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Posted: 2 years ago
#11

And that's the point. She believed Kairav can never hurt anyone even when all proofs were against him, and Kairav, has gone through this trauma twice, when he was blamed for pushing someone because of circumstances. Akshara truly believes she is completely blameless in what happened to Neil, whether right or wrong isn't the point, and hence, she apparently still has trauma with being blamed for his and Sirat's death, so for people who have gone through this twice, and then hated the people who blamed them (Kairav even hated his own mother), it won't make sense if they believe with their eyes closed, no matter who the blame is being pointed to. And if they do, then they need to be accepting of the "negative" tag because even though they went through the same, they didn't learn even empathy, forget sympathy.

I said it should happen that ways because else it shows no growth for the brother and sister, and without that growth, it makes no sense for Abhimanyu to even keep a relationship with anyone in Goenkas except his 2 kids. Mahaan FL needs to mean a growing FL. I didn't find any flaw in her moving on with Abhinav, I found and still find flaw in the way they both made sure Abhimanyu is wiped from Abhir's life, even if he wins.

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: cutepigs

If Abhira is supposed to be the next ship, the only way it would seem natural, is if Akshara redeems herself when it comes to believing Abhi. She was also on the cliff and saw the same things as BP, and she knows from day 1 what kind of person Abhimanyu is, she knows he saves life by giving his all, and the only time she sort of got angry on him was when the machines caught fire, and that time also she said his "laparwahi" , she knew it can never be deliberate.


When Muskaan does this, I was Akshara to stand by Abhimanyu and say this to her and BP, that she knows Abhimanyu as a person and he would never do what you guys are accusing him of. She has only mistrusted him till now, even when he was trying to get Abhir to reduce his temper on Akshara and Abhinav, it was her and her pati handling the situation that made Abhir so uncomfortable because they painted Abhimanyu the boogeyman even before the custody started. Abhimanyu has shown complete trust in Akshara throughout this journey, yes he didn't trust her when it came to legal action, but then she was the first one to threaten, so it seems a natural jump.


The simple answer to this is that Abhira is not next😆.....at this point, only "next" is blame games over Nav's death.....makers haven't managed to think beyond that to whether they want any love story in the show again😆


They are still "testing the waters" by showing token scenes of Ak falling into Abhi's arms to cry in the midst of her worry for Nav😆


It is very VERY unlikely that Ak will stand by Abhimanyu for this situation....the intent seems to be to do a half-baked WD parallel by showing Abhi experiencing death blames from everyone....so for now they will just get drama from the blame games. Not sure if they have thought far enough about wanting any "growth" in the FL or the Goenkas in terms of their skewed perception about Abhimanyu😆

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: AreYaar


The simple answer to this is that Abhira is not next😆.....at this point, only "next" is blame games over Nav's death.....makers haven't managed to think beyond that to whether they want any love story in the show again😆


They are still "testing the waters" by showing token scenes of Ak falling into Abhi's arms to cry in the midst of her worry for Nav😆


It is very VERY unlikely that Ak will stand by Abhimanyu for this situation....the intent seems to be to do a half-baked WD parallel by showing Abhi experiencing death blames from everyone....so for now they will just get drama from the blame games. Not sure if they have thought far enough about wanting any "growth" in the FL or the Goenkas in terms of their skewed perception about Abhimanyu😆

So basically same thing, they'll blame Abhi for something he didn't do, and then send Abhir over to him as an "apology" and he will happily accept it because "mujhe maaf kar diya". Either Akshara needs to have growth, or Abhimanyu needs to stop being a doormat. Both are getting annoying to see.

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: cutepigs

So basically same thing, they'll blame Abhi for something he didn't do, and then send Abhir over to him as an "apology" and he will happily accept it because "mujhe maaf kar diya". Either Akshara needs to have growth, or Abhimanyu needs to stop being a doormat. Both are getting annoying to see.


Well from Abhimanyu, there is still hope for some savage truth bombs in between even if he never stops caring for her😆.


But from Ak, one really can't expect anything other than her usual flip-flops or gaslighting Abhimanyu to demand he do what she wants😆


And yeah, Abhir is pretty much a lollipop that is passed back and forth for pacifying people 😆.....All he needs to say is "Docman aap best ho" and matter is closed 😆


I really wish they'd give the kid better dialogues....lol even Ruhi gets WAY better dialogues than him these days....but all Abhir gets is "Yeh best hai, woh best hai, yeh best se better hai"🤔😆

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: cutepigs

And that's the point. She believed Kairav can never hurt anyone even when all proofs were against him, and Kairav, has gone through this trauma twice, when he was blamed for pushing someone because of circumstances. Akshara truly believes she is completely blameless in what happened to Neil, whether right or wrong isn't the point, and hence, she apparently still has trauma with being blamed for his and Sirat's death, so for people who have gone through this twice, and then hated the people who blamed them (Kairav even hated his own mother), it won't make sense if they believe with their eyes closed, no matter who the blame is being pointed to. And if they do, then they need to be accepting of the "negative" tag because even though they went through the same, they didn't learn even empathy, forget sympathy.

I said it should happen that ways because else it shows no growth for the brother and sister, and without that growth, it makes no sense for Abhimanyu to even keep a relationship with anyone in Goenkas except his 2 kids. Mahaan FL needs to mean a growing FL. I didn't find any flaw in her moving on with Abhinav, I found and still find flaw in the way they both made sure Abhimanyu is wiped from Abhir's life, even if he wins.

Well said ❤️

Couldn’t have said any better. 👏🏻

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Posted: 2 years ago
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I don’t know whom was your comment addressed to because there are so many people tagged, but since I am also tagged here😆, this is my reply.


She believed Kairav was innocent because she knew both Kairav and Anisha, by then. She was aware of Anisha’s affair too, so I am sure she had a judgement of her by then. Kairav was her brother, they had a relation between them, so she had that trust on him too. In current situation, Abhimanyu has no relation with Akshara, in fact he broke her trust long back, so there is no point of her trusting him over her BP😆. And this is not the same case as Neil’s death. Neil ko gundo ne mara tha tab bhi blame Akshara pe gaya tha, yaha Akshara ke khudke BP is claiming to have seem Abhimanyu pushing Abhinav😆. Negligence was shown in both cases by both pairs (Ak-Neil and Navmanyu) but still it’s neither Abhimanyu’s fault now, nor was it Akshara’s fault back then😆, just some really poor decision making skills🤣.


Anyways, in current scenario Akshara has no reason to trust Abhimanyu. I am sure when she was married to him she must have trusted him too, but still WD happened😆. Right now there is infinite amount of sourness and distrust in their relationship which is perfectly understandable considering the situations they are in, so expecting her to trust the Abhimanyu Birla she used to know 6-7 years back is pointless, lol.


Not just FL, Mahan ML also needs to grow up and realise his mistakes🤣. He cannot just go around and try to make others live on his sharte. He is also still the same. The way he treated Abhir earlier was the same as he he treated Ak back then, pushing/throwing people away if things don’t go as per his wish😆. Abhim also needs to apologise to Akshara properly. Saying just, “I am sorry, mujhe Sirat maa wali baat nahi bolni chahiye thi” says nothing, to Abhim- no bro tune aur bhi bohot kuch bola aur kiya tha jiske liye you should be sorry😆. And Ak did apologise to Abhim for causing this situation in that episode where he gives Abhir back to them, but she was criticised anyways for rubbing salt to his wounds, to uss se better hai bandi na hi sorry bole🤣. Bole to problem, na bole to problem, to zarurat hi kya hai efforts daalne ke😆.


Abhira anyways does not make much sense anymore, DKP is just going to experiment with them until TRPs tank again😆. Post that either Gen4 or closing the show😆

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: cutepigs

If Abhira is supposed to be the next ship, the only way it would seem natural, is if Akshara redeems herself when it comes to believing Abhi. She was also on the cliff and saw the same things as BP, and she knows from day 1 what kind of person Abhimanyu is, she knows he saves life by giving his all, and the only time she sort of got angry on him was when the machines caught fire, and that time also she said his "laparwahi" , she knew it can never be deliberate.


When Muskaan does this, I was Akshara to stand by Abhimanyu and say this to her and BP, that she knows Abhimanyu as a person and he would never do what you guys are accusing him of. She has only mistrusted him till now, even when he was trying to get Abhir to reduce his temper on Akshara and Abhinav, it was her and her pati handling the situation that made Abhir so uncomfortable because they painted Abhimanyu the boogeyman even before the custody started. Abhimanyu has shown complete trust in Akshara throughout this journey, yes he didn't trust her when it came to legal action, but then she was the first one to threaten, so it seems a natural jump.

Nice dream!!!🤣🤣🤣

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: R.G.C

I don’t know whom was your comment addressed to because there are so many people tagged, but since I am also tagged here😆, this is my reply.


She believed Kairav was innocent because she knew both Kairav and Anisha, by then. She was aware of Anisha’s affair too, so I am sure she had a judgement of her by then. Kairav was her brother, they had a relation between them, so she had that trust on him too. In current situation, Abhimanyu has no relation with Akshara, in fact he broke her trust long back, so there is no point of her trusting him over her BP😆. And this is not the same case as Neil’s death. Neil ko gundo ne mara tha tab bhi blame Akshara pe gaya tha, yaha Akshara ke khudke BP is claiming to have seem Abhimanyu pushing Abhinav😆. Negligence was shown in both cases by both pairs (Ak-Neil and Navmanyu) but still it’s neither Abhimanyu’s fault now, nor was it Akshara’s fault back then😆, just some really poor decision making skills🤣.


Anyways, in current scenario Akshara has no reason to trust Abhimanyu. I am sure when she was married to him she must have trusted him too, but still WD happened😆. Right now there is infinite amount of sourness and distrust in their relationship which is perfectly understandable considering the situations they are in, so expecting her to trust the Abhimanyu Birla she used to know 6-7 years back is pointless, lol.


Not just FL, Mahan ML also needs to grow up and realise his mistakes🤣. He cannot just go around and try to make others live on his sharte. He is also still the same. The way he treated Abhir earlier was the same as he he treated Ak back then, pushing/throwing people away if things don’t go as per his wish😆. Abhim also needs to apologise to Akshara properly. Saying just, “I am sorry, mujhe Sirat maa wali baat nahi bolni chahiye thi” says nothing, to Abhim- no bro tune aur bhi bohot kuch bola aur kiya tha jiske liye you should be sorry😆. And Ak did apologise to Abhim for causing this situation in that episode where he gives Abhir back to them, but she was criticised anyways for rubbing salt to his wounds, to uss se better hai bandi na hi sorry bole🤣. Bole to problem, na bole to problem, to zarurat hi kya hai efforts daalne ke😆.


Abhira anyways does not make much sense anymore, DKP is just going to experiment with them until TRPs tank again😆. Post that either Gen4 or closing the show😆

Mahan ML is exactly what I am saying, that him being a doormat makes no sense.

And sorry, if Akshara was truly sorry about the way she handled stuff and that's why Abhimanyu lost Abhir, she would have had one scene with Abhir explaining everything to him and making him understand the best she could that calling him Dada and loving him doesn't mean he doesn't love his mumma papa, so he shouldn't go back to docman just to prove that. She would have explained to Abhir that mumma papa can also make mistakes and they made that when they did what they did but Abhir and Abhimanyu shouldn't pay for it. If Abhimanyu should feel sorry for everything and hence "reign" his mother in, Akshara needs to do the same for her actions, which she didn't. Even Abhinav didn't, he can and should be happy with what he has, but saying it all to Abhimanyu when the whole trip was planned to make Abhimanyu happy, makes no sense.

Abhimanyu never tried to make Abhir live on his sharte, he never stopped him from meeting his parents, in fact took him and tried to reduce his temper on them for sending him the way he did, and only went to pick Abhir when Abhir called.

But I have come to realize that this portal has a lot of people who have sides, and I don't think either of us would see each others at this rate. I find both the leads at fault and Abhimanyu has at least tried to grow, while Akshara hasn't. If she can trust him enough to beg him to give more than 100% on her husband because she "knows" he gives 100%, then she needs to "know" he would never kill anyone, else it is exactly what other topics are also saying, she flips flops from using Abhimanyu and expecting him to do as she wants (expecting him to give up custody in court instead of stopping her BP from setting rules because it worked for her) and between screaming on him for everything (even her son being upset which she and her pati did by calling him a liability).

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Yeah, I do agree to the point that both leads are at fault. That’s why I feel expectations to mend things should also not be on one. And telling Abhir to call Abhim Dada is like forcing him. The kid is surely uncomfortable otherwise wo khud Dada se Docman kyun banaega Abhim ko? Anyways, keeping that aside, the point is Akshara’s redemption is often talked but has Abhim redeemed himself too? And when I said he pushes people away if things don’t go as per him, I was referring to the scene where Abhir tries to hug Abhimanyu and he pushes him. Jo bhi ho jaye you are the adult in this, and that kid is a kid, bachho ko kaise treat karna hai itna to decency hona chahiye, bhale hi kitna bhi dil kyun na toota ho kisika. And about being controlling, let me just not start there😆. And no I am not denying Akshara’s faults, she has done her fair share of mistakes but having this expectation only from her to trust him is not right IMO, because as per the current story they are not on the same page, and considering Abhimanyu having broken her trust because of his own mistrust, it is no more easy for Ak to trust him back either. She in fact said it herself when Manju’s kaand was revealed post MuKa ki shadi earlier, that she can not trust them. Trust is not something jo ainvai de di jaye, you should have that kind of bond first. Abhira bond was long broken😆. And if expectations are kept only from one end to show trust in order to rebuild the relationship, then I don’t see where the neutrality lies

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Even if akshara shows the slightest sign of trusting abhimanyu, would it be all to redeem her of her crimes , manipulations , disrespectful behavior.

And all things aside , would she be accepted after moving on from her second husband as well , as it was understandable with abhimanyu's case because she was a bad wife but for abhinav she indeed deemed him as her soul love.

How insensitive it would have appeared if any man was shown to move on after the death of his wife whom he claimed to love and fostered a child with for 6 years . Since akshara is clearly gonna go back and act like she loves abhimanyu , it can be inferred that she loves none but just herself.

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