara when abhim reacted in far worse manner and failed to listen to akshara that time...contrary to the wd when they separated for 6 yrs , this time the mu won't last for long as it's supposed to bring the leads together . So akshara will def be the better person here .

Trust and Akshara can’t be used in same sentence. The woman who was given assurance by husband in his own sisters abetment to suicide about Kairav that he’ll be Kairavs rock if there’s proof - in my opinion gaslighted the same Abhimanyu in the name of trust issues when he went back to search proof she said she had kept in his room.

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